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re: Paging married folks. Is Marriage really the end of sex ?
Posted on 7/27/23 at 4:32 pm to Monsieur le Duc
Posted on 7/27/23 at 4:32 pm to Monsieur le Duc
sounds like a terrible idea
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Posted on 7/27/23 at 4:35 pm to Sam Quint
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wtf is nfp
Natural family planning. I have been with my wife for over 20 years. This has been the best thing we have ever done. For years she had no sexual desire. Threw away the bc pills and started doing this and now we can hardly keep our hands off each other at times.
Posted on 7/27/23 at 5:04 pm to LeeVanCleef
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Is this all true ?
Late to the game here, but no.
There are some truths there, but things ebb and flow in a long term relationship.
Small kids & babies = tough times in the naughtiness department. You're going to have to have some patience, compassion, and get mommy away from home on the regular. A night or weekend away does wonders to turn a mom back into a wife. Even if you can't swing a hotel, you should always dedicate a couple of nights a month to date.
Once the kids grow up a little, thing start to normalize. I'd also recommend a non-hormonal birth control method when you're done with kids. Letting your wife's hormones regulate without any BC helps the libido.
I'll probably get some hate, but your relationship with your spouse should come first in importance in your family. More than important than whatever Braxton and Braylynn have going on.
40's were some great sex
, just starting the 50's and it's not slowing down. Choose wisely and do the required maintenance in your marriage. Don't be a shitty husband and don't choose a crazy woman.
Good luck.
Posted on 7/27/23 at 5:28 pm to slacker130
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don't choose a crazy woman.
Is that even possible? 
Posted on 7/27/23 at 5:54 pm to LeeVanCleef
Marriage no… kids yes
Posted on 7/28/23 at 8:06 am to slacker130
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don't choose a crazy woman.
much easier said than done. some of them can hide their crazy very well for long enough to get married.
Posted on 7/28/23 at 8:14 am to Sam Quint
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much easier said than done. some of them can hide their crazy very well for long enough to get married.
While this is true in some cases, I do think warning signs are there early. Also, I do think there are some guys that drive their wife into insanity.
Life-long friend picked a crazy one, we knew she was crazy early, so did he. He married her anyway. He also has the attention span of a goldfish with the organizational/life-skills of a toddler. Guess what happened? If he was a good partner, her crazy might have been managed, but instead, he sent her into orbit. Ended badly.
Posted on 7/28/23 at 8:30 am to LeeVanCleef
Some of this is true, you do a see dip in the frequency at points. But the last 5 years, ages 37-42, wife is 1 year younger, have been pretty good. Learn how to eat pussy and learn how to lick an arse. Those things go a long way.
Posted on 7/28/23 at 8:32 am to LeeVanCleef
no
you just gotta change your methods
what worked as a single guy and early marriage doesn't work anymore
small things go a Long way in keeping it going, staying in shape helps, being sweet when she's stressed out
also encourage her to read the dirty books that all the chick's read and she'll act it out with you
the path exists young jedi, learn to master it and rewards you will have
you just gotta change your methods
what worked as a single guy and early marriage doesn't work anymore
small things go a Long way in keeping it going, staying in shape helps, being sweet when she's stressed out
also encourage her to read the dirty books that all the chick's read and she'll act it out with you
the path exists young jedi, learn to master it and rewards you will have
Posted on 7/28/23 at 8:37 am to slacker130
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While this is true in some cases, I do think warning signs are there early. Also, I do think there are some guys that drive their wife into insanity. Life-long friend picked a crazy one, we knew she was crazy early, so did he. He married her anyway. He also has the attention span of a goldfish with the organizational/life-skills of a toddler. Guess what happened? If he was a good partner, her crazy might have been managed, but instead, he sent her into orbit. Ended badly.
no doubt that crazy begets more crazy, and emotional instability begets more of the same. but when it comes to personality disorders, many of them know how to hide it very, very well for a long time. and some of them can hide it from the outside world indefinitely. i've been married for over a decade, and it has only been very recently that people (family / friends) outside of my home are starting to suspect that something aint quite right with my wife.
Posted on 7/28/23 at 8:37 am to Sam Quint
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much easier said than done. some of them can hide their crazy very well for long enough to get married.
My wife’s crazy is minimal, but that woman did an incredible job at hiding her family’s crazy. Mother in law is a horder, father in law is obsessed with end time prophecy and brother in law is institutionalized for murder. I was oblivious. I’d do it again though.
Posted on 7/28/23 at 8:44 am to BUKA
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small things go a Long way in keeping it going, staying in shape helps, being sweet when she's stressed out also encourage her to read the dirty books that all the chick's read and she'll act it out with you
i cannot emphasize enough that this is not true for all women. just like i said in my post on the previous page, everyone's mileage may vary when it comes to marriage. if i try to spice things up in the bedroom, even if it is to my wife's benefit, i am shamed for "wanting her to be like a porn star".
and if i so much as mention a dirty book, she will probably leave the house crying at what a bad person i have become.
edit - i am in good shape, that is meaningless to her as well.
This post was edited on 7/28/23 at 8:46 am
Posted on 7/28/23 at 10:04 am to LeeVanCleef
I think it’s probably true if what you’re doing doesn’t end in the “O” for your partner.
Posted on 7/28/23 at 10:09 am to Loup
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Usually 5 to 7
Posted on 7/28/23 at 10:14 am to DifferentTigah
quote:very true
However if you live a marriage out correctly and with respect for your wife and her cycles, practice nfp, neither the man or woman will loose interest in sex. I’ve lived marriage over 10 years now and I can testify to the huge difference nfp can make in a marriage for the better.
Posted on 7/28/23 at 10:26 am to LeeVanCleef
I would like to say no, but the answer is yes.
Posted on 7/28/23 at 10:35 am to Sam Quint
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if i try to spice things up in the bedroom, even if it is to my wife's benefit, i am shamed for "wanting her to be like a porn star".
and if i so much as mention a dirty book, she will probably leave the house crying at what a bad person i have become.
I bet she had these same views before marriage. Trying to change someone can be futile, choose wisely.
Posted on 7/28/23 at 11:28 am to slacker130
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I bet she had these same views before marriage. Trying to change someone can be futile, choose wisely.
she may have, but if so, she hid it. her sexual "adventurousness" has gotten lower and lower as the years have gone by.
Posted on 7/28/23 at 11:48 am to Sam Quint
quote:Try to get her to watch some porn with you.
and if i so much as mention a dirty book, she will probably leave the house crying at what a bad person i have become.
Posted on 7/28/23 at 11:50 am to Quatrepot
lol sure
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