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re: Would you take your wife back if she had a one night stand on a business trip?

Posted on 3/24/16 at 11:11 am to
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
68467 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 11:11 am to
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You could say the same after someone masturbated. Think of all the potentially weird and gross stuff she thought of, or looks at and the other people she vigororously fantasized about railing her. How is this different?

Uhhhhh no.....masturbating and having another dude's dick in the pussy you're paying for ARE NOT the same.
Posted by dabigfella
Member since Mar 2016
6687 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 11:12 am to
what if she was paying for her own vagina though....hypothetically since you mention the vagina YOURE paying for
This post was edited on 3/24/16 at 11:13 am
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 3/24/16 at 11:12 am to
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the idea of my wife cheating then having to pay her child support while only seeing my daughter a few times a month is absolutely horrifying to me



Right?! And the idea of another man fussing at your kids, telling them what to do, help raising them? Not happening.

My son is 4, and he loses his mind if I leave him without giving him hugs and kisses. It breaks his heart. I can't expect him to understand why I can't see him every day.

In my opinion, and of course people will disagree, marriage is about more than yourself once you have kids. Everything you do is for them. Am I happy all the time in my marriage? LOLNO. Are there times I wish I were single? YES. But, I push on every day because I have two kids that need me.
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
68467 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 11:13 am to
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what if she was paying for her own vagina though....hypothetically since you mention the vagina YOURE paying for

Correct I mentioned it because it's true......every married dude knows that he's paying for it.....literally.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
73558 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 11:14 am to
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You could say the same after someone masturbated.


no, her having another man's dick in her mouth isn't even in the same ball park as me thinking about banging an OT 10. It's not even the same game.
Posted by LSUAfro
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2005
12775 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 11:15 am to
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the idea of my wife cheating then having to pay her child support while only seeing my daughter a few times a month is absolutely horrifying to me

It would be my living hell.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 3/24/16 at 11:17 am to
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in the pussy you're paying for


What a terrific way to view your wife.

ETA: I'm willing to bet most of yall wouldn't have the balls to talk like this in front of your wife, if you even have one. Internet makes it easy to act like a neanderthal though.
This post was edited on 3/24/16 at 11:20 am
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
68469 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 11:18 am to

Ha, you're a Cuck. Knew it.
Posted by Meatball
Member since Sep 2009
5114 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 11:20 am to
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My son is 4, and he loses his mind if I leave him without giving him hugs and kisses. It breaks his heart. I can't expect him to understand why I can't see him every day.


So, you would rather be in a loveless marriage for the next 14 years or until both your children are grown.

I don't think that I could do it.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 3/24/16 at 11:21 am to
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So, you would rather be in a loveless marriage for the next 14 years or until both your children are grown.


A one night stand does not mean the love is gone. Nothing in life is as absolute as yall are trying to make it sound.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84354 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 11:22 am to
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So, you would rather be in a loveless marriage for the next 14 years or until both your children are grown.



Who said it would be loveless? I'd still love my wife. I wouldn't stop loving her just like that. It doesn't work that way. I would feel betrayed, sure. I'd probably have my own personal sidepieces to keep me happy, but then return home so I can be good father.
Posted by Salmon
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Member since Feb 2008
85370 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 11:23 am to
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So, you would rather be in a loveless marriage for the next 14 years or until both your children are grown.

I don't think that I could do it.


it would most certainly destroy our marriage for at least a few years

I'd probably put on a good face in front of the daughter, but as soon as she went to sleep, I would most certainly be very distant from the wife

I would imagine eventually I would learn to trust her again and move past it

I have no idea what I would do. I just know that either option would destroy me. I feel like not seeing my daughter all the time would be worse though.
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
68562 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 11:23 am to
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marriage is about more than yourself once you have kids. Everything you do is for them.


Disagree. I think this exact sentament is why marriages fail.

Marriage is always and should always be about you and your spouse. Your kids are the visitors to the relationship.
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
88673 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 11:30 am to
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Disagree. I think this exact sentament is why marriages fail.

Marriage is always and should always be about you and your spouse. Your kids are the visitors to the relationship.


Are you married and or have a kid? Doesn't sound like it.
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
68469 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 11:31 am to

Ha, you're a Cuck. Knew it.
Posted by Rou Leed
Member since Jun 2015
1796 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 11:32 am to
Who gets the family bible when Red Rifle's wife gets pounded by eurotrash?
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
85370 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 11:32 am to
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Your kids are the visitors to the relationship.


there certainly needs to be a balance, but your kids will (or at least they shouldn't) never be "visitors". Once you have them, they will be the driving force for your life. It just happens.
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 11:34 am to
True love conquers all, people make mistakes. A real man can forgive am occasional moment of weakness.
Posted by yoga girl
Member since Dec 2015
3691 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 11:35 am to
Why would you want to be married to someone you could not trust?

Not to mention the disease issue
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 11:37 am to
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someone you could not trust?


So just because someone makes a mistake every now and then, you all of a sudden can't trust them? The important thing is to know that they are trying to quit. Nobody is perfect.
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