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re: Dad's letting daughters date.
Posted on 12/2/17 at 11:24 pm to Bullseye
Posted on 12/2/17 at 11:24 pm to Bullseye
I can't blame you. Luckily, my daughter had one HS boyfriend and then one college boyfriend that she married after careers were established.
13 is young for dating except a school dance type event. Clean your guns.....
13 is young for dating except a school dance type event. Clean your guns.....
Posted on 12/2/17 at 11:25 pm to FreddieMac
He will be slipping fingers in there though.
Posted on 12/2/17 at 11:29 pm to Bullseye
many of our ancestors were married at 13
you should be finding her a wealthy husband
too bad Roy Moore isn't available
you should be finding her a wealthy husband
too bad Roy Moore isn't available
Posted on 12/2/17 at 11:41 pm to Bullseye
You did the right thing.
I know I will get downvoted for agreeing and that's OK.
Don't let her rush growing up. Thirteen is far too young to deal with the complexities of having a "relationship". She had her whole life ahead of her. Plenty of time for all of that when she is older. I think the most important thing that she saw is that you care about her enough to protect her from an unwise situation. She may hate you now, but she will appreciate it down the road. Good job, don't be afraid to be the a-hole parent. I wasn't.
I know I will get downvoted for agreeing and that's OK.
Don't let her rush growing up. Thirteen is far too young to deal with the complexities of having a "relationship". She had her whole life ahead of her. Plenty of time for all of that when she is older. I think the most important thing that she saw is that you care about her enough to protect her from an unwise situation. She may hate you now, but she will appreciate it down the road. Good job, don't be afraid to be the a-hole parent. I wasn't.
This post was edited on 12/2/17 at 11:42 pm
Posted on 12/2/17 at 11:43 pm to Bullseye
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OK baws......my daughter (13) asked to go to the movies with a boy (14) earlier today. I said NO!
So now she's not talking to me and my wife says I am being harsh. WTF?
Have fun with your daughter wanting to become a whore. Do what my Dad did in having the date pick up his daughter dragging a combined sword/rifle in his hand making it clear what will happen if he fricks with her.
Posted on 12/2/17 at 11:43 pm to Bullseye
My 13 year old knows not to even bother asking.
Posted on 12/2/17 at 11:43 pm to Beessnax
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I think the most important thing that she saw is that you care about her enough to protect her from an unwise situation.
Yeah 13 year olds definitely recognize this and the little fella is definitely just a piece of shite trying to get in her pants. 100%.
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She may hate you now, but she will appreciate it down the road.
When she's 16 and pregnant from banging some high school senior because Dad is an a-hole and won't let her drive past 9PM
Posted on 12/2/17 at 11:46 pm to Bullseye
Over the Thanksgiving holidays, we were talking about my 12 year old and boys.
She interjected and said, “I don’t have time for relationships because of school. Education always first.”
She interjected and said, “I don’t have time for relationships because of school. Education always first.”
Posted on 12/2/17 at 11:49 pm to Prominentwon
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She interjected and said, “I don’t have time for relationships because of school. Education always first.”
Kinda like the Catholic school girls saying Jesus is #1. Get real.
Posted on 12/2/17 at 11:50 pm to ThatMakesSense
How old are you? Got kids?
Didn’t think so.
It’s always hilarious to me that people that come to this board for advice for their kids on a board that’s full of people that can barely hold down a relationship, much less have any clue how to raise a child.
Didn’t think so.
It’s always hilarious to me that people that come to this board for advice for their kids on a board that’s full of people that can barely hold down a relationship, much less have any clue how to raise a child.
Posted on 12/3/17 at 12:01 am to Bullseye
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OK baws......my daughter (13) asked to go to the movies with a boy (14)
You're about to be pro choice real quick.
Posted on 12/3/17 at 12:01 am to Alleman
I like your way of thinking Alleman
Posted on 12/3/17 at 12:06 am to Bullseye
My daughters couldn't date until after the reached the age of 16. Stand strong. They will thank you later.
Posted on 12/3/17 at 12:31 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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When she's 16 and pregnant from banging some high school senior because Dad is an a-hole and won't let her drive past 9PM
Is not letting your daughter date at 13 is the same as not letting your daughter drive after 9pm when she is 16?
Has anyone met a 13 year old? What's that, 7th grade?
This post was edited on 12/3/17 at 12:33 am
Posted on 12/3/17 at 12:33 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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How naive are you? Teenagers since the beginning of time see what they can get away with. It's just part of being that age.
Not naive at all. You're painting kids with an extremely broad brush.
I knew kids in junior high that smoked weed and drank alcohol until they were blackout drunk on the weekends, and then there are those kids who are still almost like...well KIDS that still enjoy a little bit of disney channel or cartoons, they go to school, have their sports activities after, enjoy pixar type movies etc.
Theres just VERY VERY different types of kids out there.
Also, there were those that were doing sexual shite in the movies on Fridays, and then there were those kids that were probably at their church doing some youth group activity.
Some kids actually respect their parents to a degree EVEN IN the rebellious years.
There's a difference in a kid that rebels via sneaking out of the house to have sex and do drugs while maybe getting caught trespassing in some abandoned house by the police, and a kid who rebels by running back to their room and giving their parents the silent treatment for the next day. The former case can effect that child for a long time if the pattern continues unchecked.
Just like when people get angry. Some husbands get angry at their wives and may hit their wives, most others might get angry at their wives and just walk in the other room. HUGE DIFFERENCE in how they respond to the anger. Sure both get angry, but the response varies greatly.
Posted on 12/3/17 at 12:42 am to FreddieMac
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13 is old enough with a 14 year old and chaperone. Not like he is going to try and hump her in the theater.
Not hump. But I had classmates that were finger banging at that age. Dont let her go bro. As a father of daughters myself, don't give in and let that pimpled faced little turd in a dark room unsupervised with your daughter. Stand your ground
Posted on 12/3/17 at 12:52 am to Bullseye
She’s going to a movie. Bring them and pick them up. Go with them if you want and sit behind them.
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