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Infidelity in a marriage

Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:03 pm
Posted by Rex Feral
Member since Jan 2014
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Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:03 pm
I was watching the Martha Stewart documentary on Netflix (Mrs. Feral's choice) and Martha started talking about her ex-husband's extramarital affairs. She went on about how big of an arse he was and how women should never tolerate a cheater. The interviewer stopped her and said, didn't you have an affair first? She stumbled over her words making excuses for it saying it was only a one time thing. It also came out she kissed another man while on her honeymoon. Her ex claimed he only started having affairs after she had one. He divorced her several years later after she found out he was sleeping with her assistant. He wound up getting married to the assistant.

What are y'alls thoughts on this? If your spouse cheated on you and you stayed with her would you feel justified in cheating on them? I think the whole thing is sad. Martha broke the bonds of her marriage, but that doesn't give her husband the right to cheat. It's an interesting dynamic of two people who obviously want to be together and but the trauma from the first affair is too much to get over.
Posted by LCA131
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Member since Feb 2008
75060 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:05 pm to
I'm sure the ot will resolve this issue within just a few minutes!
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
37819 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:05 pm to
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If your spouse cheated on you and you stayed with her would you feel justified in cheating on them?


No. If you choose to stay you have to forgive or else it'll never work.
This post was edited on 11/15/24 at 12:06 pm
Posted by Commandeaux
Zachary
Member since Jul 2009
7713 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:05 pm to
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If your spouse cheated on you and you stayed with her


frick outta here. Cuck Board.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41166 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:06 pm to
quote:

If your spouse cheated on you and you stayed with her would you feel justified in cheating on them?


No. Life’s absurd, judge yourself on how you deal with it. There’s no excuse for being a POS.
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
31564 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:06 pm to
They both cheated for their own reasons

But they both cheated

Marriage over

Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41166 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:07 pm to
quote:

have to forgive


There is no such thing as forgiveness.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
56856 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:08 pm to
quote:

If your spouse cheated on you and you stayed with her

That’s gay
Posted by AlextheBodacious
Member since Oct 2020
2474 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:08 pm to
If you got Martha’s money you get to frick whoever you want and write your own story. Doesn’t matter what’s between your legs.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:08 pm to
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If your spouse cheated on you and you stayed with her would you feel justified in cheating on them?


I mean, it's not ideal. Once the whole monogamy thing goes out the window you don't have any ground to stand on if the other steps out.


Just end it and be done with it or accept it and live in a sham marriage
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
57273 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:09 pm to
First of all you have come to the right place.


Oh btw she is a ho
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
37819 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:09 pm to
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There is no such thing as forgiveness.


you talking in general, or specific to this situation? if in general that's just not true.
This post was edited on 11/15/24 at 12:10 pm
Posted by idlewatcher
Planet Arium
Member since Jan 2012
86732 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:09 pm to
A very good friend of mine - her parents both cheated on each other. The father first, then the mother as "payback" which I thought was a paltry move.

They are still together going on 53 years so it appears they made up.

Once that trust is broken, all the superglue in the world couldn't hold the relationship together for me personally.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
58870 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:10 pm to
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What are y'alls thoughts on this

My thoughts are don't cheat in your relationships or marriage. If you get to that point just end it and don't hurt the other person that way.
Posted by Tornado Alley
Member since Mar 2012
27694 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:10 pm to
There is a difference between (1) a one-time romp (if it is limited to that) and (2) a long-term, loving affair where not only your physical affection, but your emotional affection is withdrawn from your spouse too.

Both of them are wrong though.
Posted by Polar Pop
Member since Feb 2012
10834 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:10 pm to
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watching the Martha Stewart documentary


I watched it too, she has always just been a selfish bitch.

Had a kid, couldnt care less. Kissed the guy at the cathedral..."didnt count, it was an emotional situation". Cheated on husband but he was the a-hole because he cheated....on and on and on.
Posted by Tornado Alley
Member since Mar 2012
27694 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:11 pm to
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The father first, then the mother as "payback" which I thought was a paltry move.


Revenge against your spouse. What a concept.
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
114182 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:12 pm to
I think this is best solved by not cheating on the spouse.

Call me crazy
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
57273 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:12 pm to
Martha was always about Martha screw that inside trader criminal. I did like her comforter sets from target doe.
Posted by Rex Feral
Member since Jan 2014
14703 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:13 pm to
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I watched it too, she has always just been a selfish bitch.



Even my teenage son said, ''she's a bitch'. It was so painfully obvious that I didn't tell him not to cuss.
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