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What were your most surprising things about retirement?
Posted on 5/10/25 at 9:44 am
Posted on 5/10/25 at 9:44 am
Good, bad or neither good/bad…
Aha moments
Regrets
Expenses not anticipated
Discoveries about yourself
It’s on my horizon…trying to get mindset ready. Wish to learn from you.
Thanks!
Aha moments
Regrets
Expenses not anticipated
Discoveries about yourself
It’s on my horizon…trying to get mindset ready. Wish to learn from you.
Thanks!
Posted on 5/10/25 at 10:30 am to Artificial Ignorance
How far out are you? I'm 4 yer away.
Posted on 5/10/25 at 10:55 am to Artificial Ignorance
I retired in 2017 and I think the most important thing you can do is take care of your health. Get on a vigorous exercise program that involves strength training and cardio.
If you have your health, you have the opportunity to do anything you please.
I have a friend who has a coffee cup with the following message :
Retired!
Don't want too
Don't have too
Can't make me
Enjoy your life
If you have your health, you have the opportunity to do anything you please.
I have a friend who has a coffee cup with the following message :
Retired!
Don't want too
Don't have too
Can't make me
Enjoy your life
Posted on 5/10/25 at 11:37 am to Artificial Ignorance
The surprise (good): I can live like I want to on half as much as I thought I needed.
Regrets: none really, but there are things I wish I had known or realized fifteen years ago.
Suggestion: Don't save money, invest. When you get closer to retirement, reallocate to some cash. Think of savings as insurance, it protects you from a loss but doesn't build wealth, only investment can build wealth. Therefore, think of savings as a necessary evil, just to avoid having to sell your investments in a down market, but also realize that is not always a bad thing, especially after you've made 5X + on your investments. So if you had to sell it for only 2X, you still probably got a better deal than savings.
Also, think of the Flexibility of a Roth IRA. The engine of your retirement should be traditional tax deferred IRA/401K but the Roth adds flexibility that will help you navigate the treacherous waters.
Regrets: none really, but there are things I wish I had known or realized fifteen years ago.
Suggestion: Don't save money, invest. When you get closer to retirement, reallocate to some cash. Think of savings as insurance, it protects you from a loss but doesn't build wealth, only investment can build wealth. Therefore, think of savings as a necessary evil, just to avoid having to sell your investments in a down market, but also realize that is not always a bad thing, especially after you've made 5X + on your investments. So if you had to sell it for only 2X, you still probably got a better deal than savings.
Also, think of the Flexibility of a Roth IRA. The engine of your retirement should be traditional tax deferred IRA/401K but the Roth adds flexibility that will help you navigate the treacherous waters.
Posted on 5/10/25 at 11:47 am to VABuckeye
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How far out are you? I'm 4 yer away.
Within next 5-10 months.
Posted on 5/10/25 at 11:50 am to bigjoe1
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Retired! Don't want too Don't have too Can't make me
Love it!!!
Awesome.
Posted on 5/10/25 at 1:46 pm to Artificial Ignorance
Retirement is great, assuming you have your physical, mental and financial health. Do one productive thing each day.
Posted on 5/10/25 at 2:12 pm to Artificial Ignorance
Seperate note but I’ll ask anyway…
As someone that is 30 years away from typical retirement age, what have others done to prepare for retirement? What do you wish you had done earlier?
I already max out my 401k and Roth then have automatic monthly investments into a fidelity account.
I’d like to retire by at least 60 with hopefully around $5M then live off interest and golf and fish everyday
As someone that is 30 years away from typical retirement age, what have others done to prepare for retirement? What do you wish you had done earlier?
I already max out my 401k and Roth then have automatic monthly investments into a fidelity account.
I’d like to retire by at least 60 with hopefully around $5M then live off interest and golf and fish everyday
Posted on 5/10/25 at 3:12 pm to Artificial Ignorance
quote:How old I have to be for it to happen...
What were your most surprising things about retirement?
Posted on 5/10/25 at 3:25 pm to Artificial Ignorance
Second the fitness routine and health. I'm feeling better than the day I retired and it keeps me sane. After years of accumulation I've yet to adequately shift mindset to spend down. Still look at portfolio growth as a success metric. I still have school age kids at home so staying busy isn't an issue. I need to establish more structure to my days though if I'm gonna pursue hobbies and more
community involvement. We traveled more when work required long range planning for leave now its mostly spontaneous and other obligations pop up. Nearly 3 yrs in and still figuring things out.
community involvement. We traveled more when work required long range planning for leave now its mostly spontaneous and other obligations pop up. Nearly 3 yrs in and still figuring things out.
Posted on 5/10/25 at 3:35 pm to rowbear1922
For those that have a longer runway, pay attention to potential passive income streams. A goal should be to have enough in ongoing income to not touch your market investments until RMD’s are required. If that not feasible, try only peeling off your dividends in those investments that are not tax deferred to supplement other streams.
This post was edited on 5/10/25 at 3:43 pm
Posted on 5/10/25 at 3:40 pm to Thebuzz
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Do one productive thing each day.
This is exactly what my dad tells me that he does

He told me that he plans one thing per day. That could be going to one of the grandkids' ballgames, a doctor's visit, the gym - whatever - but only one thing. He said sometimes he does more than one thing, but it's unplanned.
This post was edited on 5/10/25 at 3:44 pm
Posted on 5/10/25 at 4:08 pm to Artificial Ignorance
I retired early in 2019. My wife retired early before I did. We both love our freedom to do whatever we want, whenever we want. The most surprising thing to me is even though we do so much more for fun than we used to do, I feel like I have less time to do everything that I want to do. More hobbies, more friends and more money has turned into less time for everything. I need a couple of clones of myself, lol. It's a good problem to have though. Life is so much better now than during my corporate career, which in retrospect was like being in prison compared to retirement life. It was a very easy transition.
Posted on 5/10/25 at 5:34 pm to rowbear1922
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I’d like to retire by at least 60 with hopefully around $5M then live off interest and golf and fish everyday.
You need to set your base higher. Today, at a 4% return, 5M will bring in around 200K. The dollar buys 50% less every 20 years. In 30 years, your 5M will only generate 25K of buying power.
Posted on 5/10/25 at 5:42 pm to Enadious
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You need to set your base higher. Today, at a 4% return, 5M will bring in around 200K. The dollar buys 50% less every 20 years. In 30 years, your 5M will only generate 25K of buying power.
That’s not how it works
Posted on 5/10/25 at 5:56 pm to rowbear1922
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As someone that is 30 years away from typical retirement age, what have others done to prepare for retirement? What do you wish you had done earlier?
Index ETFs in any taxable account for tax efficiency. It won't really matter while you are building wealth, but it will matter after you have it. Be meticulous about keeping records so that you have the option of tax loss harvesting when you tap into your taxable accounts. Use direct deposit to a separate account so that you automatically send money to your investment accounts and never have to deliberately take that action.
Posted on 5/10/25 at 6:38 pm to Artificial Ignorance
Find a wealthy divorcee or widow.
Posted on 5/10/25 at 7:43 pm to Artificial Ignorance
How you still don’t have any time.
Posted on 5/10/25 at 7:48 pm to Wraytex
This makes zero sense. You literally have nothing to do except whatever you choose to.
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