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re: I lost my best TigerFan friend on Thursday morning.

Posted on 6/5/20 at 5:44 pm to
Posted by lakelanier
Member since Oct 2014
1007 posts
Posted on 6/5/20 at 5:44 pm to
A touching tribute. ??
Posted by LSURussian
Member since Feb 2005
133718 posts
Posted on 6/5/20 at 6:20 pm to
Sorry to hear about your dad.

My dad died over 19 years ago and I still miss him every day.
Posted by LSUMANINVA
West Virginia
Member since Sep 2004
9165 posts
Posted on 6/5/20 at 7:39 pm to
I know that was hard to share, but thanks...it was beautiful.
Posted by LSURulzSEC
Lake Charles via Oakdale
Member since Aug 2004
79296 posts
Posted on 6/5/20 at 7:47 pm to
My deepest condolences...
Posted by Shalimar Sid
Member since Feb 2005
9353 posts
Posted on 6/5/20 at 7:50 pm to
Amazing post. I love your dad now, may he Rest In Peace.
Posted by PokeyTiger
New Iberia
Member since Apr 2020
1968 posts
Posted on 6/5/20 at 9:37 pm to
quote:

R.I.P. Daddy-O


Our Prayers for your family and especially you and your mom, Sweetie! You’re a truly special daughter and a wonderful LSU Tiger!


Posted by p0845330
Member since Aug 2013
5879 posts
Posted on 6/5/20 at 10:02 pm to
Tigress, your words did him proud, just as he apparently raised you right. May God’s peace be on you all.
Posted by LSUGrad9295
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2007
37018 posts
Posted on 6/6/20 at 12:43 am to
quote:

The bad thing is I watched him die for 18 hours with other family members


From experience, I can tell you this is actually a good thing, given the circumstances, even if it doesn't seem like it now.

I'm sure you all got to say the things you needed to say and there was closure. You will come to realize that this way is much more palatable than losing someone in an accident or finding them deceased.

I recall telling my family when my dad was on his deathbed "no regrets. Say what you need to, tell him it is ok to go (he was sick with cancer) and that we will always remember him.

I'm no great philosopher or anything, but I thought this one of my finer moments.

Condolences on your loss. He sounds like he was a great man.
Posted by Red Stick Tigress
Tiger Stadium
Member since Nov 2005
20485 posts
Posted on 6/6/20 at 2:23 am to
quote:

From experience, I can tell you this is actually a good thing, given the circumstances, even if it doesn't seem like it now.



It was just gut wrenching to see him take his last breath.

He was fairly coherent and stayed awake with me most of Wednesday night into early Thursday morning.

We watched reruns of Friends, then put on Swing Music on one of the music channels and talked on and off between short cat naps.

It was just so sad to see him decline so rapidly from Tuesday to Thursday.

Mom's birthday is next week. A big one: 90 and he won't be here to celebrate it with her.

Posted by Mrwhodat
Member since Dec 2015
10296 posts
Posted on 6/6/20 at 2:32 am to
Posted by Red Stick Tigress
Tiger Stadium
Member since Nov 2005
20485 posts
Posted on 6/7/20 at 11:04 pm to
In my heartbreak, I neglected to say he played clarinet for St. Anthony of Padua's school band (in Mid City NOLA) as well as for Jesuit High School NOLA.

He turned down playing for TGBFTL so he could take 21 hours a semester, get his degree(s) and see my mom on weekends.

Posted by Red Stick Tigress
Tiger Stadium
Member since Nov 2005
20485 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 1:24 am to
Thank all of you for the prayers and support.

I have been sad and mostly composed all week but tomorrow is the funeral. I haven't had any alone time with my mom because one of my sisters took her away from the house that Mom and Dad shared since August of 1964.

I miss my mom almost as much as I miss my dad. I understand why she took mom away from the house but I am single and I was left to grieve alone.

I know it's not about me, it's to try to get Mom to a place where she can deal with losing the man she has loved for 75 years. However, I am the youngest in the family and Dad and I had a special bond with our love for the Tigers.

Today was mom's birthday and I was able to see her for a little while for birthday cake but no private time with 10 other people present. I feel bad for her that Dad died before her 90th birthday -- a big landmark for her to celebrate without him.

Family dynamics suck sometimes.

I don't usually ask for things but I could use some extra prayers.

Next football season my dad will have one of the best seats in the house. Hope he gets to sit by Charlie Mac, Bo Rein, Billy Cannon, Marquise Hill and all other former Tiger coaches, players and fans.


Posted by Danneel
Athens, GA
Member since Nov 2006
127 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 7:27 am to
Tigress, sorry for your loss and pain. My dad and I share a similar bond over football and understand how very special these experiences and memories are for us! Thank you for sharing a little bit about you dad with us. Glad he got to enjoy the amazing 2019 season and another National Championship. He deserved it!
Posted by Klingler7
Houston
Member since Nov 2009
12546 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 7:52 am to
Tigress, my condolences to you and your family. And a heavenly Father’s Day to your dad.

Everyone should have the relationship you shared with your father. My father passed away in 2014, grieving is normal but smile and feel the warmth of your dad’s love that remains in you.
Posted by c on z
Zamunda
Member since Mar 2009
130509 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 8:20 am to
quote:

I assume the tigress is female. Lol

Correct
Posted by Zarkinletch416
Deep in the Heart of Texas
Member since Jan 2020
8689 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 8:32 am to
He's definitely in a happy place.

What an absolutely amazing life.

You were greatly blessed.

Prayers sent.
This post was edited on 6/13/20 at 8:35 am
Posted by PlanoPrivateer
Frisco, TX
Member since Jan 2004
2932 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 8:38 am to
quote:

I don't usually ask for things but I could use some extra prayers.

Done and Good Bless


Posted by Shere Khan
memphis
Member since Sep 2007
37 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 9:57 am to
Condolences to you and your family.

Geaux Tigers!!
Posted by redfish99
B.R.
Member since Aug 2007
18771 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 11:20 am to
I’ve been there recently myself. Be thankful for all the memories made because nothing lasts forever.
Posted by Red Stick Tigress
Tiger Stadium
Member since Nov 2005
20485 posts
Posted on 12/14/20 at 6:31 pm to
Could use more prayers.

I lost my mom today. She was 90.5.

Glad she's back with my dad.

Two parents gone within 6.5 months makes 2020 suck all the more.

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