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re: would you date a woman that has cheated in a prior relationship?

Posted on 1/11/23 at 12:38 pm to
Posted by Steadyhands
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Member since May 2016
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Posted on 1/11/23 at 12:38 pm to
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How would you ever know?


This. If she's entirely open about a past of this and making it a point to claim she won't do it again, I'm more inclined to believe she absolutely will do it again.
Posted by public_enemy
Member since Feb 2015
4376 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 12:40 pm to
But the downside is, only other people
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 12:42 pm to
quote:

How would you ever know?


This. If she's entirely open about a past of this and making it a point to claim she won't do it again, I'm more inclined to believe she absolutely will do it again.



I've been out of that game for a long time but a trait common in women that I would see was that on the first or second date there would come a point in the evening that it was as if the chick had been given truth serum, they would typically spill their guts with their entire life story, whether I wanted to hear it or not
This post was edited on 1/11/23 at 12:56 pm
Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
32214 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 12:44 pm to
Heck no.
Posted by StupidBinder
Jawja
Member since Oct 2017
6392 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 12:54 pm to
A wise person once told me that “if you leave a bad relationship, remember that you always end up taking you with you”.

Whatever went down with the other guy, she made that choice…and you have no idea under what conditions she’d make that choice again. Heck, she might not even know, but whatever they are, those conditions could reappear in the future and cause a repeat unless she’s done some serious work to unpackage that.

So, I’m not going to say definitive no, but she better be bombing it out of the park in every other area for me to consider it and take that risk.
This post was edited on 1/11/23 at 12:56 pm
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67162 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 12:55 pm to
If it was a really long time ago? Maybe, but probably not.
Posted by Grateful Reb
Member since Apr 2011
8070 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 12:59 pm to
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Everyone here will tell you no You will decide to do it anyway because pussy is powerful You will learn the hard way


Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129037 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:03 pm to
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Once a cheater, always a cheater



This x a million. Too many people out there to settle for cheating trash
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
66208 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:10 pm to
date? yes

marry? no

at least you know she fricks
Posted by TomJoadGhost
Alabama
Member since Nov 2022
1003 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:14 pm to
Another situation where it depends on the circumstances. A girl that cheated on a boyfriend in college? Sure. A girl that was recently divorced because of her cheating? Hell no. Lot of space between those two though.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
57382 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:15 pm to
Absolutely not.

My husband and I have a pact, if you want to cheat just tell the other person. It would end the relationship, but no reason to ruin trust your partner has for the rest of their lif.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:17 pm to
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if you want to cheat just tell the other person. It would end the relationship, but no reason to ruin trust your partner has for the rest of their lif.


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Posted by QJenk
Atl, Ga
Member since Jan 2013
15356 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:18 pm to
For me, I think it would depend on when did they cheat, and how.

Was it in high school/college, if so, I think I can forgive that. I think nearly everyone who had a high school/college relationship probably cheated a minimum of 1 time.

If it's in a full grown adult relationship, I may be less likely to forgive. But even still, if it was just a 1-time thing, as in out with the girls, got extremely too drunk, immediately regretted it. I can forgive that. If she was cheating in the sense that she had a full months long affair, frick NO.
Posted by Hamma1122
Member since Sep 2016
19848 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:19 pm to
Nope
Posted by winkchance
St. George, LA
Member since Jul 2016
4126 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:19 pm to
Date?
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98273 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:19 pm to
Are we talking agreed to go steady in 8th grade and then went to the roller rink with another guy? Or married to someone else and ran around on him? Context matters.
Posted by Summerchild
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Member since Dec 2022
382 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:19 pm to
For one thing, don’t date a bitch stupid enough to tell you much about prior relationships. And if you know about it firsthand …I cant help you.
Posted by tigersownall
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2011
15352 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:19 pm to
Define cheating. Was she married? Unless your married your pretty much always single.
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
120379 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:20 pm to
Date yes
Marry no
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 1/11/23 at 1:21 pm to
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Unless your married your pretty much always single.



I used to pretty much feel this way back in the 70s and 80s, then I developed some character and morals
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