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Wives going on vacations. What's the O-T's rules on this?
Posted on 12/2/24 at 10:32 am
Posted on 12/2/24 at 10:32 am
When is it okay, and not okay. I always see people's wives' doing girls vacations together. Where is the line drawn, with family?
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Posted on 12/2/24 at 10:34 am to The Scofflaw
We do not own our wives, they are free to travel.
If her vacationing is putting undo stress on your family, you married wrong.
If her vacationing is putting undo stress on your family, you married wrong.
Posted on 12/2/24 at 10:35 am to DarthRebel
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If her vacationing is putting undo stress on your family, you married wrong.
well this is an original topic, one that we've never the likes of around here
Posted on 12/2/24 at 10:35 am to The Scofflaw
I have no issue with my wife taking a girls trip.
She has no issue with me taking a guys trip.
People need to be respectful of their marriages.
She has no issue with me taking a guys trip.
People need to be respectful of their marriages.
Posted on 12/2/24 at 10:35 am to The Scofflaw
Pics of said wife(s)?
Posted on 12/2/24 at 10:36 am to The Scofflaw
my wife is going on a vacation with her boyfriend
Posted on 12/2/24 at 10:36 am to The Scofflaw
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What's the O-T's rules on this?
It starts with pics of wives. Everyone knows that.
Posted on 12/2/24 at 10:37 am to The Scofflaw
My wife goes every couple of years on a trip with here long time friends. They’ve been doing it for 12 years.
Posted on 12/2/24 at 10:37 am to The Scofflaw
We are social people. I have a big group of friends I see pretty much every week between dinners, happy hours, etc., as does my husband. Not being comfortable with each other going on occasional trips with our friends would be bizarre considering our lifestyle.
On the flip side, my parents didn't have those sorts of friendships/groups and seldom did anything apart like that beyond like.. dad going fishing for the weekend with a bud.
To each their own.
Just flew in at 2am today from being in upstate NY and then NYC with two of my best girlfriends.
On the flip side, my parents didn't have those sorts of friendships/groups and seldom did anything apart like that beyond like.. dad going fishing for the weekend with a bud.
To each their own.
Just flew in at 2am today from being in upstate NY and then NYC with two of my best girlfriends.
Posted on 12/2/24 at 10:39 am to notiger1997
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My wife goes every couple of years on a trip with here long time friends. They’ve been doing it for 12 years.
mine takes trips with her friends a couple a times a year, I usually take a trip or two with friends myself, no big deal
Posted on 12/2/24 at 10:41 am to The Scofflaw
Depends on who she's going with. A couple of my wife's friends are shady arse women who wouldn't hesitate to put the group in a difficult situation...not even necessarily anything regarding fidelity, just stupid, stupid shite (fights, drugs, wandering off, etc.). Anyone else she wants to go with, have at it!
Posted on 12/2/24 at 10:42 am to LouisianaLady
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dad going fishing for the weekend with a bud.
I remember that movie
Posted on 12/2/24 at 10:42 am to The Scofflaw
Throw some condoms in her toiletry bag, tell her to make wise choices, and hope for the best brother.
Posted on 12/2/24 at 10:42 am to mmmmmbeeer
I can tell when my wife goes on vacation...
The sex is the same, but the dishes stack up.
The sex is the same, but the dishes stack up.
Posted on 12/2/24 at 10:43 am to mmmmmbeeer
as long as its not like to Disney or Cancun by themselves, that would be weird, but a girls trip every once in a while is fine,
Posted on 12/2/24 at 10:43 am to The Scofflaw
I guess if it's to a cooking show or something.
Posted on 12/2/24 at 10:44 am to The Scofflaw
I take at least one guys trip yearly. If my wife wants to take a girls trip, I'm completely fine with it. We have a good marriage built on respect and trust though, so that's a big factor. 
I suppose a line I would take issue with is if she randomly wanted to go to a "party" destination with a group of girls I didn't know.
I suppose a line I would take issue with is if she randomly wanted to go to a "party" destination with a group of girls I didn't know.
Posted on 12/2/24 at 10:44 am to The Scofflaw
my wife does this once a year, but it's always with other ladies that have a similar moral code.
and i don't mean "goes to church on Sunday, but still get plastered at the concert Saturday night."
i travel for a living and spend 50 nights a year in a hotel. i've done it for 12 years without cheating, if she can trust me for that, i can trust her. i'm sure she could be taking a bunch of dongs while there, but not letting her go on a trip isn't going to be what keeps her from cheating.
if she wanted to go on a cruise or party location, i'd feel a bit stronger about it (i.e. those Kentucky girls that definitely banged the help and claimed rape.)
and i don't mean "goes to church on Sunday, but still get plastered at the concert Saturday night."
i travel for a living and spend 50 nights a year in a hotel. i've done it for 12 years without cheating, if she can trust me for that, i can trust her. i'm sure she could be taking a bunch of dongs while there, but not letting her go on a trip isn't going to be what keeps her from cheating.
if she wanted to go on a cruise or party location, i'd feel a bit stronger about it (i.e. those Kentucky girls that definitely banged the help and claimed rape.)
This post was edited on 12/2/24 at 10:47 am
Posted on 12/2/24 at 10:44 am to greenbean
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I guess if it's to a cooking show or something.
Posted on 12/2/24 at 10:45 am to The Scofflaw
As long as they don't frick other guys on vacation, and if she does. As long as you don't find out about it, I don't see an issue
This post was edited on 12/2/24 at 10:48 am
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