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Men With Paid Paternity Leave

Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:04 am
Posted by Clark W Griswold
THE USA
Member since Sep 2012
10512 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:04 am
So now that some companies offer up to 8 weeks paid paternity leave, who here has done it and how did you handle your work taking all that time off?
Posted by TexasTiger1185
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2011
13071 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:08 am to
8 week’s is a lot!
Posted by Buga_Scores
L.C
Member since Jul 2014
1834 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:08 am to
My job allows you up to 120 hrs of paid leave. I took 80 hrs and ran back lol.
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30615 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:09 am to
What do you do for 8 weeks on paternity leave? Help take care of the kid for a couple weeks, then take a few strokes off your golf game?
Posted by NewGrad1212
Russia
Member since May 2012
433 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:12 am to
If you're company gives you 8 weeks then take it. Help with the kid and fix things around the house. Take advantage of what they give you!
Posted by drunkenpunkin
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2011
7659 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:15 am to
My husband's company does. He was planning on taking just 2 weeks, but he took the entire time little DP was in the NICU. I have no idea how I would have made it without him. Very grateful for the paid leave and understanding of his company and coworkers.
Posted by Areddishfish
The Wild West
Member since Oct 2015
6284 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:17 am to
quote:

So now that some companies offer up to 8 weeks paid paternity leave, who here has done it and how did you handle your work taking all that time off?


I believe this is an extreme minority. Most companies don't have anything and say use vacation or FMLA, but FMLA usually doesn't have any pay it just holds your job for 3 months.
Posted by WildManGoose
Member since Nov 2005
4568 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:18 am to
8 weeks is pretty ridiculous, but good for you. A lot of mothers only get 6.
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
32510 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:20 am to
We have to use sick days and honestly 2-3 days would be the max without pissing them off.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83630 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:20 am to
8 weeks is a long time. Not sure if I would take a full 8 weeks. At least not fully. Maybe work from home or something.

My company started giving us 2 weeks paid leave. I'll definitely take all of that.

I took 2 weeks vacation for our first kid. It is nice not having to save vacation days for it.
Posted by Bustedsack
Member since Dec 2017
4387 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:20 am to
We get 6 weeks. You best believe I'm taking it once I have an illegitimate baby.
Posted by Tiger Prawn
Member since Dec 2016
21967 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:28 am to
8 weeks seems ridiculous. 2 weeks seems like it would be more than fair for paternity leave. Enough time to get settled back in at home with the baby and have dad helping out around the house and with the baby while mom recovers. Make exceptions for longer leave in cases where the baby and/or mother had issues or complications that cause longer hospitalization or recovery time than normal.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
53120 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:29 am to
We had a guy on the rig that wanted paternity leave and we always called him snowflake
Posted by Areddishfish
The Wild West
Member since Oct 2015
6284 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:29 am to
My wife works at a very pro-women company and she doesn't get paid maternity leave. They offer a short term disability package through Aflac but you have to be enrolled nine months prior to becoming pregnant we are starting to save now because she will be off for two months without pay. This is the one thing that Europe does right. Most countries there offer generous packages to dads and moms when there is a birth of a child. Otherwise, Europe is quite backwards.
Posted by NewGrad1212
Russia
Member since May 2012
433 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:32 am to
First off, the people in this thread saying if you take 8 weeks off then that means you're expendable are wrong.

If your company gave you 8 weeks in your contract they did it to be competitive. Take that shite!

I have no kids and work for a company that gives dads 1 day. Most take a week off and we feel bad they have to do that. Dad's are just as important as Moms.
Posted by crankbait
Member since Feb 2008
11623 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:34 am to
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how did you handle your work taking all that time off?


they don't. If you can take that much time off, youre very replaceable.
This post was edited on 3/19/18 at 8:38 am
Posted by BigPerm30
Member since Aug 2011
26024 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:41 am to
So we’re getting 8 weeks off and in the other thread talking about men not wanting sex. Are we developing vaginas? For fricks sake.
Posted by oleyeller
Vols, Bitch
Member since Oct 2012
32022 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:43 am to
i got 12 weeks with my current one i can use over 12months
Posted by TheDeathValley
New Orleans, LA
Member since Sep 2010
17198 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:55 am to
quote:

So now that some companies offer up to 8 weeks paid paternity leave, who here has done it and how did you handle your work taking all that time off?



I got 6 weeks paid. I took two weeks when my daughter was born, went back to work, and now I have four weeks of time I can use for things like doctors appointments, holidays, etc.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97716 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:55 am to
Babies are a mom thing. I'd have paid to go back to work after a week
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