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Prayers needed….any words of encouragement or advice.
Posted on 6/12/22 at 6:24 pm
Posted on 6/12/22 at 6:24 pm
I start off by saying I apologize in advance for how long this post is.I have been a lurker for many years. I have laughed and cried on here but never felt the need to post. I passed many countless hours enjoying all the post on here. So today I find it oddly strange to want to post but I am lost right now. On Friday morning I suddenly and unexpectedly lost my wife of almost 20 years . Never could’ve imagined after reading post like this, that it would’ve happen to me. What makes this even worse is we have 3 kids including 2 little girls. I have always been told everything happens for a reason but why would God take my wife and take my innocent children’s mother away? As a cruel twist we were all packed and ready to go on our family vacation on Saturday.I don’t know how I can get through this. I am lost, my world has fallen apart in a matter of minutes. I am now a widow at 42 with 3 kids that will grow up without a mother. I have 2 precious baby girls that need a mother to help them with things in life that only a mother can. I will stop rambling now but for some reasons unknown I felt the need to post this. Everyone hold your loved ones a little tighter tonight because life is truly precious and tomorrow isn’t guaranteed.
THANK YOU ALL! I truly appreciate everyone’s kind words. Y’all do not know how much that actually means to me.
THANK YOU ALL! I truly appreciate everyone’s kind words. Y’all do not know how much that actually means to me.
This post was edited on 7/24/22 at 8:21 pm
Posted on 6/12/22 at 6:26 pm to Hoova1202004
oh frick man, Im so very sorry
Dont apologize for anything
the OT is a family, weird frickers but a family
take all the time you need, love those babies
Dont apologize for anything
the OT is a family, weird frickers but a family
take all the time you need, love those babies
Posted on 6/12/22 at 6:27 pm to Hoova1202004
My condolences, prayers sent.
Posted on 6/12/22 at 6:27 pm to Hoova1202004
Do not apologize for posting this. Prayers for you and your family and hoping putting your thoughts to words will help you with your healing.
Posted on 6/12/22 at 6:28 pm to Hoova1202004
Devastating loss. So very sorry!
Do you have family to support you? Church?
Do you have family to support you? Church?
Posted on 6/12/22 at 6:28 pm to Hoova1202004
So, so sorry, man. May I ask what happened?
Posted on 6/12/22 at 6:28 pm to Hoova1202004
I cannot imagine. The world can be cruel and unfair. Your kids need you more than ever—use that knowledge to press forward.
Posted on 6/12/22 at 6:29 pm to Hoova1202004
I am so sorry for your loss
Try to stay strong for your kids but take time to grieve as well
Do you have family close by?
Lean on family, friends, church, don’t feel bad for letting others help
Try to stay strong for your kids but take time to grieve as well
Do you have family close by?
Lean on family, friends, church, don’t feel bad for letting others help
Posted on 6/12/22 at 6:30 pm to Hoova1202004
Condolences
My advice to you is turn off all any/all media/news. Too much negative energy and instead totally focus on your children.
My advice to you is turn off all any/all media/news. Too much negative energy and instead totally focus on your children.
Posted on 6/12/22 at 6:31 pm to Hoova1202004
So sorry to hear this.Your kids need you now, more than ever.
Posted on 6/12/22 at 6:31 pm to Hoova1202004
Hurts to read this. Please lean on family and close friends. As difficult as it is to believe, you and your kids will get through it.
Posted on 6/12/22 at 6:34 pm to Hoova1202004
Nothing you posted is out of line. I'm so sorry for your loss and I wish I could ease your pain. Prayers sent your way.
Posted on 6/12/22 at 6:35 pm to Hoova1202004
I'm so sorry to hear that. Talking to a professional might be a good idea at this time.
Posted on 6/12/22 at 6:35 pm to Hoova1202004
I’m so sorry for your loss man. My prayers are with you and your family.
Do not be afraid to reach out and talk to someone.
Do not be afraid to reach out and talk to someone.
Posted on 6/12/22 at 6:36 pm to Hoova1202004
I can’t think of any comforting words. But prayers for you and your family.
Posted on 6/12/22 at 6:37 pm to Hoova1202004
Damn man. Pour out your heart. Some good baws here to help you along
Posted on 6/12/22 at 6:37 pm to Hoova1202004
This is a great place to vent man. You know the people are real yet nobody knows your real name. You can just talk when you need it.
You sound like a good man who has a great family. Take it one day at a time and remember your kids need you. Don’t be afraid to lean on your family and neighbors I’m sure they love you. I’m sure you’ll find you’re more than capable of helping your girls. My father in law tells stories about having to help my wife as a young woman or finding other women to help with her when he couldn’t. You will manage bro. If not, come here and ask. These nutjobs usually have links and information from their experience.
As for why and God. That’s probably best left to another thread. Perhaps you’ll find that in time.
You sound like a good man who has a great family. Take it one day at a time and remember your kids need you. Don’t be afraid to lean on your family and neighbors I’m sure they love you. I’m sure you’ll find you’re more than capable of helping your girls. My father in law tells stories about having to help my wife as a young woman or finding other women to help with her when he couldn’t. You will manage bro. If not, come here and ask. These nutjobs usually have links and information from their experience.
As for why and God. That’s probably best left to another thread. Perhaps you’ll find that in time.
This post was edited on 6/12/22 at 6:39 pm
Posted on 6/12/22 at 6:37 pm to Hoova1202004
Godspeed, prayers your way, I couldn’t imagine…
Posted on 6/12/22 at 6:38 pm to Hoova1202004
Praying for you and your family.
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