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Tipping culture is getting more aggressive

Posted on 1/19/26 at 9:21 am
Posted by PeteRose
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Posted on 1/19/26 at 9:21 am
Last week my friend and I went to a sports bar to watch Indiana/Oregon game. My bill came out to $26. I gave the waitress two twenty dollar bills in the folder 15 minutes before the end of the game. She just kept it without giving change back. I didn’t say anything but I’m just not coming back.

While running errands a few days ago, my old lady craving her signature drink at Starbucks. At the drive thru window I was asked by the screen how much to tip before telling me the cost of the drink. I tapped 0% with my middle finger.

Traveling right now with the family. Yesterday we went to this ice cream place. The bowl with all the trimmings was $17. But when to sign the tablet, I saw that the 18% tip was preselected by default. Luckily i was able to catch it before pressing ok but I bet a lot of folks didn’t.

But one good story. I took my kid to one of those indoor kids playground. After I paid with my card, the girl reached around the tablet and immediately pressed no tip. The fact that she did it so quick and knew where the button was without looking shows me that people are fed up with it. Either that or she’s not getting it.
Posted by Smeg
Member since Aug 2018
15123 posts
Posted on 1/19/26 at 9:30 am to
Posted by awestruck
Member since Jan 2015
13735 posts
Posted on 1/19/26 at 9:30 am to
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My bill came out to $26. I gave the waitress two twenty dollar bills in the folder 15 minutes before the end of the game. She just kept it without giving change back.
Not only would I have asked where my cash was before leaving, she was of been informed I didn’t appreciate having to ask, and told discreetly on exit that’s why she has lost and otherwise acceptable tip. It’s the principle not the money.

Because I don’t submit to extortion.
Posted by CocomoLSU
Inside your dome.
Member since Feb 2004
155727 posts
Posted on 1/19/26 at 9:31 am to
quote:

Last week my friend and I went to a sports bar to watch Indiana/Oregon game. My bill came out to $26. I gave the waitress two twenty dollar bills in the folder 15 minutes before the end of the game. She just kept it without giving change back. I didn’t say anything but I’m just not coming back.

You’re better than I am. Because I would’ve demanded my change and then likely not even tipped after she stole that money from me. And potentially even let a manager know that their employee is pulling that bullshite.

That would’ve pissed me off big time.
This post was edited on 1/19/26 at 9:32 am
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
32477 posts
Posted on 1/19/26 at 9:32 am to
So 40% is normal now... These people are nuts.

They get 20% if the service is good, 15%, if it's sub par.
This post was edited on 1/19/26 at 9:34 am
Posted by CocomoLSU
Inside your dome.
Member since Feb 2004
155727 posts
Posted on 1/19/26 at 9:33 am to
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So 40% is normal now... These people are nuts.

And note that the post says “on the low end..”

Ridiculous.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
137407 posts
Posted on 1/19/26 at 9:34 am to
It is insane now how people expect to be tipped 20%+ percent by default whether they provide service or not.

Its also why we do takeout most of the time we eat out to avoid the drinks and the extravagant tip.
Posted by Dubosed
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Member since Nov 2012
7594 posts
Posted on 1/19/26 at 9:34 am to
quote:

so 40% is normal now


Had that as an option the other day at Subway
Posted by i am dan
NC
Member since Aug 2011
30928 posts
Posted on 1/19/26 at 9:35 am to
That's a 40% tip. $38 tip on a $95 meal.. nope.

I'm done with tipping all these places.

Grocery stores always asking for donations and money too.
This post was edited on 1/19/26 at 9:44 am
Posted by nola tiger lsu
Member since Nov 2007
7109 posts
Posted on 1/19/26 at 9:35 am to
Dont give cash, Ive had friends tell me I should tip with cash bc the server can avoid taxes. My response is its not my job to help them avoid taxes. Im annoyed people even mention this.

Also, preselected tips is major bs.
Posted by Recovered
Member since May 2016
707 posts
Posted on 1/19/26 at 9:36 am to
Ordered take out Saturday. Parked my truck walked in to pick it up. Had a 20% tip added. Nope; take that off. You walk it to my car I would have gladly paid that but that’s not a service you offer.
Posted by 3deadtrolls
lafayette
Member since Jan 2014
6778 posts
Posted on 1/19/26 at 9:38 am to
"If you don't want to tip your server at least 20% don't go out"

Ok.


Usually soon followed by:

"Wahhh we are struggling because people don't support looooocal. Please come eat here."
Posted by awestruck
Member since Jan 2015
13735 posts
Posted on 1/19/26 at 9:40 am to
Nope, this is when I’m calling the owner to say, if you can’t pay your staff you need raise your prices.
Posted by gumbeaux
Member since Jun 2004
5062 posts
Posted on 1/19/26 at 9:41 am to
quote:

So 40% is normal now... These people are nuts. They get 20% if the service is good, 15%, if it's sub par.


Aren’t tips tax free money now? If so, seems like we should drop back down to 10%
Posted by ShoeBang
Member since May 2012
22066 posts
Posted on 1/19/26 at 9:41 am to
quote:

Tipping culture is getting more aggressive


Holy shite thinking that 40% is low. Great service means 25-30%


shite like this is why we go out to eat less and less. The experience is not worth the money like it used to be.
Posted by BamaSaint
Moh-beel
Member since Mar 2013
3838 posts
Posted on 1/19/26 at 9:41 am to
quote:

So 40% is normal now... These people are nuts.

So are the people who believe it's real. But today I learned the OT loves AI music and fake social media posts
Posted by forkedintheroad
Member since Feb 2025
1767 posts
Posted on 1/19/26 at 9:51 am to
quote:

15%, if it's sub par.


Attitudes like this aren't helping.

If I do my job sub par, I get fired. I sure as hell don't get a 15% bonus.

Sub par = 0 tip.
Posted by c0rndogs
Member since Nov 2019
87 posts
Posted on 1/19/26 at 9:53 am to
It's funny to me that the people whose livelihood relies on people going out to eat are telling people to stop going out to eat.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
90155 posts
Posted on 1/19/26 at 9:58 am to
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The experience is not worth the money like it used to be.


agree, however, the wife and I tried a new place(to us,) last Friday and it was a throw back as far as service, all servers were polite and friendly, waited on us hand and foot, a pleasant and enjoyable dinner, and I tipped the heck out of them
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
137407 posts
Posted on 1/19/26 at 10:01 am to
quote:

They get 20% if the service is good, 15%, if it's sub par.


They get 0% if it's subpar. Tipping is for service.
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