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Is It Possible To Feel Gratitude Without Belief In A Higher Power?

Posted on 12/11/19 at 2:34 pm
Posted by Perfect Circle
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Member since Sep 2017
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Posted on 12/11/19 at 2:34 pm
Was driving, admiring the beauty of the day, when an overwhelming sense of gratitude came over me.

I'm healthy, have a wonderful wife, completely normal healthy children, have never known hunger or been without a roof over my head. In addition, I live in a country that is inarguably the greatest in the history of...ever. I felt profoundly humble and blessed.

And it made me wonder; do people without a belief in a Higher Power ever feel gratitutde? If so, to what do they attribute their blessings? Where would their gratitude be directed?


Chance?
Kharma?
Their lucky stars?

Appreciate your thoughts!
There's no religion board, so I thought I'd post the question here.
Posted by BlackHelicopterPilot
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Member since Feb 2004
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Posted on 12/11/19 at 2:36 pm to
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And it made me wonder; do people without a belief in a Higher Power ever feel gratitutde?


Of course.

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If so, to what do they attribute their blessings?




I needn't have a Being give me blessing in order to appreciate a beautiful day / scenery.

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Where would their gratitude be directed?


Okay...I get what you are saying. I'm not "grateful" TO Someone. I am grateful to be alive and healthy, etc.


ETA: I suppose "Chance" is the best choice here. Yes, by chance, this beautiful place and my wonderful life occurred s
This post was edited on 12/11/19 at 2:37 pm
Posted by Langland
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Member since Apr 2014
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Posted on 12/11/19 at 2:37 pm to
You know God loves you when you are being disciplined by God. When things are going great and there are no troubles in your life for an extended period of time, then I would start to worry.
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Posted by arcalades
USA
Member since Feb 2014
19276 posts
Posted on 12/11/19 at 2:37 pm to
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Higher Power
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Kharma?
Their lucky stars?
Kharma is a buddhism/hindu religious belief. Stars should speak for themselves as a higher thing.
Posted by RaginCajunz
Member since Mar 2009
5466 posts
Posted on 12/11/19 at 2:37 pm to
Atheist here. Not militant. I was raised Methodist and share most Christian values as great values for living and a healthy society. I just don’t believe in the storyline around said values.

Yes. I feel grateful daily. Excited to live, enjoy life, healthy kids, wife etc.

If you feel grief, are you angry at god?
Posted by ShoeBang
Member since May 2012
19378 posts
Posted on 12/11/19 at 2:39 pm to
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do people without a belief in a Higher Power ever feel gratitutde?


Yep.

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If so, to what do they attribute their blessings?


Random good luck. If God "blessed" you, what do you say about the kid with flies around his mouth and a distended belly? Cursed? God forgot? You tell me. I say unlucky and in need of assistance. Otherwise, the only logical explanation for the juxtaposition of your "blessings" and his "curse" can only mean the higher power plays favorites, at a minimum. Good on you for being on the nice list.

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Where would their gratitude be directed?

To the people that helped them along the way. You know, in reality where things happen.
Posted by BlackHelicopterPilot
Top secret lab
Member since Feb 2004
52833 posts
Posted on 12/11/19 at 2:39 pm to
Why on earth did anyone Down Vote this post? It is a welcomed topic and presented very well.

I feel gratitude for the OP starting this thread
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
143060 posts
Posted on 12/11/19 at 2:40 pm to
"The worst moment for an atheist is when they are truly thankful, but have no one to thank." -- Dante Gabriel Rosetti
Posted by NolaTiger52
New Orleans
Member since Jul 2018
1870 posts
Posted on 12/11/19 at 2:41 pm to
Who gives a damn? Believe what you want to believe, feel what you want to feel.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83686 posts
Posted on 12/11/19 at 2:41 pm to
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And it made me wonder; do people without a belief in a Higher Power ever feel gratitutde? If so, to what do they attribute their blessings? Where would their gratitude be directed?


of course

and yes, I attribute it to chance

Posted by efrad
Member since Nov 2007
18657 posts
Posted on 12/11/19 at 2:42 pm to
I am a Buddhist. You wouldn't feel grateful to/for karma. Karma is just cause and effect. It is the relationship between the good things you do and the good outcomes you get. It is not some cosmic power or universal judge. It's just simply the idea that you reap what you sow.

So I guess you could be grateful for the good actions that others have done in the past that allow you to live in the wonderful world we live in today.
Posted by Harry Caray
Denial
Member since Aug 2009
18665 posts
Posted on 12/11/19 at 2:42 pm to
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And it made me wonder; do people without a belief in a Higher Power ever feel gratitutde? If so, to what do they attribute their blessings? Where would their gratitude be directed?

Mostly towards my parents and myself for getting me in such a favorable situation growing up. Although I will say lately I've felt more...guilt may not be the right word, but I do sometimes struggle with knowing how easy it was to attain a comfortable financial situation while knowing that, by sheer bad luck, billions of others alive today will never know this comfort.
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
18561 posts
Posted on 12/11/19 at 2:43 pm to
I admit it’s hard to feel gratitude. I certainly appreciate life and the good times, but to say “thank you”? To what? Fate? Chance? Physics?

Losing my faith in a higher being has made it hard to not see everything as meaningless.
Posted by TigerStripes06
SWLA
Member since Sep 2006
30032 posts
Posted on 12/11/19 at 2:46 pm to
Life is chance. We’re all just lucky we weren’t born in Rwanda or Somalia or some shite.
Posted by King George
Member since Dec 2013
5401 posts
Posted on 12/11/19 at 2:54 pm to
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do people without a belief in a Higher Power ever feel gratitutde?
Yes.

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If so, to what do they attribute their blessings?
Blessings? Like having a healthy family? That's just a normal day for most (not all obviously) people...Christian or not.

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Where would their gratitude be directed?
At whoever deserves it I suppose. An important package was delivered on time...Thank you FedEx. Someone held the door open for me...Thank you kindly, ma'am. Hundreds of kids who are less fortunate now have winter coats...Thanks to all of those who donated.

You might be overthinking the concept of gratitude, OP.
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
57573 posts
Posted on 12/11/19 at 2:54 pm to
why does being grateful have to be attributed to any sort of higher power?
Posted by ShoeBang
Member since May 2012
19378 posts
Posted on 12/11/19 at 2:57 pm to
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Perfect Circle


The irony of your post is not lost on me with your Username.

Go give "Judith" a listen and see what someone thinks of the faithful with bad luck.
Posted by TigerJeff
the Emerald Coast
Member since Oct 2006
16356 posts
Posted on 12/11/19 at 2:58 pm to
No, it’s not, and, I recommend you read CS Lewis.
Posted by MLU
Member since Feb 2017
1677 posts
Posted on 12/11/19 at 3:04 pm to
quote:

Was driving, admiring the beauty of the day, when an overwhelming sense of gratitude came over me.

I'm healthy, have a wonderful wife, completely normal healthy children, have never known hunger or been without a roof over my head. In addition, I live in a country that is inarguably the greatest in the history of...ever. I felt profoundly humble and blessed.

And it made me wonder; do people without a belief in a Higher Power ever feel gratitutde? If so, to what do they attribute their blessings? Where would their gratitude be directed?


Chance?
Kharma?
Their lucky stars?

Appreciate your thoughts!
There's no religion board, so I thought I'd post the question here.
Personally speaking, it makes it easier to feel enjoy life. Perhaps it's because you feel that there is no one or nothing responsible for it that makes you appreciate it more. Perhaps it's the absence of guilt.
Maybe it's not having something hanging over your head that's threatening to punish you for eternity. I try not to get hung up on whom to direct my appreciation or the why. I just enjoy the great stuff while it's here because sometimes it's not.
Posted by whit
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
11000 posts
Posted on 12/11/19 at 3:12 pm to
It all depends on how you the individual perceive life, perceive a higher power, etc... What one considers a good life full of “blessings” another might look at it as complete opposite. We all have a choice on how we perceive life and our attitude towards it.
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