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Do you visit peoples gravesites?
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:02 pm
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:02 pm
How often and why
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:03 pm to CatsGoneWild
The Indian Mounds at LSU during football season.
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:03 pm to CatsGoneWild
visit family grave in old Algiers periodically, i have an infant daughter buried there (as well as grandparents, greats, and great-greats)
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:03 pm to CatsGoneWild
I almost never do. I have visited my mother's gravesite only once since she passed away 10 years ago.
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:04 pm to CatsGoneWild
My brother. Monthly. Just to bullshite with him. Bring him stuff that reminds me of him. Other ones not as often. Maybe once a year.
Some I haven't been back since I buried them
Some I haven't been back since I buried them
This post was edited on 7/26/16 at 4:12 pm
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:04 pm to CatsGoneWild
Yeah, form of respect I guess.
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:05 pm to CatsGoneWild
Grandfather. Because I miss the ole baw.
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:11 pm to CatsGoneWild
daily bc she's buried in the backyard.
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:12 pm to CatsGoneWild
no...my beautiful mother always sad she thought it was kind of a silly thing to do. she said that you were just visiting a soulless carcass. i went to my sister's grave once when i was down thinking it might help, but it really didn't so i've adhered to my mother's belief since then and not visited any family or friend gravesites.
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:16 pm to CatsGoneWild
I grew up visiting my grandparents. My dad still goes 6 or 7 times a year. I like it. Makes me feel closer to them.
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:16 pm to CatsGoneWild
I do. Once a year to clean up the plots.
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:17 pm to CatsGoneWild
Once every couple of years. My parents are still alive so once they die I will go more often than that. I usually go when I go to my old hometown for Christmas.
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:18 pm to CatsGoneWild
I do not. My mom died back in 2011 and I have been to her grave maybe twice.. and that was with my grandparents because they wanted me to go. I just don't get anything from it.. It's awkward to me, going visit someone that's dead. They can't hear anything you say, they're dead and there's no afterlife so there's just no point to me. If I want to thinkg about my mom I can do that anytime, I don't need to visit her grave.
This post was edited on 7/26/16 at 4:19 pm
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:19 pm to CatsGoneWild
quote:
Do you visit peoples gravesites?
Not really. I did visit Jimi Hendrix's grave once.
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:22 pm to CatsGoneWild
I've gone maybe twice to my brother's. I guess I've always felt like if I needed to "talk" to him I could just as well do it without visiting his grave. I much rather remember him by doing things and going places we used to do and go when he was alive.
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:24 pm to CatsGoneWild
I don't see the point. You are talking to either a cement wall with a coffin/body in it, or you are talking to the ground with a coffin/body buried in it. It's not the person you once knew or loved. You have just as much luck talking to them in your room, your car, or whatever.
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:25 pm to CatsGoneWild
Never done that. It makes sense that it helps some people through the grieving process. I've just never felt the need to. The memories are enough for me.
This post was edited on 7/26/16 at 4:27 pm
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:25 pm to CatsGoneWild
Yes. The majority of my family is buried in a cemetery less than a mile from my house. It's too convenient not to visit
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:25 pm to CatsGoneWild
yes..on their bday most of the time.
only bring flowers for women. men get a shot of bourbon poured out on the ground. unless in a mausoleum
only bring flowers for women. men get a shot of bourbon poured out on the ground. unless in a mausoleum
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