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re: Other than looks & money, how can I improve my prospects with women?

Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:07 pm to
Posted by DownshiftAndFloorIt
Here
Member since Jan 2011
66763 posts
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:07 pm to
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Be tenacious on self improvement


On a serious note, this.

The rest takes care of itself.
Posted by Nado Jenkins83
Land of the Free
Member since Nov 2012
59854 posts
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:10 pm to
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Stop wasting time on shite that won't increase your gravitas...strangely some things help immensely that you wouldn't think. Know/own two to three good party board games...Just One is perfect, Ultimate Werewolf is good, etc. Being good at video games won't help you, but owning the shite will, cause all kinda chicks claim to be gamers but don't know how to beat the fricking carrot on Cuphead


Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
27515 posts
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:12 pm to
I honestly didn't understand a single thing he was trying to say.
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10326 posts
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:18 pm to
How often do you put out? That’s huge. Men who don’t love sex are a no thanks.
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
44874 posts
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:18 pm to
Strangely I picked up chicks and even got married without doing any of that except having a couple of suits and wearing deodorant
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
30077 posts
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:21 pm to
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How often do you put out? That’s huge. Men who don’t love sex are a no thanks.


Is this a problem for women these days?

Geez, times certainly have changed.

Posted by HeadSlash
TEAM LIVE BADASS - St. GEORGE
Member since Aug 2006
49932 posts
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:21 pm to
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Embrace chubby chasing.


Life's to short
Posted by bhtigerfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
29742 posts
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:25 pm to
How is your sense of humor?

I know guys that aren’t great looking but are funny as hell and get plenty of puss.

Women love men that make them laugh.
Posted by Swagga
504
Member since Dec 2009
16217 posts
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:26 pm to
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I showed up to my last first date in a dune buggy


I feel like this isn’t getting the attention it deserves.
Posted by Klingler7
Houston
Member since Nov 2009
12058 posts
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:28 pm to
I am 5’7. In my early 50’s. I thought my platonic women friends would possibly help me with their single friends but no luck.

Good job. No criminal record. College degree with retirement. Still can’t attract even the chubby ones. I come off as being too desperate for love but my time is running short on this earth. I like talking and learning from others.

All the good ladies are either too young or married. I know being desperate shows beta tendencies which is not what I want to show. Not being needy hasn’t helped either.

I don’t do bars and clubs and drugs are not my thing. Church functions seem plausible but nothing sounds desperate than trying to hook up at a singles bible study.

Posted by bostitch
Member since Apr 2016
559 posts
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:30 pm to
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Is this a problem for women these days?


You should probably ask a real woman
Posted by Stiles
Member since Sep 2017
3405 posts
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:30 pm to
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quote:
SpqrTiger


This is the creepiest shite I've read here in a long time.


quote:

mikelbr


Holy frick.....what planet did I land on??
Posted by geauxpurple
New Orleans
Member since Jul 2014
12596 posts
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:31 pm to
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Other than looks & money
Other than that, Mrs. Lincoln, how did you like the play?
Posted by Lima Whiskey
Member since Apr 2013
19447 posts
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:32 pm to
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Women love men that make them laugh.


It’s the other way around. If she likes you, she will find you funny.
Posted by Boo Krewe
Member since Apr 2015
9810 posts
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:34 pm to
Same boat here babe
Posted by IceTiger
Really hot place
Member since Oct 2007
26584 posts
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:35 pm to
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I come off as being too desperate for love but my time is running short on this earth.


The circle is complete...

Dude, just have fun at your age...older dudes just need a good catch line...

Like, "damn your cute, I'd like to lick your a-hole"
Then just let that fricker hang...follow with...

"DAMN GIRL, I'm just joking..."


"Or am I?"
Posted by IceTiger
Really hot place
Member since Oct 2007
26584 posts
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:35 pm to
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It’s the other way around. If she likes you, she will find you funny.

Usually
Posted by bhtigerfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
29742 posts
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:36 pm to
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Best advice I can give is to get comfortable talking to all women. Don’t wait until you see one you’re interested in and try to figure out at that moment how to talk to her.

Learn to small talk to everyone. Start casual conversations with any woman you’re near in an elevator, checkout line etc. there’s no pressure when you’re not really interested and you’ll get more comfortable. After a while, striking up a conversation with the hot chick you’re interested in won’t seem so daunting. You’ll have done it many times before in random situations snd you’ll appear more comfortable to her. That confidence will help your chances.
This is actually very good advice.

Since I’ve been married and don’t cheat on my wife, I’ve been in situations with friends or coworkers in bars and social settings and I went and met a group of women because my friends didn’t want to “Get shot down by them.” Since I’m basically just trying to do the introducing for them and I’m not hitting on them, they seem to be very disarmed and don’t feel “threatened“ by me. I usually introduce myself and tell them that I’m happily married and I’m not hitting on them, but my friends want to.

So the moral of my story is, it’s very easy to talk to women when you’re not hitting on them. If you don’t have to fear getting shot down, you’re usually very relaxed and won’t make an arse of yourself. Make them laugh, don’t come on strong or try to impress them, be relaxed, and show some confidence.
This post was edited on 7/4/21 at 10:59 pm
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
30077 posts
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:39 pm to
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You should probably ask a real woman


Ahh, yeah, that makes more sense.
Posted by Obtuse1
Westside Bodymore Yo
Member since Sep 2016
25907 posts
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:42 pm to
What the thread has taught me is most posters on tOT couldn't get laid in a whore house with an AmEx Centurian in their wallet.
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