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re: What are women actually attracted to?

Posted on 5/4/24 at 11:23 am to
Posted by SportsGuyNOLA
New Orleans, LA
Member since May 2014
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Posted on 5/4/24 at 11:23 am to
Money
Confidence
Money
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 5/4/24 at 11:23 am to
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Being in love is a great feeling, but as a man it isn’t half as satisfying as the feeling of know you love someone. And the love I am speaking of is set of actions and behaviors, not an emotion.


You can thank decades of stupid Hollywood movies for the modern idea of "love".

"Love" went from duty and sacrifice to a purely emotional wind that flames out quickly.


Queue Rose from the movie Titanic reminiscing about a fling over a few days in her late years instead of thinking of the family she was part of for all of her life.


We allowed the romantics to define love for us and it's had a massively destabilizing effect.
Posted by tigernurse
Member since Dec 2005
30354 posts
Posted on 5/4/24 at 11:23 am to
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And the love I am speaking of is set of actions and behaviors, not an emotion.


This is what I’ve been trying to convey. This is what the vast majority of the women I know are desiring.
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
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Posted on 5/4/24 at 11:25 am to
Height, physique, confidence and a high paying job.
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 5/4/24 at 11:25 am to
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It’s close to 50/50 I’d bet and in the next 10 years women will out earn men I’d bet


And we are still bitching about equal pay?

Go figure
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
42221 posts
Posted on 5/4/24 at 11:27 am to
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Women are utter monsters when money is at stake.
no - I got married really young, my husband barely made anything - why did I marry him? Because he’s smart and works hard, he can get things done and figure out how to fix things. We share a lot of common interests and have a lot of fun.

He delivered water when we got married, so he was pretty muscular back then. That helped.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65860 posts
Posted on 5/4/24 at 11:31 am to
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What are women actually attracted to?
What should women be attracted to? is a better question.

Answer that one to your own satisfaction and if you are not that kind of man, become that kind of man.

Then you’ll attract those types of women.

Profit
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
20086 posts
Posted on 5/4/24 at 11:31 am to
Confidence and humor will get them interested but you cannot get anywhere without some kind of acceptable appearance. Good looks will get it started.
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
29989 posts
Posted on 5/4/24 at 11:33 am to
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no - I got married really young, my husband barely made anything - why did I marry him? Because he’s smart and works hard, he can get things done and figure out how to fix things. We share a lot of common interests and have a lot of fun. He delivered water when we got married, so he was pretty muscular back then. That helped.


Clearly most of the men here only have knowledge of the women they pay for lap dances at the strip club.

Most women don’t care if you are rich or not. Every person is attracted to ambition and motivation however.
This post was edited on 5/4/24 at 11:34 am
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 5/4/24 at 11:36 am to
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Most women don’t care if you are rich or not. Every person is attracted to ambition and motivation however.


Come on guy. Wake up.


You heard one anecdote but that doesn't change general trends.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
78943 posts
Posted on 5/4/24 at 11:38 am to
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None of us are actual experts


Au contraire, dear lass. I speak of human NATURE and you speak of personal anecdotes.

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Also-before I respond further- I’d like to thank you for the ongoing conversation without peppering your posts with insults and derogatory remarks towards me. Thank you.


Right back ay ya,delicious cupcake.

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What I’ve read on the board paints a females willingness to have sex as a lose-lose for her though.

It really is. Because a man values sexual exclusivity which is a sign of respect in a way that women don't and can't fully appreciate. We will gratefully take the lesser attractive and more virtuous woman. And we will enthusiastically bone the looser woman but put her in the short term category.

One thing women must face-men with multiple sexual partners have MORE value. Women with more sexual partners have LESS value. You find our desirability to be attractive (you won't admit this but it's nonetheless true) and we find your self-restraint to be attractive. All men put women in different categories and know that to try to make a princess out of a whore is a losing battle. To make a princess into OUR whore is the whole attraction. We want a good girl to humbly submit and turn into a wild woman in bed. AFTER, she is ours. Not before.

I don't make the rules, I just grudgingly accept them.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
42221 posts
Posted on 5/4/24 at 11:42 am to
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You heard one anecdote but that doesn't change general trends.
out of ALL the women I know - only one I know may have married for money

I think you guys spend too much time on the internet instead of meeting real women. Money is nice, but it’s not the #1 thing
Posted by ATLTiger24
Member since May 2007
414 posts
Posted on 5/4/24 at 11:42 am to
Women 18-29 are attracted to a combination of looks and personality, the latter of which involves confidence, humor, and intelligence.

Women 30-55 are attracted to success.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
61348 posts
Posted on 5/4/24 at 11:46 am to
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out of ALL the women I know - only one I know may have married for money


30-40 years ago?


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I think you guys spend too much time on the internet instead of meeting real women. Money is nice, but it’s not the #1 thing


You're right it shouldn't be taken as 100% true. Plus there are women who have ran head first into money causing relationship issues.

But money is still a big factor.
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
29989 posts
Posted on 5/4/24 at 11:46 am to
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Come on guy. Wake up. You heard one anecdote but that doesn't change general trends.


The vast majority of people aren’t rich. Are you saying that all women are holding out until they can get with the .1%?

I’m thinking you are making excuses for your dry spell.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
42221 posts
Posted on 5/4/24 at 11:48 am to
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30-40 years ago?
im in my early 40s - so impossible
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
106596 posts
Posted on 5/4/24 at 11:49 am to


As an actual woman, can I mention something we look for that I haven’t really seen talked about in here? The ability to effectively communicate. In my old age that is #1. Do looks matter? I guess. I mean, you have to have some attraction, but that is not number one. I’ve never cared about height, but all these woman hating threads have made me look back and realize the pattern of short guys behaving the worst. Maybe they have a chip on their shoulder about it, but I might have to start caring about that. With my hobby I really should probably care how much they make, but as long as they can support themselves, it is fine.

But communication is so important and the bar for that is literally on the fricking ground these days.
Posted by chalmetteowl
Chalmette
Member since Jan 2008
47793 posts
Posted on 5/4/24 at 11:50 am to
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Listening to what a woman says she wants is the worst advice you can give a man. I have learned through trial and error to discard anything a woman says she wants. If a woman greets you and says “ thanks for coming by Mr Pimp but I want you to know I don’t feel comfortable having sex tonight”, that means one thing; in an hour we will be intertwined in orgasmic bliss. All men who are successful with women learn to give women what they want, not what they say they want. And it’s a man’s responsibility to know what she really wants and give it to her. And trust me, the 80% of men who don’t get laid aren’t going to start getting laid by giving a woman whet she says she wants.


You’re the target of the left’s war on masculinity… their crusade to destroy confidence and establish the gynocracy
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
61348 posts
Posted on 5/4/24 at 11:54 am to
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but all these woman hating threads have made me look back and realize the pattern of short guys behaving the worst.


Or maybe you just have a less generous perception of shorter guys that makes you interpret their actions as worse. Hard to say. Less attractive guys aren't getting much margin for error whereas a guy with the right attraction could be a violent criminal.

Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 5/4/24 at 11:58 am to
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As an actual woman, can I mention something we look for that I haven’t really seen talked about in here? The ability to effectively communicate


I would imagine this is killing the young man relationship game also. No one can just go up to a woman and talk to them. I had two friends growing up who looked like models(one actually was). Girls would throw themselves at them. The second they started talking, the girls just wondered wtf was going on and walk away.

The non models in my group of friends that could actually talk to women all had normal relationships throughout school and after. The model has been divorced twice. Both strippers

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