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Morning y'all...need some advice regarding my new belle...

Posted on 9/22/17 at 5:49 am
Posted by Four Leaf Tayback
Member since Aug 2017
1621 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 5:49 am
I'm 34, she's 35. I lost my wife of 2 years to cancer in 2012. We were together a total of 9 years. That's my only marriage. This new gal was married for 1 year at the age of 22 and has been divorced for 13 years . She has no children, nor do I.

My concern is could she possibly be crazy? I know all women are crazy but she Doesn't seem to be. It's just hard for me to fathom a woman that good looking and sweet being single that long. She's absolutely beautiful. Probably the best piece I've ever had. Really like her a lot but want to be sure before a long term commitment (engagement). Am I overthinking it? Advice would be greatly appreciated.
Posted by GumboPoBoy
Member since Jun 2015
333 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 5:50 am to
Pics???
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 5:51 am to
HOW long y'all been dating
Posted by Homesick Tiger
Greenbrier, AR
Member since Nov 2006
54462 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 5:54 am to
quote:

It's just hard for me to fathom a woman that good looking and sweet being single that long.


My second wife that I'm married to was single for 22 years before me. Talking about having questions. I shite you not, five minutes after sitting down for a drink, which was only ten minutes after I met her, I asked her the big question - are you a lesbian.

She said no, things progressed from there and we were married four months later. I was 48 and she was 45.
Posted by WM_Tiger
NELA
Member since May 2017
1587 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 5:54 am to
Pics would do a lot of good in this assessment
Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
32976 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 5:58 am to
Have you asked her why she got divorced? 22 is young and it could've just been a mistake marriage.
This post was edited on 9/22/17 at 1:28 pm
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
137204 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 5:58 am to
quote:

Probably the best piece I've ever had.
you were doing so well until you gave yourself away here. You broke character. Too bad
This post was edited on 9/22/17 at 5:59 am
Posted by drexyl
Mingovia
Member since Sep 2005
23147 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:01 am to
quote:

Probably the best piece I've ever had.

This post was edited on 9/22/17 at 6:02 am
Posted by Pectus
Internet
Member since Apr 2010
67302 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:10 am to
If the only think you can remark on are looks then you are doing it wrong.
Posted by mpar98
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2006
8038 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:10 am to
Shes just reeling you in pal
Posted by 9Fiddy
19th Hole
Member since Jan 2007
64699 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:11 am to
Stop overthinking it, enjoy the ride, and don't commit until you're damn sure. The super crazy will either come out or not be there.

She may be like my wife. We met when she was 33. Single no kids never married. Was just focused on her career. Crazy never came out so I married her. Best decision I ever made.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
59752 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:15 am to
She's older than you, divorced, in her mid-30s and is not currently married. Stay away.
Posted by Das_Wanda_kid
Member since Apr 2017
438 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:17 am to
It's like shopping on the clearance rack. You are picking through everyone else's left overs. Find a 25 year old girl that doesn't have baggage with An ex or kids. I would take a 25 yr old OT 6 over a 35yr old OT 8.
Posted by 4LSU2
Member since Dec 2009
37538 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:18 am to
Enjoy the ride and don't over think it. It sounds like you are ready to move on from your first wife's passing, which I'm sure she would've wanted you to do.

Maybe this is the start of the next chapter in your life. It is a great sign to me that neither of you have kids at this time in your lives. I'm sure her biological clock is ticking, so you better start to dicking.
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
67704 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:33 am to
quote:

My concern is could she possibly be crazy?

quote:

I know all women are crazy

You answered your own question
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
122620 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:35 am to
Sorry about your loss, but it doesn't appear you jumped into another relationship before allowing time to heal, which is great.

All women have a little crazy in them, but if you have dated a while, you know the level of the one you are with.
Posted by Huck Finn
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2009
2473 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:49 am to
Imagine if a gorgeous girl spent 13 years carefully and artfully crafting a mask so good it almost fooled herself...


Just joking, I mean that would be crazy, right? It's probably fine.
Posted by LanierSpots
Sarasota, Florida
Member since Sep 2010
63626 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:49 am to
quote:

My concern is could she possibly be crazy? I


Run for the hills


Posted by CHEDBALLZ
South Central LA
Member since Dec 2009
22255 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:01 am to
-Do either of you want kids?

-Whats the living arrangements?

-Have you met her family, they cool?

-Do any of of her male family members have a nice offshore
fishing boat, duck lease or deer lease?



Shack up with her for a few months and see how things go.
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
36421 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:04 am to
All women are crazy. So let's get that out of the way.


And if she was single for a long time that only means God had her waiting to meet you. Don't question Him too much. He knows what He's doing and His timing is perfect.
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