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Posted on 11/18/25 at 3:33 pm
Posted by Broke
AKA Buttercup
Member since Sep 2006
65341 posts
Posted on 11/18/25 at 3:33 pm
People, go get a will. A simple him to her, her to him will with provisions for children also. And for God's sake if your parents/parent doesn't have a will go do that RIGHT NOW. You want a court to decide what happens to assets? Spend the $250 and do this the right way and get it filed at the courthouse. Save yourselves months of headache and trouble.
Posted by Deep Purple Haze
LA
Member since Jun 2007
67513 posts
Posted on 11/18/25 at 3:34 pm to
done
Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
35568 posts
Posted on 11/18/25 at 3:36 pm to
Especially if you have a stepfamily and want everything divided evenly.
Posted by UptownJoeBrown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2024
6109 posts
Posted on 11/18/25 at 3:37 pm to
Don’t let the Council on Aging be involved. They will name themselves executor and beneficiary.
Posted by Broke
AKA Buttercup
Member since Sep 2006
65341 posts
Posted on 11/18/25 at 3:37 pm to
quote:

Especially if you have a stepfamily and want everything divided evenly.


This becomes an even bigger nightmare. If you have children with other people you better spell everything out in writing.
Posted by Broke
AKA Buttercup
Member since Sep 2006
65341 posts
Posted on 11/18/25 at 3:38 pm to
quote:

done


We're cousins. Of course you'll have your shite together
Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
35568 posts
Posted on 11/18/25 at 3:40 pm to
When DW’s dad died without a will it was rather eye opening. He had to sign some stuff over to his mother.
Posted by Broke
AKA Buttercup
Member since Sep 2006
65341 posts
Posted on 11/18/25 at 3:41 pm to
quote:

When DW’s dad died without a will it was rather eye opening. He had to sign some stuff over to his mother.


Yes because technically half was DWs and half was Mom's.in the eyes of the law if I remember right
Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
35568 posts
Posted on 11/18/25 at 3:43 pm to
Correct. We always believed it would go to the surviving spouse but no.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98718 posts
Posted on 11/18/25 at 3:45 pm to
That’s how I understand it without a will. Spouse half and other half divided between children.

Posted by Lawyered
The Sip
Member since Oct 2016
36775 posts
Posted on 11/18/25 at 3:46 pm to
One of the few upsides to being an only child

Although my parents have their will done , pretty simple as i’m the only heir anyway
This post was edited on 11/18/25 at 3:48 pm
Posted by Deep Purple Haze
LA
Member since Jun 2007
67513 posts
Posted on 11/18/25 at 3:48 pm to
my mom did not have a will. luckily my siblings and kids are all decent humans and not leaches.
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
Undisclosed Secure Location
Member since Feb 2008
23521 posts
Posted on 11/18/25 at 4:58 pm to
My dad has a will. It’s updated from what his current wife thinks, notarized and in a safe place. He said he wanted to stir shite even from the grave.

I’m one of four of his children and think I know what’s in it. It’ll be interesting to see what goes down when he croaks.
Posted by Gee Grenouille
Bogalusa
Member since Jul 2018
7455 posts
Posted on 11/18/25 at 6:20 pm to
I'll get everything my parents leave us, which will be 2 funeral bills.

ETA:

My wife and I are in the process of doing a trust. Her sister will be the custodian. My assumption is if, heaven forbid, both my wife and I die together, our parents are our closest relatives besides our kids. I've got your standard baw life insurance/401k/pension assets for a 44 y/o. I won't take any chances in who raises my 11 y/o daughter for the sake of getting to our assets. Son is 17, so not an issue there.
This post was edited on 11/18/25 at 6:24 pm
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
153699 posts
Posted on 11/18/25 at 6:36 pm to
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Especially if your father knows a greedy scheming backstabbing money grubbing whore - that is, a woman
Posted by piratedude
baton rouge
Member since Oct 2009
2758 posts
Posted on 11/18/25 at 6:51 pm to
quote:

do this the right way


if not living in Louisiana, ignore this.

the chance of you finding a will online that would be effective in Louisiana is about as close to zero as you can imagine. there are 2 basic forms:

Notarial: contains specific attestation clauses and is signed before a notary and two witnesses. for God's sake, have a knowledgeable attorney draft it and act as notary.

Olographic: all handwritten by the person making the will, dated, contains something that sounds like a will (this is my will, at my death I leave x to y) signed at the end. Don't add anything (witnesses, notary, etc.) or you frick it up).

Stop what you're doing right now, write it on a blank paper, give it to the person you trust the most.

Need a horror story?: Nice guy, has some money, a business and land, has a 3rd wife he loves and that treats him like royalty and two sons from the 1st marriage that don't speak much. He's tight with a dollar and wants to leave everything to current wife. He owned all the big ticket items before he married 3, so not community property. he downloads an internet will and takes it to his friendly banker/notary. Banker/notary, is a fricking idiot, says "looks good to me." Not long after, he's killed in a car wreck.

Sons, one a lawyer, contest the will and its obviously invalid. Loving wife #3, who he loved very much, is out on her arse with nothing but her plasma cutter and maybe a welding machine that were gifts.
This post was edited on 11/18/25 at 6:53 pm
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
135118 posts
Posted on 11/18/25 at 6:59 pm to
quote:

People, go get a will.


Yep, no reason not to have one. Same with burial plans and plot.
Posted by TopWaterTiger
Lake Charles, LA
Member since May 2006
11957 posts
Posted on 11/18/25 at 7:04 pm to
Go get a will!

We always believed it would go to the surviving spouse but no.

In LA, without a will, parents assets go to kids. So mom ends up owning house w kids, who may or not even be her kids, but his kids.
Posted by KemoSabe65
70605
Member since Mar 2018
6223 posts
Posted on 11/18/25 at 7:05 pm to
You need to record the reading of his will if possible
Your Step Monster thinks she has a current will leaving his children out of most of the inheritance. When you get to the part that asked if there is another will and respond affirmatively she’s going to shite a brick
Our Step Monster quit breathing for a minute when I answered that question and produced the Last Will.
Year and half later she took my original offer +$10k to get the fuk out.
Posted by Bayou
Boudin, LA
Member since Feb 2005
41236 posts
Posted on 11/18/25 at 7:53 pm to
I couldn't agree more with OP

Just don't be a dick with the mind frame of, "Oh, I just don't want to talk about it."
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