re: You ever feel like dating apps have ruined a generation?

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No, I think people being fat, lazy, and stupid has ruined a generation. These dudes want to be 5’8 235 and wonder why women don’t like them

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You wish you were 5'8

Women are far pickier but also fatter than ever and meaner than ever.

The amount of chunky-arse women out there is astounding.

The most important thing a modern woman can do to improve herself is be in shape. Literally nothing else matters.

But are you funny?

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5’8 235

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That’s the average woman size on these apps.

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That’s the average woman size on these apps.

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yeah there were a lot of those to wade through. For first time meet ups I would go to Olive or Twist which had a pretty good happy hour. You could scope her out and see if you wanted to take her on a legit date for $20. Plus, if she was a duff you could still have a drink with her for cheap and not be a dick to her. I would be straightforward and say thanks for your time but I'm not interested at the end of it.

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No, I think people being fat, lazy, and stupid has ruined a generation


Well, that didn't ruin the boomers

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They could afford it.

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I agree that's a big issue. I had buddies in that size range and they had hell on dating apps. I'm short as shite but I was ripped af when I was single and never had a shortage of opportunities on tinder/bumble. I'm sure quite a few woman swiped left because of my height but you can't win them all so who cares.

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I was going on multiple dates a month if I wanted to. But I don’t get my haircut at sports clips, have a good job, and a personality. shite ain’t hard

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a personality

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LMAO

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Maybe I should lie and say I’m 5’9”, since most women wouldn’t know the difference.

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every dude under 5'10 says they are 5'10/11" anyway so you might as well

i was always honest about being 5'11 when i was single just to frick with my short friends. Cant claim 6' because that would be stolen valor

There's so many layers to this issue, but in general young men really being beaten down by society and our current education system not being set up for men to truly succeed. Women are maturing faster and men are maturing later, there's very few male role models in schools for boys, which is flowing into college and then after college the mismatch between college educated women wanting a college educated man...it's not a good outlook for stable society or growing birthrates, etc.

Everyone's been so focused on raising women "up" but no one is talking about boys and young men being knocked down.

Dating apps are a big part of this discussion, because it’s created this really horrible imbalance where select few guys have their choice of women, so they never have to or want to settle/always have another option…and women refuse to “settle” chasing after guys who they think they “deserve”

This is long, but it’s worth the watch especially if you have young children



Here's a look at some of the topics covered for reference

00:00 Intro
02:03 The Lost Boys Report
06:02 How Did This Happen?
10:27 Fatherless Homes
14:29 Are Boys Mentally Weaker?
16:41 Is the Education System the Problem?
22:39 Where Are Male Role Models?
29:58 What the Stats Say About Dating
34:32 Dating Standards
44:13 Do Women Really Want Emotionally Attuned Men?
46:06 If They're Okay, Always Go on a Second Date
47:56 Men's Groups: Should We Have Them and What Are the Benefits?
55:40 Steve's Supportive Group of Friends
01:02:32 The Dangers of Porn for Young Boys
01:07:51 How Scott Helps Men With Porn Addiction
01:13:01 Men Approaching Women in a Post-MeToo Era
01:15:17 Teens Don’t Know How to Ask Girls Out in Person
01:25:11 Do Successful Women Struggle to Find a Partner?
01:30:13 The Rise of Feminism
01:31:53 Money Equals Identity for Men
01:37:08 Does Money Give Self-Worth to Women?
01:39:41 The Human Dating Boot Camp
01:48:32 How Is the Left Going to Get Men Back?
01:53:15 Advice for Parents of Young Boys
01:56:11 What Scott and Steve Had to Unlearn About Being a Man
02:11:01 Closing Message for the Lost Boys