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Do you visit peoples gravesites?

Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:02 pm
Posted by CatsGoneWild
Pigeon forge, Tennessee
Member since Jan 2008
13446 posts
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:02 pm
How often and why
Posted by Halftrack
The Wild Blue Yonder
Member since Apr 2015
2763 posts
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:03 pm to
The Indian Mounds at LSU during football season.
Posted by vl100butch
Ridgeland, MS
Member since Sep 2005
34720 posts
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:03 pm to
visit family grave in old Algiers periodically, i have an infant daughter buried there (as well as grandparents, greats, and great-greats)
Posted by Black n Gold
Member since Feb 2009
15425 posts
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:03 pm to
I almost never do. I have visited my mother's gravesite only once since she passed away 10 years ago.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124976 posts
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:04 pm to
My brother. Monthly. Just to bullshite with him. Bring him stuff that reminds me of him. Other ones not as often. Maybe once a year.

Some I haven't been back since I buried them
This post was edited on 7/26/16 at 4:12 pm
Posted by Count Chocula
Tier 5 and proud
Member since Feb 2009
63908 posts
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:04 pm to
Yeah, form of respect I guess.
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
85489 posts
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:05 pm to
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why




Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8437 posts
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:05 pm to
Grandfather. Because I miss the ole baw.
Posted by Cdawg
TigerFred's Living Room
Member since Sep 2003
59669 posts
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:11 pm to
daily bc she's buried in the backyard.
Posted by Skillet
Member since Aug 2006
108419 posts
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:12 pm to
no...my beautiful mother always sad she thought it was kind of a silly thing to do. she said that you were just visiting a soulless carcass. i went to my sister's grave once when i was down thinking it might help, but it really didn't so i've adhered to my mother's belief since then and not visited any family or friend gravesites.
Posted by tigersownall
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2011
15401 posts
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:16 pm to
I grew up visiting my grandparents. My dad still goes 6 or 7 times a year. I like it. Makes me feel closer to them.
Posted by stinkdawg
Savannah, smoking by the gas cans
Member since Aug 2014
4072 posts
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:16 pm to
I do. Once a year to clean up the plots.
Posted by hillcountrywanderer
Buda, TX
Member since Jul 2014
529 posts
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:17 pm to
Once every couple of years. My parents are still alive so once they die I will go more often than that. I usually go when I go to my old hometown for Christmas.
Posted by Hulkklogan
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2010
43317 posts
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:18 pm to
I do not. My mom died back in 2011 and I have been to her grave maybe twice.. and that was with my grandparents because they wanted me to go. I just don't get anything from it.. It's awkward to me, going visit someone that's dead. They can't hear anything you say, they're dead and there's no afterlife so there's just no point to me. If I want to thinkg about my mom I can do that anytime, I don't need to visit her grave.
This post was edited on 7/26/16 at 4:19 pm
Posted by MountainTiger
The foot of Mt. Belzoni
Member since Dec 2008
14680 posts
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:19 pm to
quote:

Do you visit peoples gravesites?

Not really. I did visit Jimi Hendrix's grave once.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
99925 posts
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:22 pm to
I've gone maybe twice to my brother's. I guess I've always felt like if I needed to "talk" to him I could just as well do it without visiting his grave. I much rather remember him by doing things and going places we used to do and go when he was alive.
Posted by Kracka
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Aug 2004
40910 posts
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:24 pm to
I don't see the point. You are talking to either a cement wall with a coffin/body in it, or you are talking to the ground with a coffin/body buried in it. It's not the person you once knew or loved. You have just as much luck talking to them in your room, your car, or whatever.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33794 posts
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:25 pm to
Never done that. It makes sense that it helps some people through the grieving process. I've just never felt the need to. The memories are enough for me.
This post was edited on 7/26/16 at 4:27 pm
Posted by ForeverLSU02
Albany
Member since Jun 2007
52189 posts
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:25 pm to
Yes. The majority of my family is buried in a cemetery less than a mile from my house. It's too convenient not to visit
Posted by Nado Jenkins83
Land of the Free
Member since Nov 2012
59919 posts
Posted on 7/26/16 at 4:25 pm to
yes..on their bday most of the time.

only bring flowers for women. men get a shot of bourbon poured out on the ground. unless in a mausoleum
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