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re: A day I've long feared has arrived - Updated OP coming clean with the full story
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:44 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:44 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
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I only ever pulled out during this time, so it's probably the other guy's kid and the sisters are just creating drama for the sake of it. His mom has dark hair and eyes like me, so the kid having dark hair/eyes isn't evidence.
You don’t think he’d just do a DNA test with his dad before contacting you? Come on.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:45 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
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Ok, then what?
Well that's for him and you to figure out. The least you can do is call him.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:47 pm to Hold That Tiger 10
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So, in your mind, "doing the right thing" was lying to her boyfriend (now husband) about a kid being his, and lying to her kid about who his real father was?
Yeah, but hey... he didn't have to worry about a child, didn't have to help take care of a child and didn't have to support a child. And will perfectly happy to let another man raise his child.
I'd say that this child got off lucky not ever knowing him and quite frankly am beginning to feel sorry for his current kids if this is the kind of person he truly is.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:49 pm to dallastigers
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Hopefully this goes down in a much more classy and respectful way. It’s definitely his mom regardless of being yours or not.
That's why I haven't responded yet. I really don't want to share sexual details about someone's mom, which is what this boils down to. He heard I had sex with his mother around the time he could have been conceived. She also had sex with someone else around this time. I usually didn't finish when we had sex, and the time in question I pulled out and came on her back, so I don't think he's mine, but it is possible. How do I convey that info in a classy way?
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:51 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
Recreate the scene and send a pic “I don’t think it’s likely”
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:51 pm to HoustonChick86
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How many baby mama's do you have?
Twenty tree baby mudda……reaaaal bad man.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:52 pm to tiger91
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Do you know how to contact the mother of the young man? Can you get info from her before you talk with him??
OP is worried about his wife’s reaction. If she found out about the kid AND that this guy is talking to the babymamma behind her back, that will make things worse.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:52 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
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I've got 7 kids now
Antonio Cromartie?
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:53 pm to rocksteady
What if maybe he wants to tell him (the OP) that his mom died?
Idk. I’m too curious that I’d have to find out what he wanted.
Idk. I’m too curious that I’d have to find out what he wanted.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:53 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
Your pull out game sucks arse my man.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:53 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
Just tell him you're gay and all of your children are IVF
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:54 pm to GreenRockTiger
The 30 year old may not want a relationship either.
Maybe he needs to just know medical history .. ie cardiac/cancer/kidney.

Maybe he needs to just know medical history .. ie cardiac/cancer/kidney.

Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:54 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
Honestly I wonder if I have one similar and would live to find out if I do.
I have a couple older kids all who would be younger but would seriously welcome it.
Just my perspective.
I have a couple older kids all who would be younger but would seriously welcome it.
Just my perspective.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:55 pm to TheOcean
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Just tell him you're gay and all of your children are IVF
or sperm donor to make extra money while in hvac school?
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:55 pm to tiger91
Also, OP doesn’t even need to take a DNA test. If any of his relatives uploaded theirs to 23 and me, that plus the history would be enough to know. I say he comes clean to his wife before someone else tells her.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:56 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
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him. I've got 7 kids now and really don't have a desire to find out I have an 8th man-child from a past life
That makes you an extreme POS.
It is what it is. No changing that.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:56 pm to MemphisGuy
But in fairness he didn’t have the opportunity to do so.
If the mom didn’t tell him how the hell was he able to know??
If the mom didn’t tell him how the hell was he able to know??
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:57 pm to tiger91
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If the mom didn’t tell him how the hell was he able to know??
He must have known for a while. Otherwise, how would he know why the guy is contacting him?
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:57 pm to Hold That Tiger 10
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You really are coming off like a total piece of shite in this thread.
You're coming off as stupid.
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So, in your mind, "doing the right thing" was lying to her boyfriend (now husband) about a kid being his, and lying to her kid about who his real father was?
I had sex with her and then she left town and likely a day or 2 later her future husband and the person she decided to spend her life with had sex with her. 6 weeks later she finds out she's pregnant and her future husband and her start making plans and decide to get married.
In your stupid arse mind, she should have said "wait, no, hold on now, we don't know who the father of this baby is, let's see if it belongs to my alcoholic, drug addicted, street thug of an ex boyfriend in Louisiana because if so, I'm going to want find out so I can blow up our future"
I swear you frickers are fully retarded.
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