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Relationship advice
Posted on 2/29/20 at 10:21 pm
Posted on 2/29/20 at 10:21 pm
First of all this is likely a terrible idea to come here but hopefully someone else has been in my shoes before and can give me some good advice.
I'm 26, decent place financially, come from a very conservative and religious family, and have been dating a girl (no pics) for three years. Its a long distance relationship but we see each other at least once a month.
She's ready to move here, get married, and start a family within a couple of years.
She's pretty much everything I want in a girl and I get along great with her family and all but I really don't feel "ready" to get married and I don't know why. Spending the rest of my life with her doesnt scare me, I just don't want to "right now" and I don't know why I feel this way.
I feel bad that it just doesn't come easy for me. I should say here that I hate making commitments to anything or taking risks, I know thats immature but it is what it is. I'm also somewhat of a loner. I like being able to just pick up and go on a trip or whatever if I want to.
Should I just break up with her so she can find someone else who'd have no problem settling down? Should I just get over myself and take the plunge?
Any words of wisdom?
I'm 26, decent place financially, come from a very conservative and religious family, and have been dating a girl (no pics) for three years. Its a long distance relationship but we see each other at least once a month.
She's ready to move here, get married, and start a family within a couple of years.
She's pretty much everything I want in a girl and I get along great with her family and all but I really don't feel "ready" to get married and I don't know why. Spending the rest of my life with her doesnt scare me, I just don't want to "right now" and I don't know why I feel this way.
I feel bad that it just doesn't come easy for me. I should say here that I hate making commitments to anything or taking risks, I know thats immature but it is what it is. I'm also somewhat of a loner. I like being able to just pick up and go on a trip or whatever if I want to.
Should I just break up with her so she can find someone else who'd have no problem settling down? Should I just get over myself and take the plunge?
Any words of wisdom?
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Posted on 2/29/20 at 10:23 pm to SidewalkTiger
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How do you have time for a relationship???
Posted on 2/29/20 at 10:23 pm to SidewalkTiger
Sack up and not come here for advice.
Posted on 2/29/20 at 10:24 pm to SidewalkTiger
This is where I parked my car.
Posted on 2/29/20 at 10:24 pm to SidewalkTiger
youve come to the right place
Posted on 2/29/20 at 10:25 pm to SidewalkTiger
Does she know this? If not, tell her and see where the relationship goes from there.
If she does know I am surprised she would consider marrying you given your apathy.
If she does know I am surprised she would consider marrying you given your apathy.
Posted on 2/29/20 at 10:25 pm to SidewalkTiger
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Should I just break up with her so she can find someone else who'd have no problem settling down? Should I just get over myself and take the plunge?
Tell her you don't feel ready. She'll probably make the decision for you.
I'd also add, 26 is young and you have plenty of time to settle down.
Posted on 2/29/20 at 10:25 pm to SidewalkTiger
Just suck her dad’s dick.
Posted on 2/29/20 at 10:26 pm to SidewalkTiger
if you have to ask, you need to accept that that is your answer right there
Posted on 2/29/20 at 10:26 pm to SidewalkTiger
Pics?
Does she swallow?
Does she swallow?
Posted on 2/29/20 at 10:30 pm to SidewalkTiger
You dump her and you dump her fast!
You only get three great loves in your life.
You only get three great loves in your life.
Posted on 2/29/20 at 10:30 pm to SidewalkTiger
Be honest with her and let her go. Don’t waste anymore of her time. If you realized you made a mistake, hope you have a chance to fight and get her back. It’s the only way you’ll know and also not be selfish.
Posted on 2/29/20 at 10:31 pm to wheelr
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I'd also add, 26 is young and you have plenty of time to settle down.
Half of the people in my life say, "Get married ASAP so you can spend the most of your life possible with someone you love."
The other half say, "Enjoy being single cause life will change when you get married."
Its all very confusing.
Posted on 2/29/20 at 10:32 pm to SidewalkTiger
Let her move there. Try it out full time. If it doesn’t work, you can both get on with your lives
This isn’t rocket science
This isn’t rocket science
Posted on 2/29/20 at 10:33 pm to SidewalkTiger
Just sit her down and tell her straight up that you aren't ready for what she's apparently ready for. Let the chips fall where they may, but be honest. Getting married when you aren't ready is a bad foundation to start out on.
Posted on 2/29/20 at 10:33 pm to SidewalkTiger
Stay single for the rest of your life to do anything you want whenever you want.
Posted on 2/29/20 at 10:34 pm to SidewalkTiger
She’s a whore and cheating on you anyway the kid is not yours
Posted on 2/29/20 at 10:35 pm to SidewalkTiger
First, you came to the right place.
Now that that’s out of the way...
You like her but you only see her for limited times. You can’t be sure if she’s the right one until you have to see her all the time. If she’s around at any moment and you still want to spend time with her, then you know.
Until then, you are just playing boyfriend-girlfriend.
Now that that’s out of the way...
You like her but you only see her for limited times. You can’t be sure if she’s the right one until you have to see her all the time. If she’s around at any moment and you still want to spend time with her, then you know.
Until then, you are just playing boyfriend-girlfriend.
Posted on 2/29/20 at 10:36 pm to SidewalkTiger
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She's pretty much everything I want in a girl and I get along great with her family and all but I really don't feel "ready" to get married and I don't know why. Spending the rest of my life with her doesnt scare me, I just don't want to "right now" and I don't know why I feel this way.
You feel that way because you don’t want to marry her. Tell her. Don’t be the dick that lets her relocate thinking you’re going to get married.
This post was edited on 2/29/20 at 10:38 pm
Posted on 2/29/20 at 10:37 pm to SidewalkTiger
Make a decision and live with it
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