- My Forums
- Tiger Rant
- LSU Recruiting
- SEC Rant
- Saints Talk
- Pelicans Talk
- More Sports Board
- Fantasy Sports
- Golf Board
- Soccer Board
- O-T Lounge
- Tech Board
- Home/Garden Board
- Outdoor Board
- Health/Fitness Board
- Movie/TV Board
- Book Board
- Music Board
- Political Talk
- Money Talk
- Fark Board
- Gaming Board
- Travel Board
- Food/Drink Board
- Ticket Exchange
- TD Help Board
Customize My Forums- View All Forums
- Show Left Links
- Topic Sort Options
- Trending Topics
- Recent Topics
- Active Topics
Started By
Message
Abundance Mindset vs. Poverty Mindset
Posted on 5/19/25 at 8:07 am
Posted on 5/19/25 at 8:07 am
I’ve realized I’ve always had a poverty mindset—always pinching pennies, scared to spend, and feeling like there’s never enough. It’s exhausting mentally. We live paycheck to paycheck already and can’t fathom spending freely or we’ll run out every month.
I saw a video yesterday about the abundance mindset—where you trust that money flows back when you invest in things you enjoy or believe in. This guy swears by it. Says more opportunities show itself and the money always seems to replenish itself.
Where do you find yourself between these two mindsets. Should I loosen up and risk running out of money before the end of each month? (I have side hustles but still always seems to run out)
I saw a video yesterday about the abundance mindset—where you trust that money flows back when you invest in things you enjoy or believe in. This guy swears by it. Says more opportunities show itself and the money always seems to replenish itself.
Where do you find yourself between these two mindsets. Should I loosen up and risk running out of money before the end of each month? (I have side hustles but still always seems to run out)
Posted on 5/19/25 at 8:09 am to BayouBengal23
The OT lets poors in now?
Posted on 5/19/25 at 8:09 am to BayouBengal23
quote:no
Should I loosen up and risk running out of money before the end of each month?
Posted on 5/19/25 at 8:11 am to BayouBengal23
quote:
I saw a video yesterday about the abundance mindset
Before I answer, I need to know what kind of water he used for his ice water facial
This post was edited on 5/19/25 at 8:12 am
Posted on 5/19/25 at 8:11 am to BayouBengal23
quote:
Where do you find yourself between these two mindsets.
Exactly here, between these two mindsets. I don't stress out over penching pennies, but I'm not a materialistic person and I understand the difference between a "need" and a "want".
Posted on 5/19/25 at 8:11 am to BayouBengal23
Those with an abundance mindset will be asking those with a poor mindset for help when the money runs out.
Posted on 5/19/25 at 8:12 am to BayouBengal23
Get a better job, baw.
Do you have a degree?
Do you have a degree?
Posted on 5/19/25 at 8:12 am to BayouBengal23
Posted on 5/19/25 at 8:13 am to BayouBengal23
quote:
Where do you find yourself between these two mindsets. Should I loosen up and risk running out of money before the end of each month? (I have side hustles but still always seems to run out)
You should save, scrape, work, cut expenses to the point you have money left over at the end of each month. After years of doing this you should have an abundance of money and begin spending it for your enjoyment.
Posted on 5/19/25 at 8:13 am to BayouBengal23
Well what investments do you have? You can’t just start having this mindset when you don’t actually have anything to fall back on if things go south lol
Posted on 5/19/25 at 8:14 am to BayouBengal23
quote:
the abundance mindset—where you trust that money flows back when you invest in things you enjoy or believe in. This guy swears by it. Says more opportunities show itself and the money always seems to replenish itself.

Posted on 5/19/25 at 8:14 am to BayouBengal23
If I was living paycheck to paycheck, I don’t think I’d be open to taking a big financial risk
Posted on 5/19/25 at 8:15 am to BayouBengal23
Can't take your money with you when you die.
Buy that 85K at 7% F250 baw.
Buy that 85K at 7% F250 baw.
Posted on 5/19/25 at 8:17 am to Dawgfanman
quote:
You should save, scrape, work, cut expenses to the point you have money left over at the end of each month. After years of doing this you should have an abundance of money and begin spending it for your enjoyment.
OK so I will give somewhat of a real answer, using this as a basis.
This isn't objectively bad advice, however, it's completely limiting and directly scaled to his income. If you're telling someone making $25k/year to do this, the end result isn't going to be that great. Will it be better than being in debt? yes, but most people cannot save their way into abundance.
The non-grifter version of the abundance mindset is to invest in things that can increase your baseline. Now, there is risk involved, but there is also potential reward. If you are smart, work hard, and find yourself on the right side of variance, the reward can bring you into abundance.
The grifter version of the abundance mindset is to pay for a course/coaching and then invest in whatever meme is popular that quarter that the influencer has build their course/coaching operation around (real estate, crypto, dropshipping, esty stores, etc.)
Posted on 5/19/25 at 8:18 am to BayouBengal23
quote:Hell no. Having money in savings is always better than living paycheck to paycheck where one calamity bankrupts you. Live frugal until you can afford the occasional splurge. Build your worth.
Should I loosen up and risk running out of money before the end of each month?
Posted on 5/19/25 at 8:23 am to BayouBengal23
It sort of sounds like your poverty mind set is appropriate. Perhaps a misuse of the word...
Let me give you a better example. My parents actually have accumulated tremendous wealth, but because they grew up poor in rural towns in the 1940's my dad won't let my mom buy Ziplocs because he took a calculator and determined that the generic saran wrap is 1/10 the cost per square inch..
They invest in Series EE Savings Bonds, unplug appliances so as to save any excess electrical 'draw' during non-use, and turn their AC off at night.
That is poverty mindset.
Let me give you a better example. My parents actually have accumulated tremendous wealth, but because they grew up poor in rural towns in the 1940's my dad won't let my mom buy Ziplocs because he took a calculator and determined that the generic saran wrap is 1/10 the cost per square inch..
They invest in Series EE Savings Bonds, unplug appliances so as to save any excess electrical 'draw' during non-use, and turn their AC off at night.
That is poverty mindset.
This post was edited on 5/19/25 at 8:26 am
Posted on 5/19/25 at 8:23 am to BayouBengal23
quote:
We live paycheck to paycheck already and can’t fathom spending freely or we’ll run out every month.
quote:
I have side hustles but still always seems to run out
If you are doing the above, you probably need to be doing the below.
quote:
always pinching pennies, scared to spend, and feeling like there’s never enough.
quote:
you trust that money flows back when you invest in things you enjoy or believe in. This guy swears by it. Says more opportunities show itself and the money always seems to replenish itself.
Ughhh, that’s now how life works. Money doesn’t just show up except for that $1 bill from the Nielsen Ratings people.
You can strategically spend. Get a masters. Join a group that will develop business contacts, etc. but you shouldn’t spend money on a vacation thinking magic money will appear because you spent money on a vacation.
It is stressful living paycheck to paycheck. You need to prioritize the thing you want to do and spend money on that and cut back on other things. Want to take vacations? Okay, but cancel Netflix. Want to golf or fish? Okay, but cut back on eating out or nice clothing. There’s a balance to everything.
Posted on 5/19/25 at 8:24 am to BayouBengal23
quote:No, that is retarded.
Should I loosen up and risk running out of money before the end of each month?
Posted on 5/19/25 at 8:25 am to BayouBengal23
quote:
always pinching pennies, scared to spend, and feeling like there’s never enough.
Nothing wrong with this if this is your comfort zone.....and you aren't afraid to invest your savings into something that can help it grow. Think of every one of your saved dollars as little soldiers working to make more soldiers for your savings army. You should have a solid offense to accompany your excellent defense.
A lot of "poverty mindset" people are incredibly conservative investors, which IMO is not healthy for people under 50 years old. My parents are like this. They are great at keeping their spending down and controlling their costs, but they were always terrible investors. They always put their money in CDs and HYSA's instead of investing in total market. Their savings just didn't grow as much as it should have. They could have probably retired early if their offense was as good as their defense.
Don't spend money just to spend. That's the wrong move here even if you are investing appropriately. Unless you were born into wealth, you need to be putting money away somehow and investing. Hard to do that if you are buying a bunch of consumer garbage you don't really need.
This post was edited on 5/19/25 at 8:30 am
Posted on 5/19/25 at 8:35 am to TigerBaitOohHaHa
quote:
My parents actually have accumulated tremendous wealth, but because they grew up poor in rural towns in the 1940's my dad won't let my mom buy Ziplocs because he took a calculator and determined that the generic saran wrap is 1/10 the cost per square inch.
Similar to my dad except he washes and reuses ziplock bags multiple times. I’ll go home to a strainer full of ziplock bags.

Popular
Back to top
