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Divorce..what should I do?
Posted on 1/21/21 at 1:18 pm
Posted on 1/21/21 at 1:18 pm
Long story short. Came home from a hike on a Monday and that evening my wife said she’s unhappy, we have nothing in common anymore, and she’s tired of being cruel to me.
Tuesday - worked on dividing assets
Today - wanting to look for lawyers together.
Part of me thinks this is a midlife crisis. Her mother passed three weeks ago and we’ve had major career stress with her job. I’m no saint. I’ve usually just shut down during arguments which has led to bigger issues this year.
I’ve asked for counseling and she says no. That won’t help us find commonality. I suggested we try new things once to twice a month to learn new things in common and she said that won’t help.
I’m 43, debt free, kids are above 18 so no worries there, good career too. Should I keep trying or take my arse out of Nashville and move to the beach or Montana? Will I be okay?
There may be a Jody, maybe not. I’ve been looking and haven’t found anything yet. She works at home and may leave the house once a month. Even if there is there’s nothing I can do about it.
Tuesday - worked on dividing assets
Today - wanting to look for lawyers together.
Part of me thinks this is a midlife crisis. Her mother passed three weeks ago and we’ve had major career stress with her job. I’m no saint. I’ve usually just shut down during arguments which has led to bigger issues this year.
I’ve asked for counseling and she says no. That won’t help us find commonality. I suggested we try new things once to twice a month to learn new things in common and she said that won’t help.
I’m 43, debt free, kids are above 18 so no worries there, good career too. Should I keep trying or take my arse out of Nashville and move to the beach or Montana? Will I be okay?
There may be a Jody, maybe not. I’ve been looking and haven’t found anything yet. She works at home and may leave the house once a month. Even if there is there’s nothing I can do about it.
This post was edited on 1/21/21 at 2:25 pm
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Posted on 1/21/21 at 1:19 pm to TnMountaineer
My dude, there is probably another dude.
Posted on 1/21/21 at 1:19 pm to TnMountaineer
damn dude...you were cucked by a stronger and smarter man?
Posted on 1/21/21 at 1:21 pm to TnMountaineer
there is 100% someone else
I can't imagine a woman wanting out that quick without a back up plan
I can't imagine a woman wanting out that quick without a back up plan
Posted on 1/21/21 at 1:21 pm to rondo
It’s done, act accordingly.
Posted on 1/21/21 at 1:21 pm to rondo
If I was..I was. Happens to a lot of us.
Posted on 1/21/21 at 1:21 pm to TnMountaineer
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take my arse out of Nashville and move to the beach or Montana
Posted on 1/21/21 at 1:21 pm to TnMountaineer
Filed for divorce in April 2020. It’s not so bad.
Posted on 1/21/21 at 1:21 pm to TnMountaineer
Don't mind me. Just saying I am here.
Posted on 1/21/21 at 1:21 pm to TnMountaineer
If she is unwillingly to work on it there is nothing you can do
Posted on 1/21/21 at 1:21 pm to TnMountaineer
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Should I keep trying or take my arse out of Nashville and move to the beach or Montana?
There may be a Jody, maybe not. I’ve been looking and haven’t found anything yet. She works at home and may leave the house once a month. Even if there is there’s nothing I can do about it.
Go for Montana.
There probably isn't a jody, she may be mature enough to want to do that after divorce and thinks it will be better on her own, it won't.
Good luck
Posted on 1/21/21 at 1:21 pm to TnMountaineer
That sucks
Enjoy the strange
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I’m 43, debt free, kids are above 18 so no worries there, good career too
Enjoy the strange
Posted on 1/21/21 at 1:22 pm to TnMountaineer
Sounds more like a business decision than a matter of the heart.
It takes two to make it work though. If she has checked out, then it will be an order of magnitude more difficult.
Good Luck. Without common cause or common ground, you are facing a difficult path toward reconciliation.
It takes two to make it work though. If she has checked out, then it will be an order of magnitude more difficult.
Good Luck. Without common cause or common ground, you are facing a difficult path toward reconciliation.
Posted on 1/21/21 at 1:22 pm to TnMountaineer
She's upset you voted for Trump?
Posted on 1/21/21 at 1:22 pm to TnMountaineer
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I’m 43, debt free, kids are above 18
Christ!
Don't get married at 21 folks...
Posted on 1/21/21 at 1:22 pm to TnMountaineer
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Divorce
will her and little J-O-E will be goin' away?
has this been pure H-E double L for you
oh, i wish that you could stop this D-I-V-O-R-C-E
This post was edited on 1/21/21 at 1:23 pm
Posted on 1/21/21 at 1:22 pm to Jcorye1
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My dude, there is probably another dude.
This is probably the right answer and if I'm the OP I'm giving the divorce and running free with the wind.
Posted on 1/21/21 at 1:23 pm to TnMountaineer
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Today - wanting to look for lawyers together.
Posted on 1/21/21 at 1:23 pm to arseinclarse
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She's upset you voted for Trump?
She’s also republican.
Posted on 1/21/21 at 1:23 pm to TnMountaineer
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Came home from a hike
"Hike"??? Sure you did
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