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women and dating apps

Posted on 7/11/20 at 7:07 am
Posted by Lincoln Dawson
Spanish Fort, AL
Member since Feb 2019
783 posts
Posted on 7/11/20 at 7:07 am
a friend of mine uses tinder and bumble --- this isn't so much about the apps. it's about the women today that use these apps. he's a good looking guy, divorced twice with two kids from two different moms. lots of baggage. but he has a good job and he travels quite a bit. as you can probably guess, he's meeting many different women in the states that he travels to. good for him.

what i can't grasp is that these women (he will send me screenshots) are for the most part good looking. one is in medical sales. another a trust fund girl. and they all send nudes prior to even meeting him in person. unsolicited. he keeps the conversation light via text and occasionally throws in a line such as i can't wait to see you or i can't wait to hold you or i'm just thinking about your profile pictures right now. and almost good as gold, within sometime minutes or hours, nudes start rolling in.

is this the norm on most dating apps? he also said on bumble that many of the women on there are very aggressive, which doesnt bother him - its just different today with dating apps vs. 15 to 20 years ago.
Posted by USMEagles
Member since Jan 2018
11811 posts
Posted on 7/11/20 at 7:08 am to
Well, it's kind of like eating at a place where they have pictures on the menu. They don't do that at Gallatoire's. Hell, they don't do it at Lone Star Steakhouse.

Also, the restaurant is Arby's.
Posted by GeauxWrek
Somewhere b/w Houston and BR
Member since Sep 2010
4293 posts
Posted on 7/11/20 at 7:08 am to
Not one damn pic
Posted by DavidTheGnome
Monroe
Member since Apr 2015
29142 posts
Posted on 7/11/20 at 7:08 am to
Girls are sluts
Posted by Hamma1122
Member since Sep 2016
19814 posts
Posted on 7/11/20 at 7:09 am to
It’s the norm
Posted by Elleshoe
Wade’s World
Member since Jun 2004
143616 posts
Posted on 7/11/20 at 7:11 am to
quote:

throws in a line such as i can't wait to see you or i can't wait to hold you or i'm just thinking about your profile pictures right now.


Damn his thumbs must be bruised from handling the game so long.
Posted by Nono
Member since Nov 2017
4820 posts
Posted on 7/11/20 at 7:17 am to
Looks matter to women.

Try looking like Shrek & see how effective dating apps are.


One guy did a troll by being a racist Nazi & he used a picture of a male model. He wasn’t told No too often.
Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
32514 posts
Posted on 7/11/20 at 7:19 am to
Yeah, my single friends slay on tinder. He let me play on it one day. I was getting nudes on his phones within minutes
Posted by Lincoln Dawson
Spanish Fort, AL
Member since Feb 2019
783 posts
Posted on 7/11/20 at 7:19 am to
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Damn his thumbs must be bruised from handling the game so long.



ive seen the lines he has sent them. and i'm thinking no way anyone would fall for this crap. but they do. he said that if he has to see them more than 2 x in person and they aren't fcuking he stops talking to them. said there is no need to waste his time when others who are out there are plentiful and willing.
Posted by No Colors
Sandbar
Member since Sep 2010
10334 posts
Posted on 7/11/20 at 7:19 am to
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Try looking like Shrek & see how effective dating apps are.

Look like Shrek and post a picture of your huge house, nice car, and fat bank account and chicks will treat you like Brad Pitt.
Posted by Proximo
Member since Aug 2011
15502 posts
Posted on 7/11/20 at 7:27 am to
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and they all send nudes prior to even meeting him in person. unsolicited


No, they don’t and your friend is a liar. The initial meeting is pretty quick (24-48 hours) and after that things may escalate.
Posted by Lincoln Dawson
Spanish Fort, AL
Member since Feb 2019
783 posts
Posted on 7/11/20 at 7:31 am to
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No, they don’t and your friend is a liar. The initial meeting is pretty quick (24-48 hours) and after that things may escalate


i know him very well and i know he is not bs'ing. he has no reason to. i've even been with him while he's getting texts back and can confirm my post to be true.

like i said, he's good looking, makes 6 figures (they don't know that at the start and probably none do unless it is "lasting" relationship. he's got a good story to tell that makes him even more attractive to women. and they reciprocate. he says that many women in their 30s and 40s get tons of hits on tinder but the pool they are looking at doesn't match up to what they want (good looking, career motivated, stable income, charming, funny, etc.) so he plays that to his advantage and the nudes, in his opinion, is what women do to try and "secure" him early on.
This post was edited on 7/11/20 at 7:32 am
Posted by immobileman
nowhere in particular
Member since Nov 2014
1852 posts
Posted on 7/11/20 at 7:32 am to
Maybe OP’s friend is better looking than you and does get nudes?
Posted by tigerbutt
Deep South
Member since Jun 2006
24567 posts
Posted on 7/11/20 at 7:36 am to
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Also, the restaurant is Arby's

I chuckled
Posted by TigrrrDad
Member since Oct 2016
7100 posts
Posted on 7/11/20 at 7:39 am to
I joined a dating site earlier this week to monitor it for a friend who thought his woman might be stepping out on that site (she wasn’t). I searched all the women age 40-59 in a 150 mile radius and there were very few good looking women on there - less than 10% I would even consider. I didn’t get any hits, but then again I named myself Chad and the photo I used was one of the New Iberia haircut baws I snatched from an old OT thread.

The site was meetmindful, which specializes in “enlightened” women. There are some strange broads on that site.
Posted by Lawyered
The Sip
Member since Oct 2016
29244 posts
Posted on 7/11/20 at 7:44 am to
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divorced twice with two kids from two different moms. lots of baggage


He will fit right in on the apps
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
52918 posts
Posted on 7/11/20 at 7:44 am to
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he says that many women in their 30s and 40s get tons of hits on tinder

Lol nah I swipe left on anything older than 27

Nobody wants those old washed up bitches
Posted by Elleshoe
Wade’s World
Member since Jun 2004
143616 posts
Posted on 7/11/20 at 7:47 am to
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Lol nah I swipe left on anything older than 27


No old boomers for gaucho
Posted by TigrrrDad
Member since Oct 2016
7100 posts
Posted on 7/11/20 at 7:49 am to
This is one woman's profile on there:

quote:

I'm a highly intuitive empath, INFJ personality type, and love helping people

and animals. I'm an intellectual and some of my interests include esoteric science,

sacred geometry, Cosmic Disclosure, meditating, yoga, Reiki, raising my

vibration, being of service to others, crop circles, extra terrestrials, other

dimensions, being out of the matrix, finding my own truth, the Mandela Effect,

Higgs Boson, alchemy, the Voynich manuscript, quantum physics, CERN and

how humankind is opening doors to things they will never comprehend,

ascension, consciousness, lucid dreaming, remote viewing, Buddhism, David

Wilcock, Corey Goode, Stephen Hawking, ancient Egypt, the pyramids

and their purpose, ancient technology, alien technology, self sustainability, living

off grid, Ubuntu, time travel, energy healing and too many others to list. I don't

have cable but I did get a Roku so that I could watch all the wonderful programs on Gaiam TV online. I'm very much aware of who controls the media and I'd rather watch something that will expand my consciousness and help me on my spiritual journey.


She don't need a dating app to get laid - she just needs the Q thread on the Poli Board.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
66982 posts
Posted on 7/11/20 at 7:50 am to
quote:

its just different today with dating apps vs. 15 to 20 years ago.


Yeah. You don’t have to pick up drunk skanks in bars anymore. Now you just text them.

There isn’t much difference
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