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How Much Of Who You Are Today Is From Your Childhood Experiences?

Posted on 11/2/24 at 4:19 pm
Posted by SaintlyTiger88
Louisiana
Member since Apr 2013
2142 posts
Posted on 11/2/24 at 4:19 pm
Psychology Question for the OT. I think a lot of us can agree that what we experience as kids shapes us into the adults we are today. Everything from good memories to childhood trauma, it all sets the template.

My question is, how much of what you experienced as a child came to define you as a person? Good or bad. I know, especially with childhood trauma, it can really affect a person in most everything they do, including destructive habits.

How much of your adult identity is separate from who you were before?
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
130113 posts
Posted on 11/2/24 at 4:22 pm to
I was raised to respect my elders and women. We didn't have much, but both my parents worked hard, and I learned how to care for my possessions from them.

We only had 2 genders back then, so it was a simpler time.


Oh wait, there are still only 2 genders.
Posted by wfallstiger
Wichita Falls, Texas
Member since Jun 2006
13345 posts
Posted on 11/2/24 at 4:24 pm to
The older I become; 68 years old, the more apparent and pronounced it becomes
Posted by beerJeep
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2016
36496 posts
Posted on 11/2/24 at 4:24 pm to
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How Much Of Who You Are Today Is From Your Childhood Experiences?


Since ‘98 I grabbed my plate up off the lunch table, I told momma I’m thuggin outside we don’t need cable.
Posted by North Dallas Tiger
United States of America
Member since Mar 2024
13008 posts
Posted on 11/2/24 at 4:32 pm to
for every person the most impactful
quote:

Childhood Experiences
are those derived from the family/home environment in which one grows up...

regardless, everyone should reflect and be conscious of that impact while striving towards the noble and worthy cause of self improvement thru attainment of wisdom, particularly the religious/spiritual kind...
Posted by rintintin
Life is Life
Member since Nov 2008
16705 posts
Posted on 11/2/24 at 4:33 pm to
I'd say a good bit. I reflect the values that my family instilled in me and they're the main reason I am who I am today.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
68040 posts
Posted on 11/2/24 at 4:33 pm to
When I was a child, I played with plastic action heroes.


Today, I am a real-life action hero.
Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
31951 posts
Posted on 11/2/24 at 4:40 pm to
20 percent childhood
20 percent grade school
20 percent high school
20 percent college
20 percent adult life

This is what formed me.

This post was edited on 11/2/24 at 4:41 pm
Posted by LSUAngelHere1
Watson
Member since Jan 2018
9474 posts
Posted on 11/2/24 at 4:47 pm to
My good memories are what I dwell on when I think back so that defines me. Every trauma only made me who I am today.

I trust God’s will.

I suppose if I was brainwashed into victimhood I could think of a plethora of reasons to hate family as well.
This post was edited on 11/2/24 at 4:50 pm
Posted by SaintlyTiger88
Louisiana
Member since Apr 2013
2142 posts
Posted on 11/2/24 at 4:54 pm to
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20 percent childhood 20 percent grade school 20 percent high school 20 percent college 20 percent adult life


Okay, so wouldn’t that be 60% childhood if you count grade school and high school?
Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
31951 posts
Posted on 11/2/24 at 4:56 pm to
Probably. I don’t really consider high school as childhood, but that’s splitting hairs
Posted by WHATASHAME
Louisiana
Member since Sep 2009
710 posts
Posted on 11/2/24 at 5:15 pm to
I turned out much better than most folks who knew me and taught me would have bet on. Many of my teachers are still around and have told me as much. I latched on to a few role models in my teen years, which probably saved me. I suspect there are some things hidden from early childhood memories that I’m better off leaving alone.
Posted by nicholastiger
Member since Jan 2004
50408 posts
Posted on 11/2/24 at 5:17 pm to
I was spanked and damnit I deserved it
Posted by I20goon
about 7mi down a dirt road
Member since Aug 2013
17252 posts
Posted on 11/2/24 at 5:19 pm to
Well, since I have the mind of a 13 yr. old in a middle aged body, I'd say 100%
Posted by Syd
Member since Sep 2012
4068 posts
Posted on 11/2/24 at 5:25 pm to
Yes sir, no ma’am, work hard, take care of what you have, keep yourself and your home clean, if you borrow something, give it back the same or better than you got it.

I could go on and on , but who I am today is because my parents gave me a lot of life lessons that I didn’t realize I was learning at the time. They did a great job and now I’m really just realizing how much love they gave me.
Posted by BigJman
Member since May 2021
501 posts
Posted on 11/2/24 at 5:32 pm to
10 percent luck
20 percent skill
15 percent concentrated power of will
Posted by LegendInMyMind
Member since Apr 2019
66020 posts
Posted on 11/2/24 at 5:49 pm to
I have a scar on my knee from tripping on a gravel driveway and splitting it open. So....like at least what, 1.5%?
Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
31951 posts
Posted on 11/2/24 at 5:57 pm to
quote:


10 percent luck
20 percent skill
15 percent concentrated power of will


Five percent pleasure
Fifty percent pain
And a hundred percent reason to remember the name
Posted by HarveyBanger
Member since Mar 2018
1216 posts
Posted on 11/2/24 at 6:06 pm to
Lost my mother at 8 years old. You never really get over it it just becomes a part of who you are. You live with it.

It was not until my 30’s did I realize the trauma of her death was the reason I act the way that I do and view things the way I do.
Posted by lepdagod
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
4296 posts
Posted on 11/2/24 at 6:06 pm to
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How Much Of Who You Are Today Is From Your Childhood Experiences?


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