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re: Would you tell your friend if his significant other is going to destroy him?
Posted on 1/29/25 at 9:29 am to diat150
Posted on 1/29/25 at 9:29 am to diat150
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maybe he needs someone on his arse to reach his full potential. maybe he would slack and only do enough to just get by otherwise.
I agree she definitely helped him in that regards and push him to get a better job. However she just doesn’t want to work even quit her job and has a crazy high rent she makes him pay after convincing him to move in.
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Posted on 1/29/25 at 9:30 am to RaoulDuke504
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I’m sorry some of us have actually lives and friends. I know you sitting alone in your apartment can’t understand that.
This isn't a story common to people with friends and lives.
Posted on 1/29/25 at 9:30 am to DarthGadget
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Yes. Absolutely It is even worth risking your friendship to try to save him. There is an epidemic of these gals. I know several guys who have been left nearly destitute.
They always seem to go after the nicest guys.
Posted on 1/29/25 at 9:31 am to RaoulDuke504
I tried this with a cousin. It didn't go well but when he had to file for divorce after 6 months he called me and apologized so now we are cool again.
Posted on 1/29/25 at 9:31 am to RaoulDuke504
You’re not going to change his mind at this point. Let it be.
Posted on 1/29/25 at 9:31 am to 777Tiger
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whoa, we need a little more info, and pics, to sort this one out, she was married to the dude and whoring around on him at the Prop Stop?
no this was before they dated I believe. She was in several Prop Stop threads and another about a FB argument she got into with the owner of another bar saying she had slept with that bar owners husband. I don't know how to search but her name is Brooke
Posted on 1/29/25 at 9:31 am to RaoulDuke504
none of this happened
Posted on 1/29/25 at 9:32 am to RaoulDuke504
Tell him.
It’s about his life. You’re friendship is worth sacrificing to save his.
It’s about his life. You’re friendship is worth sacrificing to save his.
Posted on 1/29/25 at 9:32 am to Topwater Trout
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her name is Brooke
of course it is
Posted on 1/29/25 at 9:33 am to RaoulDuke504
Time to humble this bitch
Posted on 1/29/25 at 9:33 am to RaoulDuke504
What kind of human is she would be the deciding factor for me i guess.
My best friends ex wife left her boyfriend at the time to start seeing him. Tried to tell him if shed do it to the other guy shed do it to him.
They divorced after about 6 years, started swinging 2 years into it. They had a kid they co parent and are still nice to one another so i have no idea if the right move was let things work themselves out or not.
That being said if she was a bitch to him or sluttt towards me i would have never let him marry her. Woulda kicked his arse for trying. So like i said unless shes just a shitty human.... still a tough one.
My best friends ex wife left her boyfriend at the time to start seeing him. Tried to tell him if shed do it to the other guy shed do it to him.
They divorced after about 6 years, started swinging 2 years into it. They had a kid they co parent and are still nice to one another so i have no idea if the right move was let things work themselves out or not.
That being said if she was a bitch to him or sluttt towards me i would have never let him marry her. Woulda kicked his arse for trying. So like i said unless shes just a shitty human.... still a tough one.
This post was edited on 1/29/25 at 9:35 am
Posted on 1/29/25 at 9:34 am to RaoulDuke504
Bros before Hos
This post was edited on 1/29/25 at 9:34 am
Posted on 1/29/25 at 9:34 am to RaoulDuke504
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Basically she said she was settling with him and would prefer an older rich guy but had to accept what she had. She doesn’t want to work and prefers to be taken care of.
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I’m sure she told him this
Yep, these women always go into every relation completely truthful and honest up front. I am positive she told him that she's just putting up with his poor arse until someone with actual money shows interest; then she's leaving him for 1/2.
If he is your friend, you should absolutely tell him that you overheard his girl saying.....
Posted on 1/29/25 at 9:34 am to Topwater Trout
quote:Yeah...not if it's a good buddy. A casual friend? sure. Not a good one. It can be as simple as giving the advice that before marriage you have to truly consider the better or worse part and if both would have the same mutual dedication. If she became ill and couldn't work would he stay and provide for her? Would she for him? If the answer is no or even if it's a maybe then it's got to be a no to marriage.
it's just best to let them find out on their own.
OP has to try and talk to his buddy before he makes a huge mistake that will cost him 1/2 if not more if they have a child together. Plus if she is already saying some of those things and he truly is p-whipped, she'll make him cut out friends like the OP after the wedding and direct him towards her friends' trust fund and sugar daddy SO's. OP's buddy will end up with a mound of debt, alimony, possibly child support and lose half of his shite within 5-7 years. I'd be more upset at a buddy who didn't say something than one who did if they saw that in my future.
Just my $0.02 as someone who has been the friend that wasn't told in a very similar situation.
Posted on 1/29/25 at 9:34 am to Earnest_P
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In what way was it better for him to find that out on his own (and waste the years and heartache)?
i guess you have to know your friend. He wouldn't have stopped dating her bc of what I said...most guys wouldn't. I assume he called her out on it and she lied to him for them to eventually get married.
Posted on 1/29/25 at 9:35 am to RaoulDuke504
Tell her you know her plan and if she wants you to keep quiet, you require a FWB squid pro ho situation.
Profit!
Profit!
Posted on 1/29/25 at 9:35 am to Gusoline
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started swinging 2 years
This is the most likely reason to divorce.
Also only men with ugly wives swing. My girl is too hot for us to be swingers I’ll always lose.
Posted on 1/29/25 at 9:37 am to Bullfrog
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Tell her you know her plan and if she wants you to keep quiet, you require a FWB squid pro ho situation.
finally, a reasonable solution to this dilemma
Posted on 1/29/25 at 9:37 am to AwesomeSauce
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Yeah...not if it's a good buddy.
well he married her really quick and it was a complete surprise. It wasn't like he said we are getting married in a few months. I thought they were just dating and he would use her for 4-6 mos lol
Posted on 1/29/25 at 9:38 am to 777Tiger
morning 777 
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