re: True Confessions of a suburban cheating Mom.

Not sure what the point of that blog was. It's like she's trying to justify her cheating to ppl that don't know her and don't dgaf about her. She needs to say that shite to her ex husband.

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I'm sure there are nice women out there. They usually marry a-holes like I was and cheat on them.

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Keep this quote in mind.

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My faith in the fidelity of women isn't high. But it doesn't bother me. If they don't like the situation as I lay it out, they can leave. Plenty have. Doesn't bother me. There's always more around the corner, and they make more every day.

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This contradicts that. You're kinda saying you view women as commodities and not people. The way you refer to them, I am assured you are not around good women. How can you believe there are good women while simultaneously having no faith in women?

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IMHO, if a man is tied to one piece of arse, then she rules him.
A man who keeps two in the kitty isn't in need, so he can be who he needs to be.

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Again women are not pieces of arse. They're human beings just like you. And who says anyone rules anyone in marriage. Again, your experience in a toxic relationship seems to have skewed your view on relationships all together. And what exactly does a man have to be?

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I can understand the French way of thinking now, how a man needs "a wife, a mistress and a girlfriend."

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This kinda speaks for itself. You're complaining about women being unfaithful while proudly announcing that you have three women who you would lie to without question.

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I don't think monogamy will ever be for me again.
I don't mind having sex with one person as long as it's frequent and good and I enjoy their company.
But if they want to try and tell me that I can't have sex with anyone else!?

Well, I'll be dick deep in some other broad before the door slams.

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And what will happen when you cant have sex anymore? When you're old and alone because all you've ever done is use people? You can't just bone forever.

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I learned my lesson the hard way. That's for sure. Almost a year of no sex and I still never cheated. I was tempted for sure, but never did.

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This seems to be the real issue at hand. You were deeply hurt and i'm sorry for that. I hope you can learn to trust and love again because nothing in your post describes anything close to love or being loved.

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France's place in the world. Bottom-dwellers.



Uh, no.

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Poulet

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Keep this quote in mind.

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Hell, I fully accept my responsibility for the problems in the marriage. I worked too much, complained too much, I was distant, I stayed in a haze.

The thing is, it wasn't like I was coming home to a home cooked meal and a clean house and eager nookie either.

The new wore off and we both changed and children and work got in the way.

Only thing is, I was committed to the misery.

She was looking to jump ship, and I never saw it coming, even though the writing on the wall was clear.

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describes my first marriage to a tee.

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Ditto.

Lesson to learn - hoes be triflin'.

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Ditto.

Lesson to learn - hoes be triflin'.

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I learned all this stuff at a very early age. Saved me a lot of heartache and financial problems.

It may well be the husband's fault if he was as inattentive as she says. Not asking anything about what's going on in her life? Not caring to go out with her? Not wanting to go to marriage counseling when she asked?

Obviously she contributed to the problems before her infidelity, but you people so eager to jump to his defense and call her a "selfish whore" are showing a great deal of ignorance and naivete. Maybe that's how you treat your girlfriends and don't want to be reminded of the repercussions of your own behavior towards the women in your life.

I wasn't intending that for you as you had already admitted your role in your marriage's collapse. It was intended for those who brush her off as a selfish, attention seeking whore and gave no weight to the level of inattention she described.

nothing shocks me about this

I live in suburbia USA and this morning for instance as I was dropping off my kid at school, I lost count of how many smoking hot MILFS I saw, most of them were with a guy who was balding, in a suit, 40-50 lbs overweight and about to leave for the week for business. hes probably got something on the side and he doesn't pay attention to her.

meanwhile she goes to the gym while home all week and wants to look good but he doesn't appreciate her, over time girls want to frick. its only natural. shes gonna get some dick from somewhere

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he doesn't appreciate her,

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now how do you know this? Is it based on the gifts he buys for her? the home she lives in? Seems both spouses wrestle with feelings of appreciation by the other and that festers into anger which leads to a regrettable mistake. What does it take to make another person feel appreciated? Especially one with whom you have been married for a while? Candy and flowers become routine, just like having a hot meal or your clothes cleaned and put away. How do you know he takes her for granted or doesnt pay attention to her?