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re: I don't know what to do. I just want to end it
Posted on 1/14/18 at 10:05 pm to deltaland
Posted on 1/14/18 at 10:05 pm to deltaland
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Now it's like a switch flipped and can't even get someone to answer a phone call. Just feel abandoned. And I got to the point I wanted to settle down seek more in life like start a family. And that won't happen not with my reputation, my decisions as a young wild man have ruined any positive future.
Move. Go somewhere you've always dreamed of living and start over. Reinvent yourself and meet new friends.
I think I remember you saying you're a farmer and/or own a lot of land, so I'm sure you have reservations about leaving. But selling everything and starting over is better than ending your life. Even if you're only left with $20K you're doing better than most people in their 20s.
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Posted on 1/14/18 at 10:06 pm to Lawyered
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from one Ratliff resident to another
Well I’ll be damn
This post was edited on 1/14/18 at 10:21 pm
Posted on 1/14/18 at 10:07 pm to deltaland
quote:The most selfish thing you can do.
I want to just end it all.
If you knew MY story you would be happy to have YOUR troubles.
Your problems are easily fixable but it will take time.
They are fixable NOW but the blow is going to just make them worse and eventually not fixable.
Man up, put on your big boy drawers, put the dope and money wasting habits away, talk to some professionals and make a plan.
As for the girl, I lost 2 girls I was in love with. So what followed that? #3 and have been married for 49 years, have a beautiful and successful family and are still in love. If you truly love her the memories and pain will never go away but it will get better. You'll NEVER forget her.
Posted on 1/14/18 at 10:07 pm to Rouge
quote:and i do it using normal parking spots
If Chris and owlie can make it in this crazy world, then we all have a shot
Posted on 1/14/18 at 10:07 pm to Yat27
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Move. Go somewhere you've always dreamed of living and start over. Reinvent yourself and meet new friends.
Yep. Sell everything, go West. Find a place that feels good and start over
Posted on 1/14/18 at 10:08 pm to deltaland
None of my married friends wanted me around when I was single. So don’t overthink that
Fly out west, rent a car and ride around in God’s country. It helped me after my divorce.
Fly out west, rent a car and ride around in God’s country. It helped me after my divorce.
Posted on 1/14/18 at 10:13 pm to Yat27
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Move. Go somewhere you've always dreamed of living and start over. Reinvent yourself and meet new friends. I think I remember you saying you're a farmer and/or own a lot of land, so I'm sure you have reservations about leaving. But selling everything and starting over is better than ending your life. Even if you're only left with $20K you're doing better than most people in their 20s.
Best advice so far imo. That and get help op. shite’s not nearly as bad as your mind is making it out to be.
Posted on 1/14/18 at 10:13 pm to deltaland
You sound white, if so..smile, you've got that going for you.
Posted on 1/14/18 at 10:14 pm to deltaland
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rat holing cash out of my account and blowing it on coke
I mean... This doesn't sound too bad right now.
Posted on 1/14/18 at 10:17 pm to PaperPaintball92
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Stop doing drugs, figure out your financial situation, and move on.
To clarify I don't drink or do drugs on a daily basis. Like I don't have a problem. I work my arse off during the week and don't touch anything and like to let loose on the weekend.
What's bothering me is the unreal stress I have to due to my daily job and the issues with the company I'm partners in. Along with the afore mentioned personal things I've done in the past.
I'm not a suicidal person. But lately there is the thought creeping into my head I can't get rid of. It just pops in there like an evil voice telling me "just end it, and your problems will go away" and with the unusual high levels of stress I'm experiencing it almost sounds inviting. And that honestly scares the shite out of me because I've always been a person in control of my emotions and could find a way to fix things and get on top. Im not the type to give up and I don't know why all of the sudden giving up sounds so good. Im ashamed of myself for that
Posted on 1/14/18 at 10:18 pm to deltaland
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collection agencies are calling me
Do what I do... block their numbers. Pretty simple solution. frick 'em.
Once you find a new piece of pussy you'll forget all about your ex. I've been through that situation many times.
This post was edited on 1/14/18 at 10:20 pm
Posted on 1/14/18 at 10:19 pm to deltaland
This board averages about one suicidal post a week now. The suicide hotline should be a permanent sticky at the top.
Posted on 1/14/18 at 10:20 pm to deltaland
Probably life telling you that what you're doing isn't a good fit. A lifetime of stress sucks
Posted on 1/14/18 at 10:20 pm to deltaland
Your assessments about others are useful. Don't be naive from Now on.
Makes changes in your own process. Blow Is not a good long term answer.
New goals.
Makes changes in your own process. Blow Is not a good long term answer.
New goals.
This post was edited on 1/14/18 at 10:20 pm
Posted on 1/14/18 at 10:21 pm to down time
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Take a vacation and go let off some steam in greener pastures.
I do really need this. But I'm the type that hates doing things alone. I'm only 27 and not married no kids. Trying to find a friend to go somewhere with me and my friends are still my friends don't get me wrong I've just reached a point where they all have kids or a wife now. It sucks cause it feels like you have nobody there when you need them. Which is why I started this thread I guess...just needed to blow off some steam and get some advice from good people trying to figure out how I should move forward cause I'm at a roadblock of sorts
This post was edited on 1/14/18 at 10:26 pm
Posted on 1/14/18 at 10:22 pm to Cowboyfan89
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frick life and frick everyone else. I don't know what to do I just like everyone around me has been using me all this time
There are always people out there looking to help others. If you feel like everyone around you has been strictly using you, then it's because you've chosen to hang or be with low-life people, so you can't quite blame them for everything when you made the choice to invite them into your life over other more wholesome people who could be in your life.
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I haven't done anything wrong to anyone. Most of my long-time friends won't talk/hangout anymore. I've lost the girl I dated for years that I wanted to marry.
This is telling me that something is wrong. People usually don't abandon you for no reason. In order for anything to get better, the first thing though you have to do is kick the drug habit. That will destroy you and leave you blind to any problems you might be creating for yourself. It will also leave you broke (and your other problems will still be there after the high wears off shortly).
Try to find one person that cares about you so someone can help you to get some help or seek out a therapist or counselor.
This post was edited on 1/14/18 at 10:32 pm
Posted on 1/14/18 at 10:22 pm to deltaland
Delete. Go to bed. The sun Wil shine tomorrow.
Posted on 1/14/18 at 10:24 pm to deltaland
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But I'm the type that hates doing things alone.
Maybe it's time to stretch yourself. Do things you haven't done before. Travel alone, go somewhere beautiful.
Posted on 1/14/18 at 10:26 pm to deltaland
Call your mom and/or dad. Doesn’t matter what time it is.
Posted on 1/14/18 at 10:31 pm to peaster68
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Peaster
We've drank many many beers together while we were there, with the same group of friends. I lived with the greatest long-snapper and sadly helped edit his own highlight tape
This post was edited on 1/14/18 at 10:33 pm
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