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re: Commanders Brunch Dress Code

Posted on 7/18/14 at 6:53 am to
Posted by Martini
Near Athens
Member since Mar 2005
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Posted on 7/18/14 at 6:53 am to
Since this has turned into a fashion thread I'll give my hot tip for how to dress.

Always dress your age. I'm middle aged. I dress like a middle aged man. I wear slacks, dress shirts, button downs, blazers or sport coat, hard sole Allen Edmonds black or brown lace ups.

My wife will wear a dress or skirt of appropriate length and is elegant and graceful.

Too many men my age dress affliction style or frat style like they are going through rush and too many middle aged women dress like hookers. Or everyone looks like they just rolled out of bed and combed their hair with a pork chop.

Dress your age and look in the mirror before you walk out the door.

And one more thing. Mow your damn neck. Both men and women. I can't stand looking at fur coming out of the back of someone's collar.
This post was edited on 7/18/14 at 6:54 am
Posted by MeridianDog
Home on the range
Member since Nov 2010
14225 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 7:41 am to
Protruding nose hair in Commander's Palace customers bothers me.

And several times I have been unable to continue eating my crabby paddy as I would point to a nearby table to ask my server, "What the heck is that hairy brush growth coming out of that old guy's ears?"

I happen to like bushy wild white eyebrows, even though my barber always seems to be able to skillfully thin mine out as I babble away about sports or yard work or them dang kids retrieving their baseball from my yard or whatever the barber chair conversation subject is that week.


This post was edited on 7/18/14 at 7:44 am
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
39032 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 7:47 am to
That's a bit too try hard for me. I usually wear some colored skinny chinos, no pleats or creases, from banana republic or Jcrew with a pressed button down with the cuffs flipped a few times and black leather shoes with soft soles and a matching belt. I'm not looking for work, so I don't dress like it. I just try to look nice enough to where it appears like I actually deserve my cute wife.
Posted by Martini
Near Athens
Member since Mar 2005
48859 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 8:04 am to
I'm comfortable in slacks but I wear chinos a good bit as well and roll my cuffs twice in this heat or keep them buttoned if weather is cool. No skinny chinos here though. I'd wear them to commanders with a blazer no problem. I wear jeans at my farm.
Posted by REG861
Ocelot, Iowa
Member since Oct 2011
36428 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 8:54 am to
quote:

I prefer it myself and I don't pay much attention to other people's clothing, usually, but he walked in straight toward our table and I could see people snickering. Didn't bother me one bit.


Good. It's not asking a lot -at all- to wear fricking khaki pants once a year. I don't care where you're from. It's not just restaurants either. I went to a wedding rather recently where a family member of someone getting married wore jeans (which is far more absurd).
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
47404 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 9:03 am to
I went to a funeral last weekend. There were jeans and not nice ones and even a few jr high and high schoolers in shorts. That made me cringe.
Posted by 12Pence
Member since Jan 2013
6344 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 9:08 am to
quote:

, or should I pack some slacks and a dress shirt for it?


Is it really that difficult to put on a pair of pants and a dress shirt and... ...tuck it in?
Posted by Rohan2Reed
Member since Nov 2003
75674 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 10:17 am to
If someone starts a conversation about a restaurant with the phrase: "Can I get away with wearing __________?" then they are already walking uphill.
Posted by Lester Earl
Member since Nov 2003
278531 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 10:22 am to
what's the difference between a sports coat and a blazer?
Posted by Count Chocula
Tier 5 and proud
Member since Feb 2009
63908 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 10:23 am to
When they bring out what they call gumbo as your appetizer, you're gonna need to ask for some rice. Be prepared for that WTF/perplexed look.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
58935 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 10:57 am to
quote:

what's the difference between a sports coat and a blazer?


The way people in general use the terms? Nothing. They're used interchangeably by most.

Traditionally, the sport coat was less formal, made from a rougher material, and worn during "sporting" activities, such as quail or fox hunting, etc. It usually had flap pockets. A blazer was more dressy, made only of wool, and typically had patch pockets with gold or silver buttons.
Posted by LSUGUMBO
Shreveport, LA
Member since Sep 2005
8529 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 12:58 pm to
quote:

Is it really that difficult to put on a pair of pants and a dress shirt and... ...tuck it in?


It's definitely not, but I generallyconsider brunch a more casual occasion. I wasn't planning on showing up to the restaurant in soccer shorts and Under Armour expecting to get seated, but I figured for brunch that a nice pair of seersucker shorts and a polo tucked in would be plenty nice enough. I didn't mean to ruffle the feathers of the FDB fashionistas and dress code police. A thousand apologies.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
58935 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 1:14 pm to
quote:

but I generallyconsider brunch a more casual occasion.


And I would agree with you, but C'sP is not a casual place, and their brunch is more of an event or experience, if you will. If you're looking for something more laid back, try the brunch at a place like Atchafalaya, which I have heard very good things about.
Posted by auyushu
Surprise, AZ
Member since Jan 2011
8599 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 1:25 pm to
quote:

Do people feel ucomfortable dressing nice?


I personally don't find a tie particularly comfortable when eating, so I'd say yes there. And wearing a jacket would wind up with me sweating like crazy during the summer, so that would be uncomfortable as well.

That being said, no reason shouldn't be able to wear slacks and at least a polo in a nice restaurant.
Posted by Oenophile Brah
The Edge of Sanity
Member since Jan 2013
7540 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 1:33 pm to
LSUGUMBO
New Orleans Saints Fan
Shreveport, LA
Member since Sep 2005
4785 posts

quote:

I figured for brunch that a nice pair of seersucker shorts and a polo tucked in would be plenty nice enough

I'm shocked......
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
58935 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 1:50 pm to
quote:

I personally don't find a tie particularly comfortable when eating, so I'd say yes there.

Maybe your collar is too tight. I'm srs.

quote:

And wearing a jacket would wind up with me sweating like crazy during the summer, so that would be uncomfortable as well.


Try an unlined jacket and one that is made out of a breathable fabric like seersucker or linen. The reason why most men are too hot in jackets is because they only wear wool jackets that are fully lined in synthetic material.
Posted by Martini
Near Athens
Member since Mar 2005
48859 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 1:54 pm to
quote:

what's the difference between a sports coat and a blazer?

The way people in general use the terms? Nothing. They're used interchangeably by most. Traditionally, the sport coat was less formal, made from a rougher material, and worn during "sporting" activities, such as quail or fox hunting, etc. It usually had flap pockets. A blazer was more dressy, made only of wool, and typically had patch pockets with gold or silver buttons.


That's pretty accurate. Sport Coats are more casual and typically have patterns. I have a tweed, a patterned worsted wool, houndstooth and a glen plaid as well as a lighter plaid.

I have two navy and one black blazer. They are or once were a bit more formal but now most are interchangeable. I will wear a sport coat with jeans on occasion ( although I rarely wear jeans) but not a blazer with jeans even though many people do now.

I prefer a blazer or sport coat to a suit because I like buying different slacks and shirts so I can mix and match a lot more than with a suit. Many more options.

And to the OP a seersucker suit would be very appropriate and classy to wear for brunch at Commanders. A bowtie and white bucks would finish it out. Seersucker shorts, while nice, aren't appropriate. I don't think anyone meant bashing, I just think many on this board appreciate dining in a classic and quickly disappearing way. In the end it is your brunch and your money so you dress as you see fit and don't concern yourself with what others think.
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
47404 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 2:20 pm to
Commander's doesn't allow shorts except maybe if a child has on one of those cute smocked outfits. Shirts have to be collared and shoes have to be closed toed for men. Women may do as they please, apparently.
Posted by auyushu
Surprise, AZ
Member since Jan 2011
8599 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 3:14 pm to
quote:

The reason why most men are too hot in jackets is because they only wear wool jackets that are fully lined in synthetic material.



I'm just super hot natured, so it wouldn't matter too much for me. Though the seersucker jacket would be a better call, for sure. Though I have zero interest in eating with a jacket on in any situation. Even in situations where I would be wearing a jacket and a meal would be eaten, the jacket goes on the back of the chair for me.

quote:

Maybe your collar is too tight. I'm srs.


I don't find ties comfortable period, and I generally get my collar a size or two looser than suggested. Not that I haven't eaten meals with a tie on (and I've worked jobs in the past where ties were a requirement and I ate lunch regularly with one on), it's just not something I would choose to do when going out to eat.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
99112 posts
Posted on 7/18/14 at 4:20 pm to
I'm convinced slacks and polo are the equivalent of little black dress for women. It's something you should always have and wear if an occasion like this comes up.
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