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re: UPDATE: Question for Guys Under 30 Who Are Not Married

Posted on 12/11/18 at 10:15 am to
Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18073 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 10:15 am to
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I guess I've been trying to make up for deficiencies and selfishness in past relationships by trying extra hard with her.


You are smothering her, back off and hang out without her and see if she comes around.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32738 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 10:19 am to
No miserable woman is worth suffering through long term just because she is hot.

At best, You two have an incompatible sexual chemistry. At worst, she is cheating on you.

Either way, it's likely time to move on. Especially after only 3 months.
Posted by metalfacedterrorist
Athens, GA
Member since Jul 2018
260 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 10:22 am to
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Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32738 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 10:23 am to
It's a well known fact that the young hotties are generally the worst lays. They never had to try.

What you want is a hottie who was fat in Jr high/high school.
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 10:23 am to
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You know, there is a bit of irony to the fact that the finest woman I've ever been with puts out the least
The correlation is well documented across human history
Posted by smoked hog
Arkansas
Member since Nov 2006
1819 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 10:23 am to
Honestly if she is like this at this point in the relationship just move on. You can talk to her and let her know its a deal breaker. It will either piss her off or she will start screwing like crazy for a couple weeks. She will then revert to her norm and you can feel free to walk away knowing you tried.
Posted by El Magnifico
La casa de tu mamá
Member since Jan 2014
7017 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 10:24 am to
run, it only gets worse
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 10:26 am to
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It's a well known fact that the young hotties are generally the worst lays.

I've experienced that phenomena before, but not always the case, plus, if they're eager and trainable it makes all the difference in the world
Posted by ZappBrannigan
Member since Jun 2015
7692 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 10:52 am to
fricking somebody else and either hasn't showered since or doesn't want to shower after getting done with you then meeting him.
Posted by whoisnickdoobs
Lafayette
Member since Apr 2012
9352 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 10:52 am to
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if you're not trolling, you seriously need to move on



So, if I am trolling you want me to stick around?
Posted by metalfacedterrorist
Athens, GA
Member since Jul 2018
260 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 11:09 am to
A
This post was edited on 9/15/19 at 11:43 pm
Posted by metalfacedterrorist
Athens, GA
Member since Jul 2018
260 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 11:13 am to
A
This post was edited on 9/15/19 at 11:42 pm
Posted by BurningHeart
Member since Jan 2017
9546 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 11:25 am to
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My old man suggested that I lay my cards on the table and let her know that this is a problem. I'm usually the type to at least attempt to talk things out. 


While I don't disagree, you may be better served by some of the other advice in this thread regarding your smothering her.

Also try and notice subtle hints she's giving you about not being happy for whatever reason, and work to improve on those things.

Once you have the sit down, things will likely be very awkward for both of you afterwards. You can't force someone to want to have sex with you.
Posted by TheEnglishman
On the road to Wellville
Member since Mar 2010
3119 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 11:40 am to
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A) she is not getting off.


I was just about to ask if OP was sure she was getting off at least half the time.

It took me till i was 30 to fully understand that some girls take a little more effort at the end to get off. You have to make sure she gets off regularly and she will be coming back for more even when you arent in the mood.

Now with that being said... any relationship that starts off with her telling you no and rejecting your advances is a SUPER RED FLAG. If you stay it will get worse and worse unless she starts changing and understanding your needs.

my advice... spend sometime making sure she is getting her cookies... if she is and you are still getting rejected... Bail.
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30152 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 11:48 am to
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However, we're around each other far too often for that to be the case.


dont you realize that she doesnt need to go out to a bar to pick up guys, she most likely has guys she scheduled booty calls with and that 40 minute trip to walmart is when she is getting pounded.

we go without, THEY dont....... its a fact
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
Lurking the Tin Foil Hat Board
Member since Jul 2009
47968 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 11:49 am to
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She claimed that all I seemed to care about was sex and that she doesn't always feel like having it...blah, blah, blah...asked me if she should feel obligated to have sex with me...blah, blah, blah...it's perfectly normal to not want to have sex, etc.



Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 11:50 am to
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So, if I am trolling you want me to stick around?

yes, you deserve it then
Posted by metalfacedterrorist
Athens, GA
Member since Jul 2018
260 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 12:05 pm to
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This post was edited on 9/15/19 at 11:42 pm
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 12:09 pm to
I’m pretty sure you’re dating my ex, man
This post was edited on 12/11/18 at 12:16 pm
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
16673 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 12:15 pm to
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I’m pretty sure you’re dating my ex man


I think you might be missing a comma that could alter your statement here
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