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re: Reasons women lose respect for their husbands (by a woman)

Posted on 9/1/18 at 5:05 am to
Posted by TJGator1215
FL/TN
Member since Sep 2011
14174 posts
Posted on 9/1/18 at 5:05 am to
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her love language is physical touch...and you aren't being a little affectionate to her....she is gonna interpret this in her head as her emotional needs aren't being met.


Posted by cbree88
South Louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
5637 posts
Posted on 9/1/18 at 6:41 am to
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We start losing respect when you stop meeting our emotional needs. 


You want respect, we want emotional support


That's a bullshite reason that a lot of women give, nurse.

Just being in touch with your feelings and giving emotional support gets you absolutely nowhere with women.

Women want a man who's manly and acts like a man, even if the women don't realize that they want that. Providing constant emotional support is what your girl friends do.
This post was edited on 9/1/18 at 6:51 am
Posted by partywiththelombardi
Member since May 2012
11599 posts
Posted on 9/1/18 at 7:49 am to
5 reasons men lose respect for their wives

You don't earn money or suck at being a stay at home - women want men who are driven well men want women who take their roles seriously as well. Women with careers are attractive as are legit stay at home moms who strive in their role. You know cleans, cooks, and manages the kids at a high level, the mom who is on top of everything.

a stay at home that lives on the couch, with hoarder disease shopping on amazon, eating Cheetos all day watching lifetime tv shows, complains about watching the kids (they have been xboxing all day and she was posting on FB about mom struggles)

You got fat - self explanatory. You were a size 2 when we met...you are now a 6-8. Most men get shite when they put 4 inches on their waist but females are allowed to triple-quadruple their body size.

You don't put out - Dry spells in a marriage can happen on occasion. People get busy and lost in things. Some people live in abstinent marriages.

You communicate in the form of nag and cry - Your husband works and takes/deals with shite all day...comes home and just wants to sit on the couch with a beer in silence to breathe for a second to himself.

However as soon as he opens the front door he is bombarded with an IED of verbal diarrhea consisting solely of nonsense that no one should care about. Tammy said blah at brunch and that hurt your feelings but you didn't say anything then. So and so said this but you "know" this is what they meant, blah, blah, blah, rabble, rabble, rabble.

Your husband wants a chick that is chill and can talk without being emotionally charged by everything. You are supposed to be a coping mechanism for life...not a dreaded daily task to deal with.

You try to control other people - don't pick your husband's friends, and don't canc bro time with friends he has known his whole life. If you don't like them you can voice why and hope he agrees and decides to move on. It is not your job to create his social environment. Don't like his family...good neither does he. However just like your shitty family he loves them so deal with it ideally without nagging the whole time about going to see them. If he has hobbies support them...you aren't supposed to take up all of his free time.


This post was edited on 9/1/18 at 7:52 am
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
14927 posts
Posted on 9/1/18 at 7:57 am to
The length of sex is different with every woman. Some take longer than others to get off. Some don’t want a long session and some do. It’s probably good if the man can hang in to get her off at least once. I’m lucky, my wife can have 2-3 orgasms in 15 minutes, I have the option of going short (10 mins) or long (30 mins). Anything longer than 30 is just as bad or worse for her as being too quick for her. If it goes 45 to an hour I’m not getting it again for a little while.

TLDR: If you want regular sex, you have to get her off, but not run too long.
Posted by TygerTyger
Houston
Member since Oct 2010
9275 posts
Posted on 9/1/18 at 8:04 am to
All of this.

And just about the time you get to know them well enough to improve the accuracy of you estimates of her needs, she changes that shite 180 degrees.

My revelation has been that you can make a woman happy, but you can’t keep her happy. It’s just a matter of time before she’ll find something else to bitch about.
Posted by Ace Midnight
Between sanity and madness
Member since Dec 2006
89765 posts
Posted on 9/1/18 at 8:13 am to
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His minivan message is also unhealthy.


Dude is so wrong about automobiles, generally, he's like "opposite guy."
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
56642 posts
Posted on 9/1/18 at 8:14 am to
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woman on her way to checking out will justify it however she can.
truer words never spoken, but you will never read that in Cosmo
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
84464 posts
Posted on 9/1/18 at 8:22 am to
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Dude is so wrong about automobiles, generally, he's like "opposite guy."



Like what? Name some examples of me being wrong about automobiles.

ETA: I see you online over an hour later and not responding. Just like the last guy that said something similar.
This post was edited on 9/1/18 at 9:27 am
Posted by Farkwad
Byzantium
Member since Sep 2010
2669 posts
Posted on 9/1/18 at 8:51 am to
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hanging out with guy friends


This enite piece is pathetic and she is a count. If my wife wants to “hang out” with guy friends,there is a problem. The phrasing of that senetnce makles me think the count that wrote it likes to get bukkake gangbanged.
This post was edited on 9/1/18 at 8:52 am
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47590 posts
Posted on 9/1/18 at 8:54 am to
I love minivans.
Posted by LoveThatMoney
Who knows where?
Member since Jan 2008
12268 posts
Posted on 9/1/18 at 9:12 am to
I give a shite what some dumb woman on a never heard of before website has to say...

Posted by biglego
Ask your mom where I been
Member since Nov 2007
76743 posts
Posted on 9/1/18 at 9:35 am to
Minivans are great. Toyota Sienna rocks
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