re: Creative ways to encourage or deal with a SO who hasn't aged well?

My ole' lady asked me before we started dating "If I get ugly, would you leave me?"

Without even blinking I said "yes"

Needless to say she was offended and said that was wrong and asked why I would do that.

My response was simple. I said "If you simply allow yourself to get unattractive that shows me that you've taken me for granted and don't care what I want."

Over time she's come to see what I mean. I understand simple aging, but women just letting themselves go can GTFO.

The FDA has thousands of approved food additives. cook most meals at home with food with these absent if possible. Also, try to avoid foods that have been raised with roundup or glyphosate. avoid gmo foods if possible. Don't believe that stuff on fat unless its trans fats or cheap vegetable oils, healthy fats are not only good for you but required. cut sugar from the American average of 150lbs/year to much less.

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how do you know when your girlfriend is getting fat?










































She starts fitting in your wifes clothes.

It's a mine field topic and will likely blow up in your face.

Get Fitbits and get in a group with each other. Compare steps each day. If she is cooking crap food, refuse to eat it.

Demand cutting the junk carbs and cheap oils from even being in the house. Hit up the produce stand twice a week.

Buy some bicycles and ride together. Go hiking or whatever. Plan a beach vacation together and challenge her to be bikini ready for it.

Ask her to start fixing low carb meals (meat & veg) because you want to lose weight/get healthier/whatever. It encourages the change without coming out & saying it. Exercise is good and all, but weight loss is almost entirely diet.

She knows she's fat. I can't even imagine doubling my weight from a thin 115. Is she on antidepressants or something? In what period of time did she gain that much weight?

Step 1. Remove sugar and all sugar heavy products from house.

That isn't so prevalent in my neck of the woods. The average 60-somethings here are more fit and healthier than average 30-somethings in the southern region

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now progressively balding

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Seriously?

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Or a husband who lets the stresses of everyday life get the best of them and are now progressively balding and going up in pants sizes.

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