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re: WWYD? Bad advice or clean conscience?
Posted on 9/6/18 at 12:14 pm to Will Cover
Posted on 9/6/18 at 12:14 pm to Will Cover
You are 70?
I took you for 36 max
I took you for 36 max
Posted on 9/6/18 at 12:16 pm to Mid Iowa Tiger
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She’s selfish and wanted to clean her conscience by dumping it on him.
Exactly this. What’s improved by her revealing the info? His happiness? No. The marriage? No.
She spilled it for selfish reasons. She feels better; he feels worse.
Posted on 9/6/18 at 12:18 pm to Will Cover
Plot twist: He banged 13 different women over the same time span and took it to the grave with him.
Posted on 9/6/18 at 12:21 pm to Will Cover
Pretty screwed up to carry something like that for 70 years and then let it out. Either tell them immediately or go down with it to save them some pain
Posted on 9/6/18 at 12:22 pm to Will Cover
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WWYD? Bad advice or clean conscience?
I came clean once; won't do that again.
Posted on 9/6/18 at 12:33 pm to Will Cover
If she dies first she'll get a helluva appropriate epitaph on her headstone.
Posted on 9/6/18 at 12:42 pm to idlewatcher
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I'm conflicted about this. You're supposed to be able to forgive yourself regardless if the offended party has forgiven you but I don't think you can truly forgive yourself until that forgiveness is granted.
When you forgive yourself, you actually relinquish any power or control (even if only mental) that the other person has over you.
After all, the only person that you can truly control is yourself. Get right with yourself and the Lord. That's about all you can do. Anyone else who chooses to forgive you, consider that "lagniappe" and appreciate the willingness and kindness they show to you.
This post was edited on 9/6/18 at 12:47 pm
Posted on 9/6/18 at 12:46 pm to rowbear1922
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I came clean once; won't do that again.
Posted on 9/6/18 at 12:48 pm to Will Cover
Tony Keith said it best
"I wish I didn't know now what I didn't know then"
"I wish I didn't know now what I didn't know then"
Posted on 9/6/18 at 12:55 pm to Dam Guide
quote:this is the bottom line. Her clean conscience is simply not worth the pain she has just caused him.
I'm not sure it is worth the pain you cause the loved one though to clean your conscience, you basically lied to them for over 50 years.
Pretty fricked up, actually.
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:36 pm to Will Cover
Why do I get the impression this was posted before?
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:39 pm to Will Cover
Yeah, horrible decision on her part
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