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When do people start thinking about buying cemetery plots and pre-planned funerals?

Posted on 3/4/22 at 10:19 am
Posted by Slippy
Across the rivah
Member since Aug 2005
7456 posts
Posted on 3/4/22 at 10:19 am
My parents are 80 and still alive but have had their cemetery plots for 20 years.

I'm 56 and don't care to plan for my own death right now. But if you look at the cost of crypts and tombs and mausoleums in New Orleans, it's ridiculous and is only going up over time. Should I view this as an appreciating asset and just sell it later if I don't want it?

Cremation is always an option, but my wife will haunt me if I cremate her.
Posted by saturday
Pronoun (Baw)
Member since Feb 2007
7787 posts
Posted on 3/4/22 at 10:20 am to
I got one as a high school graduation present
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
73803 posts
Posted on 3/4/22 at 10:20 am to
when they find out that pre planned funerals are 1/2 the cost as after the fact funerals.
Posted by LSU Coyote
Member since Sep 2007
56291 posts
Posted on 3/4/22 at 10:21 am to
quote:

I got one as a high school graduation present

Are you part of the Adam's Family?
Posted by adamau
Member since Oct 2020
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Posted on 3/4/22 at 10:22 am to
Posted by Horsemeat
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Posted on 3/4/22 at 10:22 am to
My parents always promised to bury me under the shed, so I'm good to go - that shed is still there.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32990 posts
Posted on 3/4/22 at 10:23 am to
Why do people buy cemetery space still?

The idea of cemeteries seems very narcissistic to me
Posted by Abstract Queso Dip
Member since Mar 2021
5878 posts
Posted on 3/4/22 at 10:24 am to
Following... If I were to pass I would just like my own website for a bit that is a eulogy and just to be creamated... Basically it should say that I battled Russian propogandists daily and fought hard for all Americans to get to experience the magic of cheese dip... Not that yellow crap out west. I'm talking about the real deal queso Blanco from your local El Toro loco, or mi hacienda, or Cinco hermanos tacos... Whatever Mexican restaurant it may be. All Americans deserve a taste of Mexican American queso Blanco.
This post was edited on 3/4/22 at 10:24 am
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
15707 posts
Posted on 3/4/22 at 10:24 am to
just throw me in a ditch somewhere, I won't care.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 3/4/22 at 10:25 am to
Never for me. I have done all the paperwork to donate my body to a medical school though.
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
26044 posts
Posted on 3/4/22 at 10:25 am to
I think it's morbid, but also financially smart. Thinking about dying scares the crap out of me so I avoid it.
Posted by BR92
Member since Apr 2021
1034 posts
Posted on 3/4/22 at 10:26 am to
I did at 46. My wife died at 47 from cancer and I went ahead and paid for my plot etc... while taking care of her arrangements. It just seemed easier.
Posted by BrohemAlem11
Ratchet City, LA
Member since Oct 2014
13318 posts
Posted on 3/4/22 at 10:27 am to
my in-laws have everything picked out.... and bring it up during family holidays and dinners all the time...and it depresses my wife...everytime
This post was edited on 4/18/22 at 3:53 pm
Posted by IT_Dawg
Georgia
Member since Oct 2012
26337 posts
Posted on 3/4/22 at 10:27 am to
Some people do the pre-planned funeral stuff because they don’t want their families to have the burden of planning a funeral while they are grieving and also get the plot they “want.”

I want them to cremate me and spread my ashes wherever my family wants to do it and definitely don’t have a place they feel they need to visit
This post was edited on 3/4/22 at 10:28 am
Posted by concrete_tiger
Member since May 2020
7477 posts
Posted on 3/4/22 at 10:28 am to
I think the key is to make sure people know what you want.

My family is 100% clear I want to be cremated and I don't care much beyond the fact I think graves/cemeteries are a huge racket and waste of space. They've known since my 20s.

Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
73803 posts
Posted on 3/4/22 at 10:28 am to
quote:

I want them to cremate me and


mix me in a douche and run me through one more time.
Posted by Nicky Parrish
Member since Apr 2016
7098 posts
Posted on 3/4/22 at 10:30 am to
Being trying to convince my wife to do this for years. Keep telling her it would be easier on both of us and the children when the time comes.
She doesn’t want to think about it.
This post was edited on 3/4/22 at 1:05 pm
Posted by Conman23
Erzberg Rodeo
Member since Mar 2021
2295 posts
Posted on 3/4/22 at 10:31 am to
quote:

pre-planned funerals?

After the honeymoon.
Posted by Gee Grenouille
Bogalusa
Member since Jul 2018
7571 posts
Posted on 3/4/22 at 10:32 am to
I’d guess it’s after their parents die and they realize the cost and decisions that come with passing away.

I joke with my wife that I’ll “get” everything my parents have when they die. Two funeral bills.
Posted by Horsemeat
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Member since Dec 2014
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Posted on 3/4/22 at 10:32 am to
All seriousness though I have in my "advance directive" that I want to be cremated after organ donation, but I don't know what they can pull from a chemo patient. No care in the world what they do with me after that.
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