re: My Apology to the Board for my Conduct (Why I Am The Result Of Feminism)

This is very basic advice but you need to be confident. Body language and eye contact are very important in showing confidence. Work on that.

Also make them laugh. You're half way there if you can do that.

Be a mystery. dont bare every detail about yourself the first date

Good luck

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Your family is probably the only source of goodness in your life and the only thing that has shown true kindness to you. It is wrong to try and destroy it because your base lusts aren't being satisfied.

Also, don't make yourself impotent by getting a vasectomy. The mra and Mgtow shite is ruining your brain. Everyone caught up in that shite are sexually frustrated losers. Fat asses like Matt forney frick flip whores and think they're Casanova for it. Only more misery and isolation is at its end. I have no doubt this rot is contributing to your problems with women and your own depression.

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I've had a few other good friends but you are right my family has been my rock. My best friend sadly went off the face of the Earth after his second DUI about 2 years back and even though I wanted to help him through it he just shut everyone out. He was my best friend and probably my closet confidant.

I've had a few other friends and people who showed me kindness, but not many. I'm sure more would if I allowed them to.

I also don't disagree with you, another friend of mine who lives out of states saw first hand a lot of divorces and had his own sexual frustration. He is full in on MRA and MGTOW and is the one who got me into it. I do agree that my anger went up when I started frequenting those boards and videos.

I thought of it as being red pill, as seeing the truth. I originally felt better because I saw MGTOW as setting me free. But then the frustration came back worse than ever and I've now realized it was probably doing more harm than good. It was MGTOW and sadly my friend (who I do still appreciate his friendship) who I think led me down the road of hating women and wanting to simply live my life to be a Men's Rights Activist.

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Has it been established that you're a fedora guy?

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Actually that's funny you mentioned that, I got into fedoras about 2 years ago. I have 2 pairs that I currently wear at times. They seemed interesting and they are in fad right now so I decided to try it.

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Be a mystery. dont bare every detail about yourself the first date

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Specifically every single detail you've revealed about yourself in this thread. Put that shite waaaaay on the back burner.

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She seems to think my anxiety hurts my ability to connect with women

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You should probably go see a male therapist. Preferably a male therapist who's not a complete puss who can give you some good advice.

Man, maybe I can start a new career as a mentor for millennials. "Bhtigerfan, Poon Slaying Expert & Advisor".

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Does that go for married dudes too?

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I don't think I could do that in good faith.

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If I tell you I wear fedoras while I wander the marital sex desert won't you feel for me too?

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You need to get yourself a big girl. Knock the bottom out of a handful of those and then gradually drop down in weight class as you build your confidence. Right now you currently do not possess the skill set or confidence with women on your level. The only real solution is to go big.

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Terrible. Instead try to get to know women as people and not just orifices for your dick.