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5 tips for married men to help with their struggling marriage
Posted on 12/21/17 at 10:01 am
Posted on 12/21/17 at 10:01 am
Judgment free zone here. You do not have to self-identify.
I've seen a good number of posts recently (and throughout a quick search of TD OT history) that indicate that many married men in here, myself excluded, are struggling to find relations once again with their wife. The battle cry I often read is that "it's gone."
Stresses of work, different priorities, after school activities, a male co-worker, Chad (and not our Chad504), who suddenly best friend's with your wife, weight gain or bellying up to the bar at Hooters can all wreak havoc on getting her engine up and running for you.
Here are 5 tips that, based upon my intensive research have helped even the most stressful marriage on the brink of divorce to being love birds again, even going so far as to tearing and shredding up the pre-nup.
1. Helping with housework without being asked is as romantic as bringing her flowers.
2."Little gestures” create a loving atmosphere.
3. Tender words and gentle hugs without sexual overtures are vital.
4. Letting her know she’s more important than everything makes her feel special.
5. Talking and sharing are crucial to a lively relationship.
Change starts from within and it starts with you. Nothing changes if nothing changes.
These 5 little tips have allowed my relationship to go from this:
to this:
I've seen a good number of posts recently (and throughout a quick search of TD OT history) that indicate that many married men in here, myself excluded, are struggling to find relations once again with their wife. The battle cry I often read is that "it's gone."
Stresses of work, different priorities, after school activities, a male co-worker, Chad (and not our Chad504), who suddenly best friend's with your wife, weight gain or bellying up to the bar at Hooters can all wreak havoc on getting her engine up and running for you.
Here are 5 tips that, based upon my intensive research have helped even the most stressful marriage on the brink of divorce to being love birds again, even going so far as to tearing and shredding up the pre-nup.
1. Helping with housework without being asked is as romantic as bringing her flowers.
2."Little gestures” create a loving atmosphere.
3. Tender words and gentle hugs without sexual overtures are vital.
4. Letting her know she’s more important than everything makes her feel special.
5. Talking and sharing are crucial to a lively relationship.
Change starts from within and it starts with you. Nothing changes if nothing changes.
These 5 little tips have allowed my relationship to go from this:
to this:
This post was edited on 12/21/17 at 10:09 am
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Posted on 12/21/17 at 10:01 am to Will Cover
Just tell her who the man is. Trump is president now
Posted on 12/21/17 at 10:02 am to Will Cover
Also, do not leave your phone laying around on accident opened to Tinder or Bumble
Posted on 12/21/17 at 10:03 am to Will Cover
Make more money. Women get wet at the sight of a fat wallet.
Posted on 12/21/17 at 10:03 am to Will Cover
$$$,$$$,$$$ in the checking balance gets her fired up every time.
ETA damnit Perm. You beat me to it.
ETA damnit Perm. You beat me to it.
This post was edited on 12/21/17 at 10:04 am
Posted on 12/21/17 at 10:03 am to Will Cover
6. Constantly start threads complaining about black people.
Posted on 12/21/17 at 10:03 am to Will Cover
Give her back and foot rubs
PIIHB
PIIHB
Posted on 12/21/17 at 10:03 am to LaBR4
quote:
do not leave your phone laying around on accident opened to Tinder or Bumble
Don't forget about Grindr!
We don't want to be accused of discriminatory practices on the OT.
Posted on 12/21/17 at 10:04 am to Will Cover
Inb4 all the divorced baws come in here, call you beta, and talk about how shitty their ex wives were even though they got complacent, gained 50 lbs, and wanted to hunt and golf all weekend every weekend.
Posted on 12/21/17 at 10:04 am to Will Cover
Good point
Posted on 12/21/17 at 10:04 am to Will Cover
I enjoyed the Al Bundy gif. I did not enjoy reading your post.
Posted on 12/21/17 at 10:04 am to TH03
quote:
TH03
quote:
6. Constantly replying in threads about black people.
Posted on 12/21/17 at 10:06 am to Cousin Key
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I did not enjoy reading your post.
Even with only 10 posts, we're here for you. This is the place.
Ask away. You can stay anonymous.
Posted on 12/21/17 at 10:06 am to Will Cover
quote:
Well, uh I guess I, deep down, am feeling a little confused. I mean, suddenly, you get married, and you're supposed to be this entirely different guy. I don't feel different. I mean, take yesterday for example. We were out at the Olive Garden for dinner, which was lovely. And, uh, I happen to look over at a certain point during the meal and see a waitress taking an order, and I found myself wondering what color her underpants might be. Her panties. Uh, odds are they are probably basic white, cotton, underpants. But I sort of think, well, maybe they're silk panties, maybe it's a thong. Maybe it's something really cool that I don't even know about.
Posted on 12/21/17 at 10:06 am to Will Cover
What if, when your wife kisses your cheek, you feel Him?
Posted on 12/21/17 at 10:06 am to Will Cover
quote:
1. Helping with housework without being asked is as romantic as bringing her flowers.
i've been known to make the coffee & put the dishes from the dishwasher away in the mornings
quote:
2."Little gestures” create a loving atmosphere.
i grab her arse constantly. i don't think that she believes this creates a 'loving atmosphere'
quote:
3. Tender words and gentle hugs without sexual overtures are vital.
i dont understand
quote:
4. Letting her know she’s more important than everything makes her feel special
i stop posting on TD for a few hours in the evening to hang with her
quote:
5. Talking and sharing are crucial to a lively relationship.
how is this different than #4???
THIS LIST IS bullshite
Posted on 12/21/17 at 10:07 am to Will Cover
Wait so you have to do all this extra stuff just so she doesn't cheat on you?
Posted on 12/21/17 at 10:08 am to CAD703X
quote:
i grab her arse constantly. i don't think that she believes this creates a 'loving atmosphere'
#metoo
Posted on 12/21/17 at 10:08 am to Will Cover
That seems like a lot of work.
Posted on 12/21/17 at 10:10 am to Will Cover
quote:I help, but we have 3 kids for that shite. I contribute my fair share, though.
1. Helping with housework without being asked is as romantic as bringing her flowers.
quote:I like to give her back massages, but the Peptides make me want to have sex.
2."Little gestures” create a loving atmosphere.
quote:Peptides
3. Tender words and gentle hugs without sexual overtures are vital.
quote:She is the most important person in my life, and I let her know quite often.
4. Letting her know she’s more important than everything makes her feel special
quote:I would give my wife my last penny, but the last beer is for me.
5. Talking and sharing are crucial to a lively relationship.
WC, all bullshite aside, thanks.
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