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Parents, any of your kids have severe anxiety?

Posted on 8/28/24 at 6:30 am
Posted by lsuCJ5
Holly Springs, NC
Member since Nov 2012
1067 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 6:30 am
My 11 year old had her first day of middle school and did not make it past lunch. We have her on ADHD medicine and it apparently is not enough. We tried talking to her to see if it was one particilar thing she did not like and she said everything was horrible. She goes to a large school and only went to 1 elementary school form K-5. She had a small panic attack last might and it look everyhting my wife and I had to get her to go to sleep. She does not want to go back to school.

Looking for any advice guys.
This post was edited on 8/28/24 at 7:18 am
Posted by beerJeep
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2016
37667 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 6:30 am to
Microdose LSD
Posted by Chipand2Putts
trembling hills
Member since Apr 2012
1728 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 6:31 am to
Get her in counseling asap
It’s tough
There fears seam so unreasonable to us but so real to them
Posted by Cotten
Tennessee
Member since Jan 2018
1726 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 6:33 am to
quote:

We have her on ADHD medicine and it apparently is not enough.

If she’s having panic attacks, you sure it’s not the amphetamines you’re giving her?

The dose may be too high.
Posted by MSTiger33
Member since Oct 2007
21415 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 6:36 am to
Yes, my 9 year old had severe anxiety. I think her starting kindergarten in a new town during all that Covid bullshite in 20-21 was the root cause. We finally found a therapist that had a very high success rate of helping children over come anxiety. Almost a year of therapy and she is as confident and anxiety free as I have ever seen her
Posted by Potchafa
Avoyelles
Member since Jul 2016
4147 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 6:36 am to
Anxiety my arse.

Kids these days are soft and need tough love! So glad my kids are grown. I hate the word anxiety.

Hey, I have an idea. Go get a prescription for your kids anxiety. Everyone's doing it! Nevermind......you already have her on legal meth. Which I would think is the worse for treating so called....anxiety.
This post was edited on 8/28/24 at 6:38 am
Posted by canyon
MM23
Member since Dec 2003
21311 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 6:38 am to
Top rope material.
Posted by AkronTiger
Rubber City
Member since May 2021
2662 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 6:38 am to
ADHD meds maybe need adjusting? Could be dosed too high.
Posted by Screaming Viking
Member since Jul 2013
5585 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 6:38 am to
Fearing my kids would be mental midgets (no I am not saying this about your kid) I have always randomly asked them the question…what is going great in your life and what is the biggest stress you have?

The randomly part is important. You can’t wait the can of coke to explode and then wonder why it happened.

All I do is ask certain questions to allow them to work through their “stresses”. 99.9% of the time their stresses are fantastic first world problems.

Works for us….may/may not work for you.
Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
34066 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 6:39 am to
quote:

We have her on ADHD medicine and it apparently is not enough

Anxiety is a side effect. Get your kid off meth
Posted by Uncle Diddles
Member since May 2017
300 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 6:39 am to
That's why it is important to get kids in sports and programs that builds friends, confidence, etc.

Just give her, her iPad like you probably did when she was a toddler. That should calm her down.

She could also become a furry

Jk, Godspeed. Get counseling for her.
Posted by lanticguy
AK
Member since Nov 2014
443 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 6:39 am to
Autism
Posted by Potchafa
Avoyelles
Member since Jul 2016
4147 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 6:40 am to
100% agree.
But it's easier for parents to drug their kids than actually talk to them about their day.
Posted by geauxbrown
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2006
24834 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 6:41 am to
Our middle child had pretty bad social anxiety. His first day of school once we arrived he ran and hid under a large table. He looked like a caged animal.

Fortunately one of the teachers took a real liking to him and over the course of the year began working with him. Even with the added help he was still dealing with it in third grade.

He didn’t want folks getting too close unless they were family or people he had been around a lot. It was almost like there was an invisible line around him and if you crossed it, he would have a panic attack.

As he got older it subsided, and by the time he reached HS it was gone for the most part. Now as an adult he doesn’t mind being in close proximity to others, but he is still somewhat awkward with his communications when he meets new people.
Posted by JasonDBlaha
Woodlands, Texas
Member since Apr 2023
3349 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 6:42 am to
Get her a script for Valium or Xanax… that should calm her down
Posted by shadyone2
Member since Oct 2017
1110 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 6:44 am to
Kids can be so mean at that age. Very tough segment to get through. Cling to God and have her around good people at church or other places as much as possible. This world is worse than when we were kids.
Posted by Dragula
Laguna Seca
Member since Jun 2020
6389 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 6:45 am to
It's the norm these days...EVERY female 4th Grade + "has anxiety".
Posted by jpainter6174
Boss city
Member since Feb 2014
6242 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 6:45 am to
What activities does she do? Anything in a group setting or is she always alone in the house watching something by herself.

May try waking up a little early and exercising with her, take her out on walks, make her talk to people if y'all go out somewhere (i.e. order her food, get up and ask for things) Push her out of her comfort zones while you are there, so she has that reassurance it will all be ok.
Posted by windmill
Prairieville, La
Member since Dec 2005
7678 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 6:48 am to
Ignore the haters in here. Get counseling for your child asap. Get professional help-your kid is well worth it.
Posted by evil cockroach
27.98N // 86.92E
Member since Nov 2007
8848 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 6:53 am to
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Parents, any of your kids have severe anxiety
quote:

Get her in counseling asap
this. My 10 year old sees her counselor every week. Now, is it helping? I don’t know. She can still get anxious for minimal reasons . But I guess it’s something.
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