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Serious question about sexual health and having children

Posted on 6/24/23 at 1:09 pm
Posted by cbree88
South Louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
10532 posts
Posted on 6/24/23 at 1:09 pm
I admit that I have sometimes had trouble ejaculating during sex. It feels good, but for some reason I have trouble finishing. This is a condition known as “delayed ejaculation”. It’s the opposite problem of premature ejaculation that some men have.

I’ve been seeing a psychologist about it and going through talk therapy with him. I think the problem is improving, but I’m still worried.

My main concern is whether or not men with this problem can have children. My fiancée and I definitely want children, and so don’t want this to derail our relationship.

Have some of you guys struggled with this? Are people with this problem still able to have children? Are there other good ways to successfully introduce sperm into the vagina and produce a pregnancy?

Thanks for any advice that you have.
Posted by NewOrleansBlend
Member since Mar 2008
1208 posts
Posted on 6/24/23 at 1:52 pm to
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I admit that I have sometimes had trouble ejaculating during sex.


Can you get yourself off? If so, I see an easy strategy
Posted by Philzilla
Member since Nov 2011
2214 posts
Posted on 6/24/23 at 2:06 pm to
quote:

Can you get yourself off? If so, I see an easy strategy

This. Work on your aim, and try to shoot it right in the slot.
Like Luke Skywalker, remember, and use the force.
Posted by LostTiger27
Member since Aug 2019
327 posts
Posted on 6/24/23 at 2:47 pm to
In Sex Ed they told me I could get a girl pregnant just from "heavy petting." If true then I'm sure you have a shot.

Did you develop this problem over time from watching too much crazy porn? Cutting that out might help. Do you find your wife attractive? Maybe try to carefully get her to go to the gym with you?

You could try toys too. I've never been able to last more than a couple minutes with a good vibration on my shaft
Posted by h0bnail
Member since Sep 2009
7628 posts
Posted on 6/24/23 at 3:14 pm to
I've experienced something similar a few times. In my case, I think it was just too much shite going on in my head. Then after it happens once, you're in your head even more worrying about a recurrence.
Posted by BigPerm30
Member since Aug 2011
32065 posts
Posted on 6/24/23 at 3:30 pm to
Prostate ejaculations may help you. You ever been pegged?
Posted by Taxman2010
In The Woods
Member since Jan 2022
611 posts
Posted on 6/24/23 at 4:18 pm to
Weirdest post I have seen on this site in years. Real creep.
Posted by cbree88
South Louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
10532 posts
Posted on 6/24/23 at 4:19 pm to
Is it possible to ejaculate on your fingers and then finger the girl to get her pregnant?

Maybe that could be a solution for me.
This post was edited on 6/24/23 at 4:20 pm
Posted by ronricks
Member since Mar 2021
12229 posts
Posted on 6/24/23 at 4:34 pm to
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Maybe that could be a solution for me.


Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
63805 posts
Posted on 6/24/23 at 5:00 pm to
Are these ongoing troll threads?
Posted by La Place Mike
West Florida Republic
Member since Jan 2004
31415 posts
Posted on 6/24/23 at 6:31 pm to
quote:

Can you get yourself off? If so, I see an easy strategy


Turkey baster.
Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
85545 posts
Posted on 6/25/23 at 3:36 am to
Are you on any kind of SSRI medications? Those are notorious for anorgasmia (difficulty or not being able to get off) problems.
Posted by BeachDude022
Premium Elite Platinum TD Member
Member since Dec 2006
36407 posts
Posted on 6/25/23 at 1:57 pm to
Do you choke your chicken too much and too often? Could be a reason. Lay off of Rosey Palm and you’ll do better with your fiancée
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
37878 posts
Posted on 6/25/23 at 2:36 pm to
Cut out porn?
Cut out jacking off?
Problem solved
This post was edited on 6/26/23 at 3:53 pm
Posted by cbree88
South Louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
10532 posts
Posted on 6/25/23 at 5:42 pm to
Are these ongoing troll threads?

No. It’s a real-life problem I’m going through.
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
38079 posts
Posted on 6/26/23 at 7:27 am to
if on any medications like ssri, blood pressure etc...talk to the doctor about getting off

quit masturbation period
quit all porn, period

daily cialis will help also and as a last restort, some type of vibration on the shaft, but you dont want to go down the route of toys unless its an absolute must. because once you get used to the extra sensation, gonna be hard to get off without it.
Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
85545 posts
Posted on 6/26/23 at 2:36 pm to
quote:

Are these ongoing troll threads?

No. It’s a real-life problem I’m going throug
So.... about my question above??....
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
37878 posts
Posted on 6/26/23 at 3:52 pm to
My questions too. I guess he doesn’t really need help.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
63805 posts
Posted on 6/26/23 at 4:06 pm to
He behaves in his other threads in a very similar manner. That's why I asked if he was just trolling.
Posted by whiskey over ice
Member since Sep 2020
3761 posts
Posted on 6/26/23 at 4:08 pm to
quote:

Is it possible to ejaculate on your fingers and then finger the girl to get her pregnant?

Maybe that could be a solution for me.



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