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Ideas for my son to start inviting his friends to our house

Posted on 4/7/24 at 6:49 pm
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
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Posted on 4/7/24 at 6:49 pm
My son is ten and wants nothing more than to leave our house to hang with his friends. We’re very fortunate to live in a neighborhood that is small, secluded and safe, and conducive for that old school environment of kids running through yards to play outside or at each other’s houses.

It’s been great but now that my son is a little older, he has little interest in inviting his friends to our house.

I do empathize because one of his friends has a finished basement that’s dedicated to kids hanging out. It has a large screen tv for videogames and movies, a pool table, two couches, and a refrigerator. There’s also space for them to play games or build forts.

Another of his friends has a larger yard that is flat. They play whiffle ball games there.

I’m not saying we can compete with that as we don’t have a basement or a large flat yard.

But it’s been disheartening because he’s spending the majority of his weekends or free afternoons over there. We haven’t seen him hang with his friends in months.

When I ask him why he doesn’t invite them to our house, he says there’s not much to do. Also, I think having a five year old sister who tries to push her way into being in their space doesn’t help.

We have a playroom with a tv, videogames, and board games. Also some music stuff. That’s about it.

I looked into paving our parking pad and putting in a basketball goal. The best quote was $20k. Our driveway is a hill and isn’t going to work for basketball.

Anyone else go through this as a parent? Have any ideas*? Do I just have to admit we have the lame house and there’s nothing we can do?

*They’re a little young for hookers and blow.
This post was edited on 4/7/24 at 6:52 pm
Posted by VetteGuy
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 4/7/24 at 6:50 pm to
Pool.
Posted by GruntbyAssociation
Member since Jul 2013
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Posted on 4/7/24 at 6:50 pm to
Spin the bottle?
Posted by Relham10
Ridge
Member since Jan 2013
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Posted on 4/7/24 at 6:51 pm to
Finding dads porn stash will make your house the place to be
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 4/7/24 at 6:52 pm to
Let them start drinking at your house

Posted by idlewatcher
County Jail
Member since Jan 2012
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Posted on 4/7/24 at 6:53 pm to
quote:

We’re very fortunate to live in a neighborhood that is small, secluded and safe, and conducive for that old school environment of kids running through yards to play outside or at each other’s houses.


Must be nice to be white
Posted by ZZTIGERS
Member since Dec 2007
17181 posts
Posted on 4/7/24 at 6:53 pm to
MILFs
Posted by Tiger in Gatorland
Moonshine Holler
Member since Sep 2006
9096 posts
Posted on 4/7/24 at 6:54 pm to
Maybe your wife should invite them over and give them reason to enjoy your house and keep coming back.
Posted by AubieinNC2009
Mountain NC
Member since Dec 2018
5056 posts
Posted on 4/7/24 at 6:54 pm to
make a back yard shed into an awesome hang out
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
20498 posts
Posted on 4/7/24 at 6:55 pm to
I say just let them be but I am an a-hole
Posted by baseballmind1212
Missouri City
Member since Feb 2011
3269 posts
Posted on 4/7/24 at 6:55 pm to
If you're serious about it you have to have a dedicated hangout space available. A 120" screen with a cheap projector hooked up to an Xbox, a pool, a badass park close by, it doesn't matter.

For your situation, it sounds like the gaming den would be the easiest/cheapest to set up.

Another option if you have an open garage bay is to set up a golf Sim. My teenage daughter and her friends love mine. It was relatively cheap to diy.
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
143060 posts
Posted on 4/7/24 at 6:56 pm to
quote:

one of his friends has a finished basement that’s dedicated to kids hanging out. It has a large screen tv for videogames and movies, a pool table, two couches, and a refrigerator.
let those punks go outside and play with sticks in the dirt
Posted by Cregg
Orange Beach
Member since Jul 2017
2053 posts
Posted on 4/7/24 at 6:56 pm to
You sound like a good and Dad and it sounds like you got a pretty good kid. Idk buddy. It'll all work out.
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
177149 posts
Posted on 4/7/24 at 6:59 pm to
Start doing cookouts with the kids helping.. at 10 there dumb enough to fall for it be be uncool...


start with bq,, making tamales,, bread ,, make pizzas maybe invest in good outdoor pizza oven make pizza make it fun


then offer but don't pressure.. the kids will find the experience nurturing and a great chance to teach young man an important part of manhood and will make them better men , husbands ,fathers
Posted by Weekend Warrior79
Member since Aug 2014
16628 posts
Posted on 4/7/24 at 6:59 pm to
No mater what you do at the house to get them m interested in hanging out, the 5 y/o sister will be the deterrent. You’d have to be creative and work with your son on doing something while also having the wifey take the daughter out of the house for a few hours.

Can you do a 1/2 basketball court
or pickle ball court?
Posted by rsbd
banks of the Mississippi
Member since Jan 2007
22207 posts
Posted on 4/7/24 at 7:01 pm to
“Hide” a stack of playboys under your bed….
Posted by Droplinebacker
Member since Jan 2004
797 posts
Posted on 4/7/24 at 7:02 pm to
Let them start drinking and bringing chicks over. Take away the keys to their big wheels.
Posted by Naked Bootleg
Member since Jul 2021
1890 posts
Posted on 4/7/24 at 7:02 pm to
10 year olds? Take them to Top Golf or a trampoline house or a arcade like Dave & Busters.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
71687 posts
Posted on 4/7/24 at 7:04 pm to
Get a pizza oven, and show the kids how to do something like brew kombucha.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124933 posts
Posted on 4/7/24 at 7:06 pm to
Get a bunch of dirt delivered and dumped in two huge piles in your backyard.


Dirt clod wars
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