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re: Utah track athlete Lauren McCluskey shot and killed
Posted on 10/23/18 at 2:04 pm to piggilicious
Posted on 10/23/18 at 2:04 pm to piggilicious
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Really? I can think of about 20 ways off the top of my head aside from those two.
please list them.
keep in mind that meeting "in person" encompasses a large amount of what youre about to list
Posted on 10/23/18 at 2:07 pm to Major Dutch Schaefer
Saw this on another forum smh
Posted on 10/23/18 at 2:09 pm to slackster
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liking/discussing basketball
never took you for prog filth, slackster
Posted on 10/23/18 at 2:09 pm to piggilicious
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Y'all are all over the map on this.
I'm sorry if this makes me automatically a despicable person but yes a female should do a little research before meeting a total stranger. Am I judging them and thinking they are bad people and get what they deserve if they don't? No, but do I find it naive and a little ignorant? Yes. Was I naive and a little ignorant when I was young? Yes. Does the fact that I did it make a difference in my opinion of whether it's smart or not? No.
And the real kicker-- do we even have any idea how the gal in the op and the dude who killed her met? If not, why are we discussing meeting someone online and in a bar?
It doesn’t make her (or would it make you) any less a victim or make her responsible for his crazy arse behavior. Which is what has been suggested in this thread.
Stalkers have become anamored with women without even going on a date with them. For all we know, they hung out briefly and when she found out he was lying she cut him off. Even I’ve had to do that before and it wasn’t because I was naive. It was because the guy lied about having a kid (can’t really get that from an ID).
This post was edited on 10/23/18 at 2:11 pm
Posted on 10/23/18 at 2:10 pm to Pettifogger
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never took you for prog filth, slackster
Posted on 10/23/18 at 2:11 pm to BluegrassBelle
quote:finally someone else in this thread has brought this up. We have no idea on the actual extent of their relationship, just that it was romantic in nature and that could mean a million different things with varying levels of intimacy. Especially when shite lasts maybe a month like reported. For all we know, she went on a few dates, did have a friend check on him, and then dumped him when she found out
For all we know, they hung out briefly and when she found out he was lying she cut him off
Posted on 10/23/18 at 2:14 pm to WaltTeevens
quote:did he paint himself white up until the day of murder?
He lied to her about everything, dip shite.
Posted on 10/23/18 at 2:14 pm to BluegrassBelle
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It doesn’t make her (or would it make you) any less a victim or make her responsible for his crazy arse behavior. Which is what has been suggested in this thread.
Based on what we know, she was the brainy one between the two. Unless I missed where she made bad decisions in her past, prior to this point she looked the part of good decision maker.
-D1 track star at good university, mom a professor at a university, etc.
It's not her fault she's dead, but she obviously made missteps. The two are not mutually exclusive.
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Stalkers have become anamored women without even going on a date with them. For all we know, they hung out briefly and when she found out he was lying she cut him off. Even I’ve had to do that before and is wasn’t because I was naive. It was because the guy lied about having a kid (can’t really get that from an ID).
The mom specifically said they had dated for a month.
LINK
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Jill McCluskey also said her daughter had “previously dated her killer for about one month” before she ended the relationship on Oct. 9 after learning of Rowland’s criminal history. McCluskey also said that Rowland harassed her daughter after the breakup.
Posted on 10/23/18 at 2:14 pm to WestCoastAg
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finally someone else in this thread has brought this up. We have no idea on the actual extent of their relationship, just that it was romantic in nature and that could mean a million different things with varying levels of intimacy. Especially when shite lasts maybe a month like reported. For all we know, she went on a few dates, did have a friend check on him, and then dumped him when she found out
Right.
A month could easily be met at a bar/online app (what most college kids do these days). Go out 3-4 times on the weekends or whenever she’s free (being an athlete she’s not going to have much time for it in season). Maybe sleep together depending on if that’s your thing or not.
Posted on 10/23/18 at 2:19 pm to BluegrassBelle
but racism isn't a thing 
Posted on 10/23/18 at 2:23 pm to sicboy
And women shouldn’t have been afraid of Ed Kemper, John Wayne Gacy, Ted Bundy, etc. because white guys just don’t do that. 
Posted on 10/23/18 at 2:24 pm to BluegrassBelle
Arent white men like the most likely demographic to abuse women? Or am I remembering that statistic wrong?
Posted on 10/23/18 at 2:25 pm to BluegrassBelle
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It doesn’t make her (or would it make you) any less a victim or make her responsible for his crazy arse behavior. Which is what has been suggested in this thread.
Completely agree, and I thought I covered that when I said does it make someone a bad person or mean they would deserve bad things to happen to them. I meant to anyway.
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For all we know, they hung out briefly and when she found out he was lying she cut him off.
Exactly, we have no idea on that so all the random analogies at this point are hooey.
Posted on 10/23/18 at 2:26 pm to WestCoastAg
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Arent white men like the most likely demographic to abuse women? Or am I remembering that statistic wrong?
Probably because theres more white men than any other race.
Now what % of white men turn out to be abusers, rapists, etc. Is probably more indicative.
Posted on 10/23/18 at 2:26 pm to WestCoastAg
You’re not. They have the highest number of domestic violence incidents in most all reporting systems (Department reported data and victim-survey). If it’s weighted by population distribution it’s American Indian.
Posted on 10/23/18 at 2:27 pm to piggilicious
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Exactly, we have no idea on that so all the random analogies at this point are hooey.
We know she dated the guy for a month. Not really "brief" thing given the dating world of today.
Posted on 10/23/18 at 2:27 pm to wildtigercat93
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please list them. keep in mind that meeting "in person" encompasses a large amount of what youre about to list
At work, through a friend or family member, at the grocery store, in an elevator, grabbing a cup of coffee etc...
Posted on 10/23/18 at 2:28 pm to DownSouthCrawfish
quote:As it says right there in my quite, I say "you", not me. Too bad your reading comprehension is so pathetic.
So you only date nerdy black guys.
You geniuses love to attack the messenger. Show me the stats of blacks incarcerated in this country.
Posted on 10/23/18 at 2:28 pm to WestCoastAg
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Arent white men like the most likely demographic to abuse women
I'm pretty sure it's actually lesbian women
Posted on 10/23/18 at 2:28 pm to tiggerthetooth
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We know she dated the guy for a month. Not really "brief" thing given the dating world of today.
a month is still extremely brief
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