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re: Would you ever consider dating a fat chick with a good personality?

Posted on 2/17/16 at 6:35 am to
Posted by KG6
Member since Aug 2009
10920 posts
Posted on 2/17/16 at 6:35 am to
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she asked me if I had an issue with her weight


Holy shite that's an awkward conversation.

But at least try it out. Unless she's nasty fat, a little thickness never hurt anyone. Variety is the spice of life. You may not like a thicker girl, but in 10 years when you've been married to a skinny ine, you're going to look at that cute but chubby secretary in the office and say "wonder what that would be like". Do it now so that you know.
Posted by CptRusty
Basket of Deplorables
Member since Aug 2011
11740 posts
Posted on 2/17/16 at 6:38 am to
I've dated a couple girls who started out "thick" then ended up fat. Thick I don't mind, give me some curves and tits...but when your belly starts drooping over your jeans and your arse looks like a bag of used blockbuster tapes, it's time to get your shite together.

ETA: Also, I've hooked up with girls all over the spectrum from fat to skinny, and I'll take a girl that's too fat over a girl that's too skinny any day. Overyly-skinny girls are gross: no arse, no tits, ribs and pelvis poking into you, and the skin feels weird and loose, like clothing that's a size too large or something.
This post was edited on 2/17/16 at 6:44 am
Posted by rsbd
banks of the Mississippi
Member since Jan 2007
23471 posts
Posted on 2/17/16 at 6:39 am to
Get your mom to call me and we will set up something and I'll let you know if she is marriage material..
Posted by Maverick01
Member since Sep 2015
581 posts
Posted on 2/17/16 at 6:40 am to
quote:

Holy shite that's an awkward conversation.


Yeah, it got awkward/uncomfortable pretty quickly when she asked me that. I was trying to strike this fine balance between being honest, and not coming off as an insensitive a-hole.
Posted by Tortious
ATX
Member since Nov 2010
5770 posts
Posted on 2/17/16 at 6:42 am to
If by date you mean go to her house, bang her, let her put her mouth on it, and order some dominos than sure.
Posted by Fus0623
Lafayette, LA
Member since Jan 2015
92362 posts
Posted on 2/17/16 at 6:45 am to
A passage from the Canadian poet Drake-

quote:

I like my girls BBW, yeah Type to wanna suck you dry and then eat some lunch with you Yeah, so thick that everybody else in the room is so uncomfortable arse on Houston Texas, but the face look just like Clair Huxtable

Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
15281 posts
Posted on 2/17/16 at 6:46 am to
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Yeah, it got awkward/uncomfortable pretty quickly when she asked me that. I was trying to strike this fine balance between being honest, and not coming off as an insensitive a-hole.


She was asking for a pity bang, you fricked up.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2005
82396 posts
Posted on 2/17/16 at 6:48 am to
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How fat are we talking here?


Posted by Rounder1
Member since Feb 2013
522 posts
Posted on 2/17/16 at 7:08 am to
Personality is a key thing for me but I have dated a chick for her personality even though I was not very physically attracted to her. In my experience personality is not enough. If the attraction is not there then you will not handle your bedroom business with the enthusiasm that a healthy relationship requires. Subsequently she will figure out that she is not desired by you and her "personality" will change as a result of not feeling that desire.

Just my .02
Posted by uptownsage
New Orleans
Member since Oct 2014
2156 posts
Posted on 2/17/16 at 7:13 am to
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No. I never did and I dont think I ever would. I sure don't want a woman with a shitty personality, but Id stay single before I dated a fat girl.




Congratulations, you must be an astoundingly superficial human rodent.
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
17194 posts
Posted on 2/17/16 at 7:14 am to
No, only because I like to stay active and live a healthy lifestyle. I'm not sure what I would have in common with a fat chick. It's not a superficial thing, but on a nice Sat morning if I wanted to go for a bike ride or a walk/run and maybe stop for a smoothie somewhere it'd be fun to have someone to do those things with rather than doing them alone knowing my partner is still in her PJs eating a tub of bacon flavored ice cream in bed.
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
45996 posts
Posted on 2/17/16 at 7:17 am to
Are we talking about Kate Upton fat or Honey Boo Boo mom fat?
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134318 posts
Posted on 2/17/16 at 7:22 am to
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No, only because I like to stay active and live a healthy lifestyle. I'm not sure what I would have in common with a fat chick. It's not a superficial thing, but on a nice Sat morning if I wanted to go for a bike ride or a walk/run and maybe stop for a smoothie somewhere it'd be fun to have someone to do those things with rather than doing them alone knowing my partner is still in her PJs eating a tub of bacon flavored ice cream in bed.



This. I like hitting up the gym 5-6 times a week. Luckily my wife likes to work out as much as I do.
Posted by tigersownall
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2011
17206 posts
Posted on 2/17/16 at 7:23 am to
I dust fatties off all the time
Posted by eitek1
Member since Jun 2011
2908 posts
Posted on 2/17/16 at 7:23 am to
If you are perfectly compatible do it. She could always drop a few pounds. You may never find someone like her again.

I've been married for 23 years. When I met my wife she was built amazingly. After years of fertility treatments she weighed 220 pounds. She was still an awesome person but she was just bigger and we were still completely compatible.

A year after all the fertility stuff was over she lost all of the weight through a great deal of work. She's built awesome again.

What happens if you marry your dream woman and she gets in a wreck and gets scars on her face? You leaving over that?

This post was edited on 2/17/16 at 7:26 am
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
76781 posts
Posted on 2/17/16 at 7:23 am to
is she rich?
Posted by dnm3305
Member since Feb 2009
16413 posts
Posted on 2/17/16 at 7:26 am to
Are we talking Kate Upton fat or Ashley Graham fat?
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
76781 posts
Posted on 2/17/16 at 7:28 am to
quote:

Are we talking Kate Upton fat or Ashley Graham fat?


rebel wilson fat
Posted by SoFla Tideroller
South Florida
Member since Apr 2010
41866 posts
Posted on 2/17/16 at 7:28 am to
Go read the SI swimsuit threads. 75% of the posters here are chubby chasers. Of course they'd date a fat arse.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
76158 posts
Posted on 2/17/16 at 7:30 am to
quote:

I realize looks aren't everything, but what percentage wise should they matter?
If you're asking this question, it matters to you.

She's 50 lbs. overweight now when she's in the game. You marry her, there's a decent possibility she will blossom even more. If you truly love her, you'll be OK. If you are not totally devoted to her, you will fight/cheat/divorce.

I could not personally deal with it.

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