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Ever had a naturally violent kid?

Posted on 1/10/24 at 7:55 pm
Posted by Hawgnsincebirth55
Gods country
Member since Sep 2016
16168 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 7:55 pm
My daughter is 2 and just started day care. She’s not a mean kid but she loves to wrestle and she laughs anytime I swat her leg, but this week 3 days into going to daycare she’s already tackled another kid, hit a kid and put a kid in a chokehold. The workers said it wasn’t out of jealousy over a toy or because she was mad but she did it just because she thought it was funny. I told them to punish her however they need to but I just don’t understand how a two year old girl is naturally violent. Will she grow out of this as long as we keep constantly disciplining her and should I stop play wrestling with her?
Posted by RummelTiger
Texas
Member since Aug 2004
90205 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 7:58 pm to
quote:

My daughter is 2 and just started day care. She’s not a mean kid but she loves to wrestle and she laughs anytime I swat her leg, but this week 3 days into going to daycare she’s already tackled another kid, hit a kid and put a kid in a chokehold.


At that age, kids mimic what they see at home.

Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
32684 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 7:58 pm to
Yeah, you got your hands full. She will probably grow out of it
This post was edited on 1/10/24 at 7:59 pm
Posted by mattz1122
Member since Oct 2007
52985 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 7:58 pm to
Yes we had to put him down
Posted by TheFitfulFire
Houma
Member since Jan 2017
145 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 7:59 pm to
Some people are innately violent, male or female. Let her be what she is, but teach her about acceptable boundaries. It's possible she grows out of it, but if she doesn't, she should know how and when to handle herself. Better she understand that then hate you for trying to break her of it.
Posted by Obtuse1
Westside Bodymore Yo
Member since Sep 2016
26184 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 8:00 pm to
quote:

She’s not a mean kid but she loves to wrestle and she laughs anytime I swat her leg


She learned wrestling is affection. It is a lot of fun to roughhouse with very young children but it doesn't teach them any limits because outside of a ball hit or an accidental eye gouge they can't hurt you.
Posted by GruntbyAssociation
Member since Jul 2013
4055 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 8:00 pm to
Get her in BJJ asap then MMA when she’s older.
Posted by HoboDickCheese
The overpass
Member since Sep 2020
9450 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 8:03 pm to


As GruntbyAssociation said, get her into hand to hand combat asap
This post was edited on 1/10/24 at 8:04 pm
Posted by BPTiger
Atlanta
Member since Oct 2011
5354 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 8:04 pm to
Yeah I’ve been trying to beat it out of him but it doesn’t seem to be helping. I guess I’m not punching and whipping hard enough.
Posted by junkfunky
Member since Jan 2011
34044 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 8:05 pm to
Ginger?
Posted by TheChosenOne
Member since Dec 2005
18552 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 8:05 pm to
My youngest used to beat the shite out of my two oldest when she was 2-4. She even said “Sometimes I like to hurt people” to my sister once.

Two years later, she’s still feisty but grew out of most of the hitting/hurting others. So, just wait it out.
Posted by mattchewbocca
houma, la
Member since Jun 2008
5442 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 8:09 pm to
Honestly if it were my kid I’d sleep better knowing she’s not the one being choked out lol
Posted by Heisman U
Member since Jan 2024
64 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 8:11 pm to
I love how parents always take credit for their children that are well behaved, studious, athletic, successful.

But if their kid is violent, criminal, lazy, stupid then the kids are just "naturally violent" and it has nothing to do with the parents.
Posted by Heisman U
Member since Jan 2024
64 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 8:11 pm to
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Posted by Heisman U
Member since Jan 2024
64 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 8:11 pm to
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Posted by Heisman U
Member since Jan 2024
64 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 8:11 pm to
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Posted by Manlaw35
Member since Jan 2013
1302 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 8:14 pm to
She'll grow out of it once another kid does the same to her.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
91249 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 8:19 pm to
Go ahead and get Kayleigh a private UFC trainer. Sounds like she has potential
Posted by thefodgather
Member since Jan 2024
108 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 8:24 pm to
You can't discipline a violent child with violence. You have to be more devious.

Next time take her favorite toy and flush it down the toilet.
Posted by Tiger in Gatorland
Moonshine Holler
Member since Sep 2006
9097 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 8:24 pm to
Probably needs some Adderall and Seroquel. Get started now.
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