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Can a six week old baby cry because it wants to be held by you?

Posted on 3/9/20 at 10:50 pm
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 3/9/20 at 10:50 pm
And if so, how do we get her to sleep in her bed and not in our arms?

And if we let her cry it out does that mean she’ll end up on the pole later?
This post was edited on 3/9/20 at 10:52 pm
Posted by burdman
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2007
20689 posts
Posted on 3/9/20 at 10:52 pm to
With the right attitude, that baby can do anything it wants to.
Posted by burke985
UGANDA
Member since Aug 2011
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Posted on 3/9/20 at 10:53 pm to
Just give it Benadryl
Posted by ezride25
Constitutional Republic
Member since Nov 2008
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Posted on 3/9/20 at 10:53 pm to
Can you get back in the delorian and go find a better contraceptive?
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
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Posted on 3/9/20 at 10:54 pm to
How long have you let her cry it out?

We swaddled and used a rock n play but apparently it’s considered a death trap now
This post was edited on 3/9/20 at 10:58 pm
Posted by VermilionTiger
Member since Dec 2012
37606 posts
Posted on 3/9/20 at 10:57 pm to
Do not do the cry it out method with a 6 week old

You just have to deal with the uneasiness, IMO. Try and develop a schedule and stick to it. Even if the baby doesn’t stick to it right away.



We have a swaddle night outfit (looks similar to the one above) that goes on top of our daughters pajamas to sleep. This shite is a life saver
Posted by Aristo
Colorado
Member since Jan 2007
13292 posts
Posted on 3/9/20 at 10:57 pm to
Hold her until she falls asleep, put her down gently, pray you get 2 hours of sleep.
Posted by Picayuner
Member since Dec 2016
3495 posts
Posted on 3/9/20 at 10:59 pm to
Does the baby get enough formula ? They usually take a little more at two months. Usually 4 oz at that age I think. Every 4 hours. Check with your doctor on amount. Also make sure baby isn’t cold. She might want your warmth. There’s no magic answer other than nurture the baby Yout all she’s got It’s not about you anymore. Good luck
Posted by Sherman Klump
Wellman College
Member since Jul 2011
4465 posts
Posted on 3/9/20 at 11:01 pm to
Swaddle that little nugget tight. Put some white noise on and say some prayers. The first 3-4 months is the steepest learning curve you may ever endure.

6 weeks is way too early for CIO. As someone previously stated, routine and schedule can change your life. Although it’s hard and requires sacrifice.
This post was edited on 3/9/20 at 11:03 pm
Posted by Weekend Warrior79
Member since Aug 2014
16465 posts
Posted on 3/9/20 at 11:01 pm to
When mine was that young, it was either because she wants dirty, needed a tighter or swaddle, or wasn't getting enough food. Every time we checked through those 3 options, she would get us at least 3-4 hours. Found out we needed to suppliment formula until my wife could catch up.

IMO, crying it out doesn't work for the first 3-4 months. They just learn to get louder quicker
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
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Posted on 3/9/20 at 11:03 pm to
quote:

Can a six week old baby cry because it wants to be held by you?
Sure.
quote:

And if so, how do we get her to sleep in her bed and not in our arms?
The $1 billion question.

If you can figure that out, tell Scruffy.
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And if we let her cry it out does that mean she’ll end up on the pole later?
6 weeks is a little young for the “cry it out” method.

She won’t really tire out due to crying at that age. She will just keep going.

Some people swear by driving around the block. Others swear by certain sleep apparatuses.

Scruffy’s sister loved the Snu. It has a baby straight jacket and rocks.
Posted by momentoftruth87
Member since Oct 2013
71571 posts
Posted on 3/9/20 at 11:05 pm to
It's a baby. Change diapers, feed, and hold it. It's going to cry. I wouldnt let a 6 week old lay there and cry.

Unfortunately, this is where the mom pulls lots of work, just try and help her out so she isnt frustrated.
Posted by tiger1014
Member since Jan 2011
12512 posts
Posted on 3/9/20 at 11:07 pm to
Invest in the Snoo

Lifesaver if you can put a price on sanity

It’s a bit pricy but worth it
Posted by jeffsdad
Member since Mar 2007
21488 posts
Posted on 3/9/20 at 11:08 pm to
The solution is simple. You pick her up and hold her anytime she wants.
Posted by AndyCBR
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Nov 2012
7556 posts
Posted on 3/9/20 at 11:08 pm to
My mantra was diaper, eat, sleep, repeat.

If one doesn't work try the other regardless of time frame.

The pattern is there is no pattern at that age. You'll drive yourself crazy trying to find one as they are growing so fast.

Hope this helps.
Posted by SavageOrangeJug
Member since Oct 2005
19758 posts
Posted on 3/9/20 at 11:09 pm to
Babies can bond with their parents pretty quickly. Especially with the mother.

Posted by Bawcephus
Member since Jul 2018
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Posted on 3/9/20 at 11:20 pm to


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Winning formula.
Posted by drake20
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2005
13123 posts
Posted on 3/9/20 at 11:26 pm to
God bless you, man.

I’m just getting through the hell of baby 1 and baby 2 is on the way.

TRY to soak it up and enjoy the time with your baby. They’re frustrating and the sleep deprivation is catastrophic, but these early years when YOU are everything your child needs are so precious.

Eyes half open, cranky AF, 4 AM...I’m miserable, but I know that I will cherish these moments when they’re all grown up. Try to keep that perspective and know that these truly brutal, sleep scarce times only last for a year max. Hopefully.

And sorry....for advice...6 weeks is too early for cry it out. My boy and I hit the couch. He slept on my chest.
This post was edited on 3/9/20 at 11:37 pm
Posted by mark65mc
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2007
11291 posts
Posted on 3/9/20 at 11:28 pm to
Find “The Happiest Baby on The Block” Video online. Watch it. The swaddle method, the shushing, and swaying all work.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
28559 posts
Posted on 3/9/20 at 11:43 pm to
Don’t hold the baby all the time. It’s that simple.
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