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re: A guide for men online dating – from a female perspective

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Posted by Festus
With Skillet
Member since Nov 2009
86057 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 12:49 pm to
30's and 40's is badass when you're in your 50's, imho.
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
38006 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 12:49 pm to
I agree. I wouldn't go for a pre-made family
Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
76551 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 12:49 pm to
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I am a little uppity I guess? So what


It is a very unattractive trait in anyone but especially women. If you are an extremely accomplished and attractive like Goldennugget then you might get a pass...

What do you feel you have done to warrant being uppity?

A short list is fine.
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
42988 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 12:49 pm to
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I would never raise another man's kid

3 billion women in this planet

No need to settle for one who had poor judgement like that


I get mean mugged every time someone in my circle asks me about that. It's true though.

Posted by Groovie
San Diego,California
Member since Aug 2013
460 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 12:49 pm to
The first girl I met online in California left 5 minutes into the date because she hated my southern accent so much. Some chicks are just looney.
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
16361 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 12:49 pm to
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Sorry but im not going to be cool with my gf letting herself go



lol at you and your girlfriend. Wake me up when you're married and she's got a "hormonal imbalance" and you're not cool with it. The drill sarge approach will probably be the way to go.

FYI, no college age girl plans on letting herself go. Where are all those hot bodies in 10 years?
Posted by BilJ
Member since Sep 2003
162126 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 12:49 pm to
didn't y'all go to the same HS christie?
Posted by LadyTigress
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2017
632 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 12:50 pm to
I agree w you on this. I saw your list for dating pre-req.s for women...Don't agree w/ the social drinking one, but pretty much everything else made sense.
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
38006 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 12:50 pm to
Californians suck. They ruined my home town
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
82757 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 12:50 pm to
Don't get me wrong - having money is always a positive thing. But there are plenty dudes with money who don't get a second glance because they're unattractive or goofy/insecure. Sure, the ideal man is attractive and rich, but that's a unicorn and most women care more about the former.

Really, though.. I feel like it's a sliding scale. The more confident you are and the more you have your shite together, the little lower on the attractiveness scale you can be. You don't have to be a 10, but you have to make up for it in other ways. Confidence is a big one. Dressing well, not being a fricking weirdo conversationally, etc.

I'm completely talking out of my arse. This is just what I tend to think.
This post was edited on 5/19/17 at 12:51 pm
Posted by sweetwaterbilly
Member since Mar 2017
19588 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 12:51 pm to
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I agree. I wouldn't go for a pre-made family


Yep. For every case where the whole dad/mom/step-dad arrangement works out well, there's probably 10 that are an absolute mess.

And like goldennuggett said, there's no reason to voluntarily get into something like that.
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
38006 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 12:51 pm to
They are brainwashed into thinking they will have an 18 year old body for life
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41887 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 12:51 pm to
Unless you have "frick you money" - I don't think it matters that much.

What lifestyle can I provide at 100k per year that another guy can't provide at 60k? For example. Negligible difference, imo

Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26243 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 12:52 pm to
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If you don't have money, she will frick you for the sex, and some other guy for his money. That's science.



Exactly

Never let a woman you are trying to date/frick know you have money

Better off being alone than being in a relationship with a woman using you for money and resources

Also if a woman knows you have money she will all of a sudden go "Oh i better hide my slutty side and let him know I am totally not like that so I don't mess things up with this guy even though I will blow an unemployed Chad in a bar bathroom because he gave me the tingles" and go into prude mode withholding sex

If you aren't getting a woman's best you need to exit the relationship
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
148403 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 12:52 pm to
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agree with him, rocket,
same here.:.:: people give them shite because they don't like living in reality. They speak the truth.
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
38006 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 12:52 pm to
Most of my employees are a mess but the positive is that when I am seeing someone they know I can play around there if I so chose to.
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 12:53 pm to
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lol at you and your girlfriend. Wake me up when you're married and she's got a "hormonal imbalance" and you're not cool with it


a piece of paper and a ring are going to magically make this hormonal imbalance happen?

quote:

FYI, no college age girl plans on letting herself go. Where are all those hot bodies in 10 years?



Yea I dont believe anyone purposely lets themselves go but it takes a lot of effort to get fat. It also doesnt happen overnight.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
58514 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 12:53 pm to
I've been on a bumble binge for the last few months. It's been rough

Basically every girl under 25 is "applying to ot/pt/pa school next year" and every girl over 25 is a nurse and acts like its a 24/7/365 job
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26243 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 12:53 pm to
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Don't agree w/ the social drinking one, but pretty much everything else made sense.


To clarify

It's one thing if a woman goes out every now and then

But I am talking about the ones who get tanked every weekend and have to be the life of the party

Party girls
Posted by LadyTigress
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2017
632 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 12:53 pm to
Not sure who Christie is? I went to a private school in BR. Not naming which one. We save that as the in-person opener, right? Prob have answered that a hundred times in BR. annoying.
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