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re: would you date a woman that has cheated in a prior relationship?
Posted on 1/11/23 at 12:38 pm to Gaston
Posted on 1/11/23 at 12:38 pm to Gaston
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How would you ever know?
This. If she's entirely open about a past of this and making it a point to claim she won't do it again, I'm more inclined to believe she absolutely will do it again.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 12:40 pm to Hangover Haven
But the downside is, only other people
Posted on 1/11/23 at 12:42 pm to Steadyhands
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How would you ever know?
This. If she's entirely open about a past of this and making it a point to claim she won't do it again, I'm more inclined to believe she absolutely will do it again.
I've been out of that game for a long time but a trait common in women that I would see was that on the first or second date there would come a point in the evening that it was as if the chick had been given truth serum, they would typically spill their guts with their entire life story, whether I wanted to hear it or not
This post was edited on 1/11/23 at 12:56 pm
Posted on 1/11/23 at 12:54 pm to 420centraltime
A wise person once told me that “if you leave a bad relationship, remember that you always end up taking you with you”.
Whatever went down with the other guy, she made that choice…and you have no idea under what conditions she’d make that choice again. Heck, she might not even know, but whatever they are, those conditions could reappear in the future and cause a repeat unless she’s done some serious work to unpackage that.
So, I’m not going to say definitive no, but she better be bombing it out of the park in every other area for me to consider it and take that risk.
Whatever went down with the other guy, she made that choice…and you have no idea under what conditions she’d make that choice again. Heck, she might not even know, but whatever they are, those conditions could reappear in the future and cause a repeat unless she’s done some serious work to unpackage that.
So, I’m not going to say definitive no, but she better be bombing it out of the park in every other area for me to consider it and take that risk.
This post was edited on 1/11/23 at 12:56 pm
Posted on 1/11/23 at 12:55 pm to 420centraltime
If it was a really long time ago? Maybe, but probably not.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 12:59 pm to LSUcdro
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Everyone here will tell you no You will decide to do it anyway because pussy is powerful You will learn the hard way
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:03 pm to Aspercel
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Once a cheater, always a cheater
This x a million. Too many people out there to settle for cheating trash
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:10 pm to 420centraltime
date? yes
marry? no
at least you know she fricks
marry? no
at least you know she fricks
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:14 pm to 420centraltime
Another situation where it depends on the circumstances. A girl that cheated on a boyfriend in college? Sure. A girl that was recently divorced because of her cheating? Hell no. Lot of space between those two though.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:15 pm to 420centraltime
Absolutely not.
My husband and I have a pact, if you want to cheat just tell the other person. It would end the relationship, but no reason to ruin trust your partner has for the rest of their lif.
My husband and I have a pact, if you want to cheat just tell the other person. It would end the relationship, but no reason to ruin trust your partner has for the rest of their lif.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:17 pm to HoustonChick86
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if you want to cheat just tell the other person. It would end the relationship, but no reason to ruin trust your partner has for the rest of their lif.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:18 pm to 420centraltime
For me, I think it would depend on when did they cheat, and how.
Was it in high school/college, if so, I think I can forgive that. I think nearly everyone who had a high school/college relationship probably cheated a minimum of 1 time.
If it's in a full grown adult relationship, I may be less likely to forgive. But even still, if it was just a 1-time thing, as in out with the girls, got extremely too drunk, immediately regretted it. I can forgive that. If she was cheating in the sense that she had a full months long affair, frick NO.
Was it in high school/college, if so, I think I can forgive that. I think nearly everyone who had a high school/college relationship probably cheated a minimum of 1 time.
If it's in a full grown adult relationship, I may be less likely to forgive. But even still, if it was just a 1-time thing, as in out with the girls, got extremely too drunk, immediately regretted it. I can forgive that. If she was cheating in the sense that she had a full months long affair, frick NO.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:19 pm to 420centraltime
Are we talking agreed to go steady in 8th grade and then went to the roller rink with another guy? Or married to someone else and ran around on him? Context matters.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:19 pm to 420centraltime
For one thing, don’t date a bitch stupid enough to tell you much about prior relationships. And if you know about it firsthand …I cant help you.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:19 pm to 420centraltime
Define cheating. Was she married? Unless your married your pretty much always single.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:21 pm to tigersownall
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Unless your married your pretty much always single.
I used to pretty much feel this way back in the 70s and 80s, then I developed some character and morals
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