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re: A day I've long feared has arrived - Updated OP coming clean with the full story

Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:44 pm to
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11525 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:44 pm to
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I only ever pulled out during this time, so it's probably the other guy's kid and the sisters are just creating drama for the sake of it. His mom has dark hair and eyes like me, so the kid having dark hair/eyes isn't evidence.


You don’t think he’d just do a DNA test with his dad before contacting you? Come on.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
58853 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:45 pm to
quote:


Ok, then what?

Well that's for him and you to figure out. The least you can do is call him.
Posted by MemphisGuy
Germantown, TN
Member since Nov 2023
10676 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:47 pm to
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So, in your mind, "doing the right thing" was lying to her boyfriend (now husband) about a kid being his, and lying to her kid about who his real father was?



Yeah, but hey... he didn't have to worry about a child, didn't have to help take care of a child and didn't have to support a child. And will perfectly happy to let another man raise his child.

I'd say that this child got off lucky not ever knowing him and quite frankly am beginning to feel sorry for his current kids if this is the kind of person he truly is.
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
15790 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:49 pm to
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Hopefully this goes down in a much more classy and respectful way. It’s definitely his mom regardless of being yours or not.




That's why I haven't responded yet. I really don't want to share sexual details about someone's mom, which is what this boils down to. He heard I had sex with his mother around the time he could have been conceived. She also had sex with someone else around this time. I usually didn't finish when we had sex, and the time in question I pulled out and came on her back, so I don't think he's mine, but it is possible. How do I convey that info in a classy way?

Posted by CaptSpaulding
Member since Feb 2012
6856 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:50 pm to
Posted by rocksteady
Member since Sep 2013
1768 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:51 pm to
Recreate the scene and send a pic “I don’t think it’s likely”
Posted by CBLSU316
Far Right of Left
Member since Jun 2008
11408 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:51 pm to
quote:

How many baby mama's do you have?


Twenty tree baby mudda……reaaaal bad man.
Posted by Rick9Plus
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2020
2224 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:52 pm to
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Do you know how to contact the mother of the young man? Can you get info from her before you talk with him??


OP is worried about his wife’s reaction. If she found out about the kid AND that this guy is talking to the babymamma behind her back, that will make things worse.
Posted by tigerfan84
Member since Dec 2003
23385 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:52 pm to
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I've got 7 kids now


Antonio Cromartie?
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
39238 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:53 pm to
What if maybe he wants to tell him (the OP) that his mom died?

Idk. I’m too curious that I’d have to find out what he wanted.
Posted by A Menace to Sobriety
Member since Jun 2018
31782 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:53 pm to
Your pull out game sucks arse my man.
Posted by TheOcean
#honeyfriedchicken
Member since Aug 2004
44328 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:53 pm to
Just tell him you're gay and all of your children are IVF
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
39238 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:54 pm to
The 30 year old may not want a relationship either.

Maybe he needs to just know medical history .. ie cardiac/cancer/kidney.
Posted by Meauxjeaux
98836 posts including my alters
Member since Jun 2005
43392 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:54 pm to
Honestly I wonder if I have one similar and would live to find out if I do.

I have a couple older kids all who would be younger but would seriously welcome it.

Just my perspective.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
82848 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:55 pm to
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Just tell him you're gay and all of your children are IVF


or sperm donor to make extra money while in hvac school?
Posted by Rick9Plus
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2020
2224 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:55 pm to
Also, OP doesn’t even need to take a DNA test. If any of his relatives uploaded theirs to 23 and me, that plus the history would be enough to know. I say he comes clean to his wife before someone else tells her.
Posted by moneyg
Member since Jun 2006
59311 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:56 pm to
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him. I've got 7 kids now and really don't have a desire to find out I have an 8th man-child from a past life


That makes you an extreme POS.

It is what it is. No changing that.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
39238 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:56 pm to
But in fairness he didn’t have the opportunity to do so.

If the mom didn’t tell him how the hell was he able to know??
Posted by Rick9Plus
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2020
2224 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:57 pm to
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If the mom didn’t tell him how the hell was he able to know??


He must have known for a while. Otherwise, how would he know why the guy is contacting him?
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
15790 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:57 pm to
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You really are coming off like a total piece of shite in this thread.




You're coming off as stupid.

quote:

So, in your mind, "doing the right thing" was lying to her boyfriend (now husband) about a kid being his, and lying to her kid about who his real father was?



I had sex with her and then she left town and likely a day or 2 later her future husband and the person she decided to spend her life with had sex with her. 6 weeks later she finds out she's pregnant and her future husband and her start making plans and decide to get married.

In your stupid arse mind, she should have said "wait, no, hold on now, we don't know who the father of this baby is, let's see if it belongs to my alcoholic, drug addicted, street thug of an ex boyfriend in Louisiana because if so, I'm going to want find out so I can blow up our future"

I swear you frickers are fully retarded.
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