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re: 9-year-old commits suicide after coming out as gay to his classmates
Posted on 8/27/18 at 9:03 pm to tgrbaitn08
Posted on 8/27/18 at 9:03 pm to tgrbaitn08
quote:
Adam came first. He was alone. God created Eve to give him company and give a companion to reproduce with. It’s not that complicated.
So?
Adam apparently didn’t have to urge to frick a chimpanzee.
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Posted on 8/27/18 at 9:04 pm to fallguy_1978
quote:Marcia Brady/Lori Partridge
Daisy Duke for me but I didn't really figure out what to do with it until about 12-13.
at the same time
Posted on 8/27/18 at 9:04 pm to Glorious
I think his point is that a 9 year old doesn’t make the conscious decision that they want to frick girls. I know I sure didn’t. I was attracted to girls even earlier than that, but I never remember sitting down and thinking, yep, I like chicks
Posted on 8/27/18 at 9:05 pm to Glorious
quote:
You’re honestly telling me that you didn’t have a crush until almost middle school
I definitely didn't understand sexuality at 9 or 10 or 11. I flirted with girls by giving them Indian burns at that age. I didn't really understand real physical attraction until maybe 13.
Posted on 8/27/18 at 9:07 pm to Pecker
quote:That's all learned behavior. He is rewarded in some manner for behaving like that. Probably learned it garners him attention.
I played T-ball with this kid named Benjamin when I was like 4 years old. This kid walked funny and wore his hat funny and he threw funny. I knew something was off.
Posted on 8/27/18 at 9:07 pm to Kentucker
quote:
He saw only one alternative to his pain and took it. It's all too common, I'm afraid.
9 year olds committing suicide because they think they're gay is common?! Hell, 9 year olds committing suicide is common?
I think there's a lot more to this story.
Posted on 8/27/18 at 9:09 pm to stuntman
quote:
I think there's a lot more to this story.
How about nutty liberal parents for $600, Alex?
Maybe they convinced this kid he was gay assuming they were acting "inclusive".
Posted on 8/27/18 at 9:09 pm to fallguy_1978
I knew I was straight in 3rd and 4th grade
Posted on 8/27/18 at 9:11 pm to fallguy_1978
quote:
I definitely didn't understand sexuality at 9 or 10 or 11. I flirted with girls by giving them Indian burns at that age. I didn't really understand real physical attraction until maybe 13.
Well sure. But just because you didn’t understand physical attraction doesn’t mean you didn’t have it. I liked seeing my 1st crush with her hair down because I thought she looked prettier like that
Posted on 8/27/18 at 9:12 pm to tiggerthetooth
quote:
How about nutty liberal parents for $600, Alex?
Maybe they convinced this kid he was gay assuming they were acting "inclusive".
Yuuup.
Posted on 8/27/18 at 9:13 pm to Bustedsack
I'm not sure where the parents failed worse here: encouraging their 9 year old son to decide his sexual orientation (because there's no way he did that shite by himself) or failing to instill in him the sense that life is precious and a you don't get a do over after death (I seriously doubt he wanted to actually kill himself; he was probably just feeling ashamed)
Posted on 8/27/18 at 9:13 pm to fallguy_1978
quote:
I definitely didn't understand sexuality at 9 or 10 or 11. I flirted with girls by giving them Indian burns at that age. I didn't really understand real physical attraction until maybe 13.
Right. Just because a little boy has a crush on a girl it doesn't mean he has any real understanding of orientation. The crushes I had at that age were superficial in the extreme. I was like a dog chasing a car. I had no idea what I'd even do with it if I caught it.
Posted on 8/27/18 at 9:13 pm to Tester1216
quote:
Adam apparently didn’t have to urge to frick a chimpanzee.
Exactly. Thanks for making my point.
Posted on 8/27/18 at 9:13 pm to TheCaterpillar
I have a few friends that are gay and they have all told me that they knew they were gay at a very young age. I guess we wouldn’t understand it unless we were in their shoes.
Posted on 8/27/18 at 9:14 pm to TheCaterpillar
quote:
I knew I was straight in 3rd and 4th grade
I didn't even know what straight vs gay was in the 3rd or 4th grade. Did I know that I liked girls? Maybe I guess but I definitely wasn't at an age where I even understood these things deeply enough to come out straight or gay.
It's sad for the kid. I'm almost positive he had shitty parents.
Posted on 8/27/18 at 9:15 pm to Glorious
quote:
You’re honestly telling me that you didn’t have a crush until almost middle school
Sure I did, I used to play house with the twins that lived next door too. However, I never told anyone about it, especially my class mates. I felt like show me yours and I’ll show you mine was breaking the law.
It’s bizzare that kid was advanced enough to feel the desire to discuss sexuality with his peers. I have to think that some adult has explored sexuality with him. Too advanced for a 9 year old.
Posted on 8/27/18 at 9:15 pm to tiggerthetooth
quote:
How about nutty liberal parents for $600, Alex?
Maybe they convinced this kid he was gay assuming they were acting "inclusive".
Yep. They made this poor kid believe he was gay
Posted on 8/27/18 at 9:15 pm to OWLFAN86
Brooke Shields in the Blue Lagoon.
Posted on 8/27/18 at 9:15 pm to Robin Masters
quote:
My kid is 10. He is completely asexual. I doubt he can even fathom “lust” or “sex appeal”.
At least you got this part completely right.
Yes, all children are completely asexual. They don't begin to experience sexual feelings until after pubescence. Those feelings will usually be for the opposite sex. However, they do develop an affinity for the gender of their predetermined orientation.
A boy will develop an affinity for males and a girl will develop the same for females. Again, these are not sexual feelings.
Unfortunately for some boys, their affinity will be for females, such as the little boy in the OP, and their later sexual feelings will be for males. The opposite can happen for some girls.
With our current cumulative understanding, these orientations of developing children are not alterable. Attempts to do can result in extreme damage to, or even the deaths of, children.
Posted on 8/27/18 at 9:16 pm to Cdawg
that'll do it
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