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re: would you date a woman that has cheated in a prior relationship?

Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:22 pm to
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
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Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:22 pm to
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character and morals


which character?
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
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Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:23 pm to
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But even still, if it was just a 1-time thing, as in out with the girls, got extremely too drunk, immediately regretted it. I can forgive that.


But why? If someone shows you who they are….believe them. She has showed all it takes is enough alcohol and she is capable of cheating in that situation. And will do it again. And every time she goes off for a girls night that thought will be lingering in the back of your mind.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:23 pm to
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which character?



Austin Powers
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:24 pm to
If it happened in high school/early college and hasn't happened since there's some leeway there.

But if you've cheated in a relationship after that, particularly in a serious one, I'm not touching that with a 10-foot-pole. Separating from a spouse (even if you can't afford the divorce) is far too easy at this point to excuse any kind of cheating while actively in a relationship.

I can't tell you how many couples I've worked with that tried to mend the relationship after cheating by one partner or the other and it's happened again.

Posted by Slagathor
Makin' jokes about your teeny tiny
Member since Jul 2007
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Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:26 pm to
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If she was cheating in the sense that she had a full months long affair, frick NO.


I always wonder how the vows go when someone eventually marries the person they were cheating on their spouse with.

I do, this time? 'Til death do we part, and this time I really mean it?

I get that there are varying degrees of relationships and whatnot, but it's just stupid to think that if someone broke their marriage vows to be with you that they wouldn't do the same thing to you.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
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Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:26 pm to
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can't tell you how many couples I've worked with that tried to mend the relationship after cheating by one partner or the other and it's happened again.


Massive waste of time to bother trying to save a marriage after one cheats. Just go ahead and split up and move on. You will never fully regain that trust back.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
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Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:27 pm to
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but it's just stupid to think that if someone broke their marriage vows to be with you that they wouldn't do the same thing to you.


if they cheat WITH you they will cheat ON you.
Posted by Proximo
Member since Aug 2011
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Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:27 pm to
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Any of you baw's willing to give the girl an opportunity at a relationship if she showed remorse for her past transgressions?

She’s not gonna tell you most likely
Posted by Tear It Up
The Deadening
Member since May 2005
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Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:27 pm to
No. The thought of whether she is cheating on you will always be in the back of your mind.

As Ludacris said “you can’t turn a ho into a housewife- ho’s don’t act right”
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10318 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:32 pm to
I met a 45 year old guy who told me he has an std and cheated on his wife. He doesn’t think those are bad things. I still can’t believe it.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129037 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:33 pm to
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get that there are varying degrees of relationships and whatnot, but it's just stupid to think that if someone broke their marriage vows to be with you that they wouldn't do the same thing to you.


Just people being dumb enough to think they are special enough to avoid a known cheater cheating on them
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:33 pm to
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I met a 45 year old guy who told me he has an std and cheated on his wife. He doesn’t think those are bad things. I still can’t believe it.



you're still a homo?
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129037 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:34 pm to
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met a 45 year old guy who told me he has an std and cheated on his wife. He doesn’t think those are bad things. I still can’t believe it.


Met him at a gay bar?
Posted by rd280z
Richmond
Member since Jan 2007
2313 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:35 pm to
Only for sexual gratification. Nothing more. Cheaters gonna cheat.
Posted by eatpie
Kentucky
Member since Aug 2018
1148 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:36 pm to
Of course, but it only means the field is still open for me.
Posted by Fishstick
in the freezer or next to the fries
Member since May 2008
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Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:39 pm to
I'm actually in the situation of being involved with a married woman. Dead b edroom, platonic, doesn't know how to pull the trigger, etc. No kids. Will she ever leave him for me? I don't know. Is she still banging the hubby and not telling me? I don't think so. I'm not being naive. I know it's a tough situation and we both agree that we're gonna need some counseling if we do decide to be together because we will always have questions.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17530 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:40 pm to
Define "date." As in relationship or just tapping that arse every once in a while?

Relationship? Hell no. A leopard WILL NEVER change it's spots. It's like a drug to them.

Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
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Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:40 pm to
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platonic


quote:

No kids


ya don't say?
Posted by Cosmo
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Member since Oct 2003
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Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:42 pm to
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I met a 45 year old guy who told me he has an std and cheated on his wife. He doesn’t think those are bad things. I still can’t believe it.


Just get him to wear a rubber Walt. Pretty effective for HIV
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
16235 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:42 pm to
Sure if I was desperate enough.
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