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Is there anything more pathetic than a Man staying with a Woman that has cheated on him?
Posted on 12/3/23 at 3:04 pm
Posted on 12/3/23 at 3:04 pm
A friend/coworker told me that his wife had an affair.
He was torn on what to do and asked my opinion.
I told him that I would be serving divorce papers before the ink was dry.
A few days later he told me that they were going to try to work it out, maybe go to counseling.
As a guy I just don't understand how you could possibly stay with a cheater.
Why would you ever want to share the same bed with her again, touch her again ?
How would you expect her to ever respect you again?
If I ever get married I will make it abundantly clear to my future wife that if she ever cheats on me I am gone.
No amount of tears, regret, begging will get me to stay.
Just so she knows up front.
I think a lot of women think "If he finds out I will just turn on the tears etc., he isn't going anywhere".
I hope it works out for him but I don't know how he wouldn't spend the rest of his life feeling like he's her little bitch.
He was torn on what to do and asked my opinion.
I told him that I would be serving divorce papers before the ink was dry.
A few days later he told me that they were going to try to work it out, maybe go to counseling.
As a guy I just don't understand how you could possibly stay with a cheater.
Why would you ever want to share the same bed with her again, touch her again ?
How would you expect her to ever respect you again?
If I ever get married I will make it abundantly clear to my future wife that if she ever cheats on me I am gone.
No amount of tears, regret, begging will get me to stay.
Just so she knows up front.
I think a lot of women think "If he finds out I will just turn on the tears etc., he isn't going anywhere".
I hope it works out for him but I don't know how he wouldn't spend the rest of his life feeling like he's her little bitch.
Posted on 12/3/23 at 3:05 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
Kids can complicate things
Posted on 12/3/23 at 3:07 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
I agree with you but only seeing your kids half the time can change some things for people.
Posted on 12/3/23 at 3:07 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
Only time I see it being possible is with kids. The second they turn 18 hit the road.
Posted on 12/3/23 at 3:07 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
You never know - it could be kids or money situation
Posted on 12/3/23 at 3:07 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
Its cheaper to keep her
Posted on 12/3/23 at 3:07 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
She'll end up having twins that aren't his.
Posted on 12/3/23 at 3:08 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
If you stay the last thing to do is tell someone about it
Unless that's how you get your kicks, Seinfeld
Unless that's how you get your kicks, Seinfeld
Posted on 12/3/23 at 3:09 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
my ex gf and i split a while ago and within a day she was screwing somebody else. I took that to mean that she had already been cheating and that was it.
Posted on 12/3/23 at 3:12 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
Young kids can play a major factor in this decision.
Posted on 12/3/23 at 3:13 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
Just delaying the inevitable
Posted on 12/3/23 at 3:14 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
Knew a guy whose stay at home wife went back to her hometown on occasion to get her holes stretched by a UPS guy she knew.
When the guy found out, he apologized for not being attentive enough to her needs, bought her a ring, and took her to Disneyworld.
They had a couple of school age kids, but still…sickening.
When the guy found out, he apologized for not being attentive enough to her needs, bought her a ring, and took her to Disneyworld.
They had a couple of school age kids, but still…sickening.
Posted on 12/3/23 at 3:16 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
Either he is a cuck or figures he has got a free pass now.
Posted on 12/3/23 at 3:22 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
He should get a pass and get some strange.
Posted on 12/3/23 at 3:24 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
2 options for her:
divorce, or post-nuptial agreement (assuming no pre-nup)
Posted on 12/3/23 at 3:28 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
Yeah, refusing the leave after your wife asks you to leave, when she filed for divorce, and he is waiting out the court date.
Verbally abusing your spouse and kids
Physically threatening gestures towards your wife and kids
Rubbing your hard little dick on your wife when she tells you she doesn't want sex, she doesn't want you to touch her
After she asked you to leave, filed for divorce, told you she doesn't want to be touched to hug and kiss her in front of the kids when y'all haven't told the kids yet and she doesn't want to make a scene
There are others, but this is from one dude that is on TD all the time that is pulling this now. I hear worse working in a female dominated field in a building housing other female dominated fields but this is the current situation. The nicest chicks have absolute dick bags of husbands and the meanest ones have cucks... it is quite sad.
Verbally abusing your spouse and kids
Physically threatening gestures towards your wife and kids
Rubbing your hard little dick on your wife when she tells you she doesn't want sex, she doesn't want you to touch her
After she asked you to leave, filed for divorce, told you she doesn't want to be touched to hug and kiss her in front of the kids when y'all haven't told the kids yet and she doesn't want to make a scene
There are others, but this is from one dude that is on TD all the time that is pulling this now. I hear worse working in a female dominated field in a building housing other female dominated fields but this is the current situation. The nicest chicks have absolute dick bags of husbands and the meanest ones have cucks... it is quite sad.
Posted on 12/3/23 at 3:31 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
1. Stay with her.
2. Start selling anything valuable.
3. Hide everything in cash.
4. Kick her arse out.
2. Start selling anything valuable.
3. Hide everything in cash.
4. Kick her arse out.
Posted on 12/3/23 at 3:31 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
quote:
Is there anything more pathetic than a Man staying with a Woman that has cheated on him?
yes
a woman staying with a man that has cheated on her is way more pathetic
Posted on 12/3/23 at 3:34 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
I think its pathetic to judge someone that is hurting
Posted on 12/3/23 at 3:41 pm to Pistol Pete Goat
Close family of mine is doing just that. He doesn’t want to split time with his sons mom and he doesn’t really give a shite what she does anyway. At least this way he’s with his son every night.
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