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re: UPDATE: Question for Guys Under 30 Who Are Not Married

Posted on 12/11/18 at 3:18 pm to
Posted by terriblegreen
Souf Badden Rewage
Member since Aug 2011
9651 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 3:18 pm to
quote:

She claimed that all I seemed to care about was sex and that she doesn't always feel like having it...blah, blah, blah...


The last girl I dated said the same. We broke up.
Posted by metalfacedterrorist
Athens, GA
Member since Jul 2018
260 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 3:19 pm to
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This post was edited on 9/16/19 at 12:03 am
Posted by Loaner1231
Member since Jan 2016
3903 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 3:21 pm to
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She actually was molested at as a young teen and has had eating disorders in the past.

Was I wrong to not walk away when all of this first came to light?


Ok, now I'm convinced this is a troll.

ETA: But just in case its not we need pics, especially of that arse... You know, so all the baws posting in this thread can know to run away when they see her.
This post was edited on 12/11/18 at 3:35 pm
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 3:22 pm to
Now I’m sure you’re trolling, if not you might be one of the most obtuse mutherfrickers in the history of the world
Posted by MrLSU
Yellowstone, Val d'isere
Member since Jan 2004
25992 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 3:23 pm to
quote:

a couple in their 20s who have dated for less than 3 months


Clearly you have missed the boat here my friend. You have to give her a RING first before she cuts you off. You have done this all wrong!!!! Find a new one and start over.
Posted by MrLSU
Yellowstone, Val d'isere
Member since Jan 2004
25992 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 3:25 pm to
quote:

She actually was molested at as a young teen and has had eating disorders in the past.


This one is marriage material. You should marry her before her next husband signs on the dotted line.
Posted by boxcarbarney
Above all things, be a man
Member since Jul 2007
22742 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 3:27 pm to
Dump her and find a chick who puts out. Whoever you marry, they will be miserable, so at least she'll put out while being miserable.
Posted by Not Cooper
Member since Jun 2015
4691 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 3:29 pm to
quote:

She actually was molested at as a young teen and has had eating disorders in the past.

Was I wrong to not walk away when all of this first came to light?

Dude this is not a sex drive issue at all.

If she feels like she's obligated or being forced to do it she absolutely won't because of her past. By getting frustrated when she won't put out you're just making this way worse.

There are so many reasons why a girl could have a lower sex drive, but this seems to be cut and dry. History of molestation + feeling of obligation = PTSD = No tang. Honestly, The more you push the worse that will get.

Also you should encourage her to get some help with her mental health. Mental health issues can absolutely destroy someones sex life.
Posted by Muff
The dirty south.
Member since Oct 2014
526 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 3:32 pm to
this feller dumber n' god damned bag of hammers.
Posted by metalfacedterrorist
Athens, GA
Member since Jul 2018
260 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 3:34 pm to
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Posted by LSUGRAD2008
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2018
479 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 3:40 pm to
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She’s fricking somebody else, baw.



Bingo
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 3:41 pm to
Then you are one of the most obtuse motherfrickers in the history of the world
Posted by ShoeBang
Member since May 2012
19361 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 3:42 pm to
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Now married and 34 it’s 3-4 times a year.


I'm 33, Wife is 32. P goes in the V at least 2 times a week.

Honestly, your wife shouldn't be surprised when she catches you finding hookers or some shite. 34 years old is still prime fricking years. If you aren't getting it from her you should be getting it somewhere else and she shouldn't feel angry about it.

I feel sorry for some of you dudes. 8 years into my marriage and it really gets better all the time.
Posted by metalfacedterrorist
Athens, GA
Member since Jul 2018
260 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 3:42 pm to
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This post was edited on 9/16/19 at 12:02 am
Posted by zeebo
Hammond
Member since Jan 2008
5195 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 3:55 pm to
Marry her.
Posted by boxcarbarney
Above all things, be a man
Member since Jul 2007
22742 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 3:56 pm to
Dude, run. That really sucks that she was molested when she was younger, but her problems shouldn't have to be your problems.

If she is that impacted by that event, spending the rest of your life with her is not going to make her come around.
This post was edited on 12/11/18 at 3:57 pm
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
80272 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 4:02 pm to
She’s not going to have a healthy sex drive or one that is compatible with yours and that absolutely is a legitimate reason to break up with some.
Posted by PurpleKnight88
Laplace, LA
Member since Jan 2009
856 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 4:10 pm to
Either help her deal with her issues or move one. The issues you mentioned definitely can play into it. After you let her know that you are sensitive to her feelings, lay there in the bed and jack it onto her back and tell her that it could have been in her but she chose otherwise. Roll over and sleep tight.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
30136 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 4:44 pm to
quote:

She actually was molested at as a young teen and has had eating disorders in the past.

Was I wrong to not walk away when all of this first came to light?


You weren’t wrong for not walking away. The heart/penis wants what it wants.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33794 posts
Posted on 12/11/18 at 4:47 pm to
quote:

Honestly, is it wrong to expect to get laid 3-5 times per week when you are in a monogamous, non-marital relationship with a 22-year-old woman who has no children and is a college student?


5 times a week?

Do you work?

Also are you a rabbit?
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