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*update - New neighbor hosting a "meet the new neighbors" open house.

Posted on 9/20/25 at 1:10 pm
Posted by HubbaBubba
North of DFW, TX
Member since Oct 2010
50634 posts
Posted on 9/20/25 at 1:10 pm
A young couple moved in and have invited the neighborhood to a meet the neighbors event at their home. We are going to go and pop in (they live behind us), but what I found strange was, they are hosting the event, and serving hamburgers and hotdogs but the invitation solicited everyone to bring additional food and beverage items, which, is okay, I guess, but they also included a QR code to RSVP to, and when I did that, it opened up to a wish list of housewarming gifts they suggest.

Isn't that a bit presumptuous to expect perfect strangers to bring a gift, much less then directing everyone to their "here's a list of what we want you to get us" ?

*Update: we didn't go, but I was sporadically watching OU beat Auburn, tending to my pool, showering and getting ready to go meet friends at a blues music festival. While I was taking care of the pool, the smell of hamburgers and hot dogs cooking and music wafted over. Smelled good.

But their 'party' started at 5:30pm. At 6:00pm I let out the dogs and tossed a few tennis balls for the big boy to chase down and there were no sounds coming from the new neighbor's backyard. When we left, we drove by their house. There were no cars out front, the blinds were closed and the lights were out.

Uh oh. I don't know why.

that poor guy. I bet she's already told him to move.
This post was edited on 9/21/25 at 9:06 am
Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
84390 posts
Posted on 9/20/25 at 1:12 pm to
Go for the free booze

Edit: nevermind no free booze

Edit 2: bring baked beans from Costco, no gift and drink the free booze others brought

Maybe that will work and be "that guy"

This post was edited on 9/20/25 at 1:30 pm
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
128533 posts
Posted on 9/20/25 at 1:13 pm to
How hot is the wife?

That will determine gift etiquette
Posted by Bucktail1
Member since Feb 2015
3425 posts
Posted on 9/20/25 at 1:13 pm to
Shooters shoot
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
134916 posts
Posted on 9/20/25 at 1:13 pm to
quote:

young couple
Posted by Lucky McTuesday
The Great State of Texas
Member since Sep 2025
292 posts
Posted on 9/20/25 at 1:13 pm to
quote:

when I did that, it opened up to a wish list of housewarming gifts they suggest.
You should get the HOA rules framed for them.

No but seriously that is weird af. I would just bring some tater salad and some brewskis.

Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
292766 posts
Posted on 9/20/25 at 1:14 pm to
It means they are extremely self absorbed and not aware they just created instant resentment.
Posted by PalletJack
LA by birth, TX by choice
Member since Oct 2024
841 posts
Posted on 9/20/25 at 1:14 pm to
Buy him a gimp suit and her a large toy
Posted by DustyDinkleman
Here
Member since Feb 2012
19051 posts
Posted on 9/20/25 at 1:18 pm to
quote:

Isn't that a bit presumptuous to expect perfect strangers to bring a gift, much less then directing everyone to their "here's a list of what we want you to get us" ?


Maybe…

But shooters shoot and if they can get stuff for free by asking for it, where the harm?
Posted by BZ504
Texas
Member since Oct 2005
12498 posts
Posted on 9/20/25 at 1:18 pm to
Maybe they’re swingers?
This post was edited on 9/20/25 at 1:19 pm
Posted by DustyDinkleman
Here
Member since Feb 2012
19051 posts
Posted on 9/20/25 at 1:19 pm to
quote:

Maybe their swingers?



Maybe their swingers what?
Posted by tigersownall
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2011
16602 posts
Posted on 9/20/25 at 1:23 pm to
I wouldn’t go me.
Posted by ronricks
Member since Mar 2021
10708 posts
Posted on 9/20/25 at 1:25 pm to
Bring his wife a Dildo cast from Mandingo’s BBC.
Posted by N2cars
Close by
Member since Feb 2008
37866 posts
Posted on 9/20/25 at 1:26 pm to
Bring a pineapple for their windowsill.
Posted by Sus-Scrofa
Member since Feb 2013
10406 posts
Posted on 9/20/25 at 1:28 pm to
They probably already have some of the things on the list or someone will bring them some of the stuff.

So here’s what you do. When you leave their house, grab something from the list and take it with you.

When they confront you, claim you misread their email, and you thought it was a neat idea for them to get gifts for their neighbors as a hello.
Posted by T1gerNate
Member since Feb 2020
1579 posts
Posted on 9/20/25 at 1:28 pm to
quote:

also included a QR code to RSVP to, and when I did that, it opened up to a wish list of housewarming gifts they suggest


Insane
Posted by UptownJoeBrown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2024
5873 posts
Posted on 9/20/25 at 1:31 pm to
quote:

Isn't that a bit presumptuous to expect perfect strangers to bring a gift, much less then directing everyone to their "here's a list of what we want you to get us" ?


Yes. Ms Manners definitely frowns on this.

Usually an HOA or just some ladies in a neighborhood will have a welcoming committee that handles this. Doing it yourself is not proper. A QR code for gifts is cringe and trashy.
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
27009 posts
Posted on 9/20/25 at 1:33 pm to
Did the invitation have an upside down pineapple on it ?
Posted by MillerLiteTime
Member since Aug 2018
3749 posts
Posted on 9/20/25 at 1:37 pm to
Yea that is messed up in every possible way. Asking strangers you don't know to bring food and beverages to a party you are hosting to introduce yourselves to the neighborhood is extremely tacky. And then asking them to rsvp with a gift list is psycho.

I would not attend and I love neighborhood parties.
Posted by arseinclarse
Member since Apr 2007
35266 posts
Posted on 9/20/25 at 1:43 pm to
On a Saturday during SEC football?



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