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re: Where did boomer and gen-x dad's go wrong raising their daughters?

Posted on 8/11/24 at 2:57 pm to
Posted by MasonTiger
Mason, Ohio
Member since Jan 2005
18417 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 2:57 pm to
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College plus social media is difficult to overcome.


This
Posted by Wolfwireless
Member since Aug 2024
4783 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 9:31 am to
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In my opinion? Not enough church.

Women that are steadfast in their Christianity do not end up like these women

I have to make an argument against this. My neighbor is quite serious in her religion. She is however, also indoctrinated in feminism. Started with her Boomer mother. Which she's past to her 3 daughters. 2 of which are single mothers, and the only one I've met, is a barslut who lives off of her grandmother for payments on her rent and food.
Now I know that I'm speaking of an example of 1. So while I do believe that what you're saying has a lot of merit, I just want to point out that there's always bad apples.
Posted by Wolfwireless
Member since Aug 2024
4783 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 9:34 am to
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My brother did some substitute teaching for extra cash in Austin. He was shocked at what he saw. Immediately moved his family about 20 miles north of Austin and home schooled his kids until done with 8th grade and he instilled the right values so the indoctrination would not work Then they ended up in a high school that was dominant maga and his kids are ultra MAGA.


Austin. That one word says it all. It's a woke blue Haven. The blight on the state that ALL states have. Ours here in MO is Saint Louis, and Kansas City.
Posted by SCwTiger
armpit of 'merica
Member since Aug 2014
6868 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 9:35 am to
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Fat Bastard

AMEN
Posted by Wolfwireless
Member since Aug 2024
4783 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 9:47 am to
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That's ridiculous.

She might just have to put her career on hold.

This board just can't handle the idea that some women aren't ready to quit everything to have children and babysit husbands.


The problem is the problem that the OP was discussing. That "the modern woman" isn't taught to think about putting that career on hold.
I'm not saying that they have to quit everything, dope all of their dreams. But entirely too many women have the wrong point of view. Girls are being taught to dominate men, not co-exist with them.
Now, as for babysitting husband's. I recommend you go on TikTok and watch some of the vids by women who are bawling their eyes out, over getting divorced, having to make it on their own, and not being able to find another guy.
"I don't need no man". But they sure as all hell miss having a free gardener, plumber, handyman, mechanic, and somebody taking out the trash.
Posted by mtb010
San Antonio
Member since Sep 2009
6099 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 9:59 am to
There was a moral decline in this country and then it was sensationalized by television and the media. Trace it back to MTV's teen mom series where they glamourized girls making horrible decisions and then on top of that the Kardashians being everywhere and how Kim got famous. These young girls saw that behavior and mimicked it without thinking for a second the psychological repercussions of their actions. On top of that we have a society where 50% of marriages end in divorce so the father is not a strong enough presence everyday. Also, with the cost of everything being higher then giraffe pussy both parents are forced to work to keep a roof over their heads and food in their mouths and we've allowed the corrupt public schooling system to raise our kids.
Posted by JLivermore
Wendover
Member since Dec 2015
1683 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 10:04 am to
I'd encourage some of you younger dads to think twice before escaping off to the golf course, or escaping to the bar every time you have a little free time. Esp in summer when your kids are out of school.

Yeah, you've more than earned it, but you've got sons and daughters to raise, and every second you do not spend with them, they are being brainwashed in a direction you will not like.

Sticking your kid in front of a screen for hours a day has consequences. Instead of bitching about it, step up and parent.



Posted by StrongOffer
Member since Sep 2020
6312 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 10:05 am to
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Yeah, God forbid, a young woman wants to have a career. It’s anti- Christian… lol.
Why do y'all always distort the argument like this? Do you just not understand the argument or are you so scared of actually having an honest debate that you wish to push a false narrative?
Posted by Lynxrufus2012
Central Kentucky
Member since Mar 2020
18255 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 10:08 am to
Exactly. Sometimes all it takes is one left wing high school teacher who is “cool” to get them thinking stupid thoughts. Then that gets reinforced in college. There they are bombarded. It takes being out a few years seeing the deductions from their paychecks to start questioning the liberal indoctrination.
Posted by lake chuck fan
Vinton
Member since Aug 2011
21178 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 10:12 am to
All you listed are relevant for sure, but I also believe it's has much to do with location.
The areas where children are raised and what is learned in their culture, in addition to what is taught in the home.
The best method to understanding how folks view culture and society is by zip code.
Posted by TygerTyger
Houston
Member since Oct 2010
10729 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 12:02 pm to
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VOR


Aren't you an unemployed government subsidized human leach?

WTF would you know about a career?
Posted by jp4lsu
Member since Sep 2016
6294 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 12:20 pm to
Social media is the number one factor in turning generations into anxiety ridden leftist.
Not only are leftist ideals rampant in the typical media but it is then fed down to the socials through friends, influencers etc.

Typically we had news via the tv or internet and formed our opinions. Now social media bombards kids, teens, young adults daily with views and opinions. Factor in constant pressures of friends and knowing what every one of your friends are doing all the time and it creates anxiety, social pressures to conform, and peer pressure.

When were going up, the peer pressure stopped when we left school. I only had to deal with having a conservative opinion while at school. It didn't follow me home on social media. Socials are the worst.
Posted by BamaMamaof2
Atlanta, GA
Member since Nov 2019
2650 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 12:48 pm to
It's where all parents go wrong, they are not disciplined parents. I not talking about disciplining your children, it being disciplined in how you discipline them.

I have raised 2 children, both graduated from college and starting great careers, but that didn't happen by accident. Both my husband had to be disciplined ourselves to raise disciplined children..

At times you just want to sit back and not be present in children's life, you let them pester you in to just giving in to their wants, you really just don't have the energy.

The hardest thing I did was raising my children. It was 24/7, 365, for 20 years.
Posted by wackatimesthree
Member since Oct 2019
10353 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 1:15 pm to
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In my opinion? Not enough church.

Women that are steadfast in their Christianity do not end up like these women.


This also.

Posted by wackatimesthree
Member since Oct 2019
10353 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 1:18 pm to
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My neighbor is quite serious in her religion. She is however, also indoctrinated in feminism.


Do you not see how both of those cannot co-exist?

One of those has to be a false statement. If the 2nd statement is true, she may otherwise be quite serious in her religion, but she is completely disregarding God's design for the family, which is the first and most fundamental institution He created.

It's kind of an important omission.

To be fair, it's fairly common in Protestant churches, though.
This post was edited on 8/12/24 at 1:19 pm
Posted by Leotiger725
Member since Jan 2021
871 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 2:00 pm to
They did not counteract the feminist messaging which was and is still prevalent in society and media with extreme prejudice.
Posted by Wolfwireless
Member since Aug 2024
4783 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 3:44 pm to
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All you listed are relevant for sure, but I also believe it's has much to do with location.
The areas where children are raised and what is learned in their culture, in addition to what is taught in the home.
The best method to understanding how folks view culture and society is by zip code


I agree with what you are saying. And I'm not arguing or trying g to fight. But I do feel the need to give out a warning.
The federal gov't has their hands too far into the schools. Especially through the teachers unions.
Those same unions that will make decisions to start preaching the woke, DEI, anti-white, feminist, trans gospel in Your schools too.
And as the parents, you will have a big fight on your hands to get it out!
And a lot of these schools take it in, because the gov't will provide extra money for them, to do it. Special interest groups, will pay the school, and people running and working for the school, to do it.
Again, not to fight, but to warn.
Posted by Wolfwireless
Member since Aug 2024
4783 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 3:45 pm to
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Aren't you an unemployed government subsidized human leach?

WTF would you know about a career?


OK, so since I'm new here... I gotta ask.
What's up with the gaslighting?
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
58558 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 3:51 pm to
It's all how you raise them. If my daughter had come back from college spilling that woke bs like systematic racism or socialist stuff. She would have been exiled from my house. Lol. She gets it because I let her know where and why her first check was not what she thought it would be. Dad why does it say GROSS pay and why am I only getting this NET pay. Instant Republican.
This post was edited on 8/12/24 at 3:57 pm
Posted by SaintsReportExile
Member since Nov 2023
676 posts
Posted on 8/12/24 at 3:52 pm to
My daughter is 19 and turned out great, she works with me now. Making good money, taking some college classes part time and hate communists. I would say I did pretty well.
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