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Anyone watch Bama game with Bama fans who are not good friends?

Posted on 11/2/17 at 12:04 pm
Posted by ChunkyLover54
Member since Apr 2015
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Posted on 11/2/17 at 12:04 pm
We no longer live in the South and moved to a new neighborhood where don't know a ton of people. Were invited to watch game with a family who is friend of daughter but they are big Bama fans. Wear Bama clothes all the time, house is full of elephants. I think they're actually from there so that makes it a little better.

Anyway, even as "adults" I don't see this a good idea at all. I also suspect they are just inviting us to see our reaction. Either way, this is not a good way to make friends long term. Any other team would be fine.

Wife thinks we'll get caught lying about having plans or simply look rude for not going. Still I don't see this as a good thing. Any experiences with a similar situation?

...update...I’m getting blackout at home with a few friends and we declined invite and went with our instincts. Thanks for input
This post was edited on 11/3/17 at 12:18 pm
Posted by tigerfan in bamaland
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Posted on 11/2/17 at 12:06 pm to


ETA:
I have plenty of interaction with gump and ms gump. Here is the total number of decent sports I have encountered:

0

They are all awful humans. It's hard to believe, but true.
This post was edited on 11/2/17 at 12:09 pm
Posted by LesGeaux45
Member since Nov 2009
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Posted on 11/2/17 at 12:07 pm to
Frick that. I'd end up getting belligerent. Hard pass.
Posted by jlovel7
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2014
21321 posts
Posted on 11/2/17 at 12:08 pm to
frick 'em. We ridin' this week.


ETA: They are the most smug, spoiled fan base in sports. Some may argue some professional teams are like the Yankees, Cowboys, etc... but no professional fan base matches the intensity that a college fan base brings. I wouldn't do it.
This post was edited on 11/2/17 at 12:10 pm
Posted by 9th life
birmingham
Member since Sep 2009
7310 posts
Posted on 11/2/17 at 12:09 pm to
I have received that invitation more than once, and "not fun" would be how I describe it.
Posted by northtiger1122
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Aug 2007
332 posts
Posted on 11/2/17 at 12:09 pm to
DON'T DO IT.

I was in similar situation and you will be miserable and just not a good idea.

Posted by tigerfan in bamaland
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Posted on 11/2/17 at 12:09 pm to
Bad winners and worse losers, no win situation buddy. Tell the wife to just decline the invite. Be straight up.
Posted by ChunkyLover54
Member since Apr 2015
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Posted on 11/2/17 at 12:10 pm to
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Frick that. I'd end up getting belligerent. Hard pass


Yeah, that's my thoughts. I've only met these people in passing, wife knows them a little more, but that's in polite society. Either way the game goes I'm getting belligerent and can't see it ending well.
Posted by Purple Spoon
Hoth
Member since Feb 2005
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Posted on 11/2/17 at 12:10 pm to
Pass, the first time a nephew or some baw in the natty light throws a shaker in my face the cordial pleasantries would be long gone and it would be awkward as shite.
Posted by R11
Member since Aug 2017
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Posted on 11/2/17 at 12:10 pm to
It's
A
Trap
Posted by Kvothe
Member since Sep 2016
2020 posts
Posted on 11/2/17 at 12:10 pm to
Similar situation here. I have befriended some gumps in the last couple of years. We decided it’s best to just avoid each other Saturday so we can continue to be friends after this weekend.
This post was edited on 11/2/17 at 12:11 pm
Posted by rbdallas
Dallas, TX
Member since Nov 2007
10340 posts
Posted on 11/2/17 at 12:11 pm to
they are likely inviting you because they do not imagine a loss

but I can guarantee you that if LSU is winning you will feel bad and feel like you have to tip toe at their place.

I would not put myself in that position ... it'd be different if they were long time friends and I could give / take the abuse -lol
This post was edited on 11/2/17 at 12:13 pm
Posted by ABucks11
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2012
1148 posts
Posted on 11/2/17 at 12:13 pm to
It's perfectly ok to tell someone no. I don't know why people have to have an excuse to decline an invitation.
Posted by Ponchy Tiger
Ponchatoula
Member since Aug 2004
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Posted on 11/2/17 at 12:13 pm to
Why would you have Bama fans as friends?
Posted by Old Money
Member since Sep 2012
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Posted on 11/2/17 at 12:14 pm to
My gf is a gump; she and I will be watching the game in separate houses.
Posted by tigerfan in bamaland
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Posted on 11/2/17 at 12:14 pm to
I believe the women are way worse. Prayers man.

ETA:
This post was edited on 11/2/17 at 12:16 pm
Posted by Fat Bastard
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Member since Mar 2009
72682 posts
Posted on 11/2/17 at 12:16 pm to
quote:

Frick that. I'd end up getting belligerent. Hard pass.




same here. F that.
Posted by Tiger Ree
Houston
Member since Jun 2004
24554 posts
Posted on 11/2/17 at 12:17 pm to
My brother-in-law is a Bama fan. He's not as big a fan as I am of LSU but he watches all of their games.

He's not the type to talk shite and says LSU is his second favorite team. I still don't take calls or read his texts during LSU games, let alone LSU-Bama games. Damn sure wouldn't watch the game with him.

I don't even like watching LSU games with LSU fans though.
Posted by Fat Bastard
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Posted on 11/2/17 at 12:17 pm to
i worked away from home with plenty gumps but we never watched games together and did not discuss it that much at work other than a few jabs here and there. If i were to watch the game with them i'd be in jail. i have no doubts.
Posted by I-59 Tiger
Vestavia Hills, AL
Member since Sep 2003
36703 posts
Posted on 11/2/17 at 12:19 pm to
don't go.
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